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Yung Baby Tate Encouraged Fans To Post ‘Natural’ Selfies In Response To A Troll’s Body-Shaming

In addition to cultivating a flourishing career, Atlanta rapper-singer Yung Baby Tate is apparently a world-class clapback artist, as she recently proved when an Instagram influencer tried to body-shame her for having natural belly fat.

Ayesha Howard, who goes by @little.ms.golden on Instagram, commented on a photo of Yung Baby Tate performing at Afropunk over the weekend, apparently incensed by Tate’s caption praising natural bodies. Quoting Beyonce, Tate wrote, “As Queen Bey once said, “wanna see some REAL A$$?! Baby here’s your chance!” Shoutout to all my natural bellied bodies. I see you, I am you, I love you. No matter WHAT my body looks like, it is MINE and I love it! Please go project your insecurities onto a piece of paper, burn it, and throw it away. Then go look in the mirror and tell yourself how much you are loved.”

Howard, who seems to have taken the caption as a diss to women who get plastic surgery, commented, “I’m all for being natural and loving the skin you are in but that’s not just what a natural body looks like that’s a natural body with no discipline, structure and poor eating habits in their lifestyle…Girls that work out don’t look like this.” She also equated the belly fat to poor health, which… girl, no. “She’s a performer she should want the best for herself all around,” she wrote. “[I]t’s not just about looks but in her job presentation is everything and she needs to be healthy enough to do it.”

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Tate apparently had time to respond. In a tweet, she attributed Howard’s comments to pettiness and jealousy, writing, “Everyone is saying imma eat the unmarried Ayesha up for her comments on my belly but honestly her life is rocky enough. I think she saw the word “baby” in my name and got triggered so I’ll give her a pass on this beautiful WEDnesday.” Tate wasn’t finished yet, though. Next, she posted a clip of herself driving in her car and lip-syncing to her upcoming single “Pedi” on which she crows, “Real ass bitch and I might be crazy, but at least I’m authentic.”

Finally, she turned the whole exchange into a positive, teachable moment, posting a tweet reading, “natural bodied babes quote this with ur fav body pics!” Since then, she’s been retweeting and affirming followers sending her their photos, and reminding followers that “MY BODY is MY BODY to work on or NOT!”

See the exchange and Tate’s encouraging comebacks above.

Yung Baby Tate is a Warner Music artist. Uproxx is an independent subsidiary of Warner Music Group.

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Alessandro Nivola Is Surprised, Too, That He’s The Lead In ‘The Many Saints Of Newark’

In The Many Saints of Newark, Alessandro Nivola plays Dickie Moltisanti, the much talked about father of Christopher Moltisanti on The Sopranos. Much talked about, yes, but we never really knew much about Dickie. And when David Chase started casting for The Many Saints of Newark, no one really knew who the lead character would be. (There was some assumption it would be Tony Soprano’s father, Johnny Boy Soprano.) Also not knowing who the lead character would be was Alessandro Nivola, who didn’t figure it out until he got the full script sent to him while he was on a flight and realized he’s in almost every scene. Nivola has been around awhile and has done some great work (he is great in Disobedience), but he also realizes, now even in his 40s, playing the lead in a Sopranos movie is a big break.

In Alan Taylor’s The Many Saints of Newark, Dickie’s crew is challenged by a new crew, led by his former friend who used to be on Dickie’s payroll, Harold McBrayer (Leslie Odom Jr.), which sets off a gang war in Newark between Italian and Black gangs. Caught in the middle of this is young Tony Soprano (Michael Gandolfini), who looks up to his uncle Dickie, but Dickie slowly realizes the less influence he has on Tony, the better. The scenes between Dickie and Tony are key for understanding their relationship. And as Nivola explains, he and Gandolfini took it upon themselves to build some rapport before they shot. (And, hopefully, that rapport is still intact after the premiere party where Nivola’s toilet was leaking into Gandolfini’s room.)

How are you doing?

I’m alright. I had a late night last night…

Oh yeah, the premiere party?

It was great. I had lots of friends and family and everything, but then I got woken up at the crack of dawn by the hotel, telling me that my toilet was leaking down into Michael Gandolfini’s room underneath me.

Well, that’s not good.

I had to pack up and leave.

You look a lot less menacing after a night out, as opposed to the movie.

I’ll take that as a compliment.

I hope you had fun though, other than the toilet part.

No, it was great. I think all of Staten Island watched the movie. But actually, in terms of just watching the movie and trying to get a feel for how the audience is responding to different moments and to the evolution of the story and the characters, it’s not very representative. And, in some ways, I almost feel like things get missed in that atmosphere, in that raucous atmosphere.

Yeah, sometimes it’s like, “You missed an important line while you were applauding.”

It’s true. Well, last night, they were laughing at lines that they knew were coming, just because some of them were such big fans. There’s that line that everybody in The Sopranos always quotes about Junior saying that Tony didn’t have the makings of a varsity athlete. Junior’s about to say the line. He hasn’t even said it, and the whole audience started laughing.

Well, this had to be big for you, because you’re the star of this movie, and then you’ve had to wait so long for people to see it. What are you feeling? Is it relief? It’s been, “I’m the star of The Sopranos movie and no one can see it.”

I think relief was probably the perfect word to describe it. It actually is three years from the day that I was cast in this thing, to actually having it out in theaters. And it was a bit like those sort of dog races, where they dangle that little rabbit or whatever it is in front of the dogs, and they keep trying to take a bite out of it, and it keeps getting pulled out of their mouths. I just want to kind of move on now.

It’d be funny if after you said that, you ended the interview. “So I’m done with this. I’m done talking about this. Goodbye.”

Yeah. I decided to move on, just before you called me.

Right now, right this second.

No, look, the whole thing has already changed my life and my career and all that kind of thing. Even though I’ve made a couple of movies since this one, or three movies since this one, I haven’t been able to kind of just really look to the future and let it go, just because of this long wait. And so, I’m looking forward to that.

You’ve been doing this a long time. Was there ever a “holy shit, I just got cast in the lead role in The Sopranos movie” moment? How long did it take for that to sink in?

Not long. I mean, the funny thing was when I had auditioned for the role, I didn’t know. He’d only sent me five scenes from the movie. They were the five big, most climactic scenes of the film. Like a mime, I had to, in the privacy of my own bedroom, carry out ghoulish murders. But I didn’t have the whole script. And so I didn’t even realize that it was the lead of the movie when I first started taping these scenes. I thought the scenes were pretty good and that the character seemed pretty interesting, but I didn’t really understand the stakes of the whole thing until after I’d met David and Alan. And then I was on my way to the airport to go visit my wife (Emily Mortimer) in Australia, who was filming in Melbourne. And the script came through on my phone, and I got on the plane. And then I read it on the plane to Melbourne. And by the time I got there, the stakes had gone way up…

So you’re reading this going, “Well, I’m in every scene.”

It really suddenly became a thing at that point. And then, of course, I had to wait for six weeks or something before I was cast. But it was clear to me the minute the call came through that it was a role that I had been waiting for, for 25 years of a movie career.

Well, what’s interesting, too, you are one of the few actors in this that kind of can make this character their own. You and probably Ray and Leslie? Corey Stoll can’t be like, “I think Junior should speak in falsetto,” and see how that goes.

Yeah. And even in so far as that the character has a kind of mythological quality in the series and that he looms over the series, because everyone talks about him. David Chase told me when we were starting to film that I shouldn’t pay any attention to anything that anyone had said about him in the series, because they’re all liars…

Which we find out is very true.

Yeah. He cut me loose from the feeling that I had to honor some kind of description of him that the series had made, but it was also a little bit intimidating because I had to create the character from scratch. And luckily, I had six months to prepare for this one. I normally get cast a week before, because some guy dropped out. And this, I had a really long time. Yes, I have an Italian name, and half my family are Italian immigrants, but this was really a role that required transformation for me. And, certainly, my life experience was nothing like these guys. Although I did have things to draw on, just in terms of growing up in a household where, when I was younger, they were speaking Italian, and there was a physicality and rhythms of speech and things, but it was a character study for me.

So much of the movie hinges on your relationship with Michael Gandolfini’s character. Pre-toilet incident, what was your relationship like? I’m curious if you hung out with him before shooting, to get some sort of rapport down. Which happens to be one of the most famous characters in television history.

Well, we knew it was important that we have an easy rapport together, because David is so un-sentimental, that he doesn’t write these characters saying, “I love you, man,” or whatever. I mean, that’s just not in his lexicon.

He’s not known for that. No.

So the audience needed to feel, to sense that kind of affection between us and that history between us and that closeness without us having to say it. So we did. We would get together once a week at this diner in downtown Brooklyn called Junior’s Cafe.

Oh, their cakes are amazing.

Yeah!

That’s a good place to hang out.

We didn’t really talk about the movie that much. We would just talk about our lives. Both of our dads had died, and we talked about that. And I think we were both feeling quite a lot of pressure and expectation coming into the job, just because he was just starting his acting career and having this potentially career-defining role that his dad had made famous. And I, fairly late in the game, to be having a kind of breakthrough role was being offered the same opportunity. And so, I think we were able to kind of be open about that and joke about it. And it was something that drew us closer. And so, by the time we started filming, I really felt a kind of filial bond with him. So those scenes were really easy to play.

‘The Many Saints of Newark’ opens this weekend in theaters and streams via HBO Max. You can contact Mike Ryan directly on Twitter.

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Utah Jazz 2021-22 Season Preview: Justified Urgency

The 2020-21 Utah Jazz enjoyed a tremendous regular season, leading the NBA in both win-loss record (52-20) and net rating (+9.0). Donovan Mitchell furthered his breakout from the Orlando Bubble, with Mike Conley performing at a very high level and Rudy Gobert anchoring an elite defense with DPOY-level contributions. However, the Jazz fell short in the second round of the NBA Playoffs against the Los Angeles Clippers, leading to an offseason full of questions and murmurs on whether Utah can take the next step in a postseason setting.

Roster:

Udoka Azubuike
Bojan Bogdanovic
Jared Butler
Jordan Clarkson
Mike Conley
Trent Forrest
Rudy Gay
Rudy Gobert
Elijah Hughes
Joe Ingles
Justin James
Donovan Mitchell
Royce O’Neale
Miye Oni
Eric Paschall
Hassan Whiteside

Projected Vegas Win Total: 51.5 wins

Biggest Addition: Rudy Gay

It was a quiet offseason overall for the Jazz in terms of high-profile transactions. Utah did add an interesting element with Rudy Gay, though, and it could unlock some lineup flexibility. One of the major uncertainties with the Jazz last season was a virtual inability to play small, and Gay can help to do that as a power forward option with flexibility. He isn’t the athlete or defender that he used to be, but Gay gives them another forward-sized piece that can potentially be trusted in high-leverage situations.

Biggest Loss: Derrick Favors

As noted above, there wasn’t a lot of turmoil in terms of the transaction wire, and Favors was the biggest name that headed out the door. Utah now has more uncertainty at backup center than they have in quite a while, but Favors also didn’t play at a particularly high level for most of last season. He is younger than you think (30), and perhaps Favors can find himself in Oklahoma City, but the Jazz can probably piece something together for a much smaller cost.

Biggest Question: Perimeter Defense

Utah’s playoff exit got a lot of attention, particularly since they were the No. 1 seed. Rudy Gobert got a lot of blame in struggling against the small, speedy lineups for the Clippers, but the biggest issue was the Jazz’s perimeter resistance. Donovan Mitchell and Mike Conley were both less than 100 percent from a health standpoint, making it much worse, but Utah has long been void of high-end defers outside of Royce O’Neale. The Jazz didn’t really button it up in terms of their offseason activity, so they will need an uptick from Mitchell and Conley must stay healthy as well.

What Makes This Season A Success

The Jazz had the best record in the league last season but fell short of the Western Conference Finals. It isn’t as if that was terribly shocking, but Utah’s public comments have pointed to a sense of urgency. As such, a deep playoff run would be the way to describe a successful season for the Jazz. That’s the nature of an established, expensive team with lofty expectations.

What Makes This Season A Failure

Regular season success can only do so much for the Jazz at this point, especially after last season. Utah could repeat as the No. 1 seed but, if they lose in the first two rounds, it will probably feel like a failure on some level. On one hand, there are other teams (Lakers, Suns, etc.) with similar playoff expectations, but the Jazz need to break through and now is as good of a time as any.

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Broadway’s Production Of ‘Aladdin’ Shut Down Due To A COVID Outbreak Just One Day After Reopening

And—poof!—just like that, the Genie is back in his magic lamp. Just one day after making its magical return to the stage, the Broadway production of Aladdin was shut down on Wednesday after unnamed cast and/or crew members tested positive for COVID-19.

As Vulture reports, the cancellation of the performance was announced via Twitter, stating that, “Through our rigorous testing protocols, breakthrough COVID-19 cases have been detected within the company of Aladdin at The New Amsterdam Theatre.”

“Broadway is back, [and] coming back more every single week,” Mayor Bill de Blasio said earlier this month, according to the New York Post. On Tuesday, September 19, some of the Great White Way’s biggest shows—including Hamilton, Wicked, Chicago, and The Lion King—were among those being presented at full capacity, which seemed to thrill the mayor. “When Broadway is up and running, it says so much about New York City,” he said during that day’s press briefing.

That was just a little over a week ago.

While so far Aladdin is the only show that has had to draw the curtains, it’s not likely to be the last.

Though the tweet notes that “we will communicate the status of future performances tomorrow,” so far there has been no word on whether the status of this evening’s performance (though, as of 3:30 p.m., tickets are still being sold).

(Via Vulture)

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Halsey Dropped Four New Remixes Of ‘I Am Not A Woman, I’m A God’

After recently becoming a mom, Halsey has been very open about how much the experience has changed them. They decided to let fans know that their pronouns would be “she/her” as well as “they/them,” and made breastfeeding a prominent part of the album art and introduction of their new album, If I Can’t Have Love, I Want Power. Working with Trent Reznor and Atticus Ross of Nine Inch Nails on this new project, the pop star has been really open about how the pair pushed her to make “really weird choices” and get out of her comfort zone for a new sound.

And it seems like they’re carrying that same ethos into the remixes and additions that are following up the official release of the record. Today, Halsey shared not one, not two, not even three but four alternate takes on the album’s early single “I Am Not A Woman, I’m A God,” enlisting artists like Hot Chip (above), Underworld, Gazelle Twin and Adrian Sherwood. So while there might be no features on the official album’s tracklist, these alternatives will give fans a taste of how other artists are influencing Halsey’s sound in their own way. Check out the remixes below and Hot Chip’s take up top.

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Robert Pattinson’s Out There Cracking Jokes About Hoarding Memorabilia While Teasing ‘The Batman’ At DC Fandome

After recently becoming a member of the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts and Sciences, noted microwave exploder Robert Pattinson stopped by the premiere of the Academy Museum on Wednesday night where he cracked jokes about his pending financial ruin while ever so slightly teasing his upcoming role in The Batman.

When asked by Variety‘s Angelique Jackson what memorabilia from his film’s he’d donate to the museum, Pattinson thought for a second, and then joked he’s holding onto everything so he can sell when it he’s broke.

After Jackson noted that a Penquin prosthetic from Tim Burton’s Batman Returns was on display, the conversation naturally shifted to The Batman, which Pattinson confirmed will have a presence at DC FanDome.

“Me and Zoë [Kravitz] did some stuff. It’s a fun little thing,” Pattinson told Variety. “There are lots of little surprises for it.”

However, don’t expect much in the way of details. All Pattinson could say about his upcoming turn as the Dark Knight is that it’s “really cool.” Easy there, Chatty Kathy!

As for the chances of him going broke anytime soon, don’t count it. Pattinson reportedly raked in $25 million for the last two Twilight films. However, the actor reportedly only pulled in a $3 million salary for The Batman, which is low by Hollywood standards, but absolutely nowhere near the poor house.

(Via Variety)

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Chase Young Talks Accountability And Why He Loves Having Dogs

Things haven’t gone particularly great for the Washington Football Team three weeks through the 2021 NFL season. The team sits at 1-2 at this early point of the year, with their most recent loss being a 43-21 drubbing at the hands of the Buffalo Bills.

But despite the loss and the rough start to things, Young is confident that things will get better for the reigning champions of the NFC East. He also is a big believer in setting a standard of accountability, something that he says was instilled in him by his grandfather from a young age. It’s helped Young get pretty far up to this point — a top-10 recruit, a unanimous All-American at Ohio State, a Heisman finalist, etc. — and if all goes well, it should continue to guide him through a promising NFL career.

Uproxx Sports caught up with Young through USAA to talk about his game, Ohio State, his love of dogs, and much more.

What have your thoughts been on your team through three weeks, and what are your thoughts on how you’ve played three games into the season?

Yeah, we definitely can be better as a unit, just in terms of playing together, being locked in with each other. In that sense, I feel like if we can fix that, then you’ll see a lot of things turn around for us. I’m definitely a part of the team, so myself, I have to work on staying locked in with my guys, communicating on the field, and just making sure everything is clear, just try to help the defense as a whole. So, yeah, we’re definitely looking forward to Atlanta, just keep going hard.

I’m always interested in how guys approach their first full offseason in the league, you don’t worry about the Draft anything like that. What was your approach and focus this past offseason and how was that shaped by having a year in the NFL under your belt?

Yeah, I was focused really on being in shape, being at my body weight, working on my feet and ankles a lot. Definitely a lot of little things this offseason, I know from my first year what I needed. So, I just worked on everything, but paid close attention to those things.

Want to ask about how other teams approach you. Have you noticed the way that other teams approach the challenge of keep Chase Young out of the backfield change at all compared to your rookie year?

Yeah, definitely. Chips, slides, you know, that’s what happens. I’m up for the challenge with all that, it just comes with the game. And, you know, the best work through it.

I love watching your entire group play, because you have such a young and deep and talented defensive line that is the foundation for everything the defense does. How do you guys make one another better just by being around each other every day?

I feel like our motors, everybody wants to be great. That right there, just knowing how we practice, put in the effort that the guys around me put in, I just know I have to put in the same amount or even more.

I spoke to Sterling Shepherd last week, and he talked about the guys in the league whose games he really likes studying, taking a bit of their game and applying it to his own. Are there guys in the NFL, either now or from the past, who you’re like that with?

Yeah, definitely. Khalil Mack was definitely, coming out of college, my favorite. I studied a lot of Robert Quinn, great get off. I study Aaron Donald. He’s interior, but he uses techniques that you can use when outside as well. That’s just three dimensions, but definitely a lot more.

I want to ask you real quick about Ohio State and this Ohio State football team, because I live in Columbus and you know the standard that fans have for this program. What have your thoughts been on the team through the first four weeks?

I feel like they’re working through it. At the end of the day, it’s hard to win Big Ten football games, it’s hard to win division one level football games. At the end of the day, they’re winning, obviously they know they got to tighten up as we do on our defense. Coach Day, great coach, player’s coach, that’s my guy. He’s gonna make sure, I know he’s going to get things together, and I know coach J [defensive line coach Larry Johnson] is not going to stop me. He’s always the last coach in their, coaching us, and he’s going hard on those boys and making sure they just keep the standards.

Anyone who follows recruiting know Ohio State’s always elite, but that defensive line recruiting is next level. What is it about the Buckeyes that makes it so the guys like you, the guys like Zack Harrison, the guys like Taron Vinson, Jack Sawyer and JT Tuimoloau from last year, go “that is the best place for me”?

Yeah, it’s really the proof is in the pudding. Coach J, I believe he’s the best d-line coach in the country. This is just what it is, you go in there and he shows you the film of how he can change a player’s whole game from their freshman year to their junior year. You just sit there like, man, I can’t give this up, he can do this to me.

Want to ask about USAA. What do you have going on with them?

Yeah, so me, USAA, ESPN, I brought them to my home, showed them around, the things I like, how I go about my business here in VA. I have dogs, always been a dog lover growing up. And just showed them out here in the countryside and how we do things.

You mentioned your grandfather and his military background. How did that help shape you into a guy who became a five star recruit, a Heisman finalist, a top-5 pick and one of the defense best defensive players in the league?

I feel like accountability and just to know how to be a man, not being afraid to get your hands dirty. And seeing that from a young age, seeing that from an infant all the way up to the seventh grade, that was like my foundation that was instilled in me. It’s definitely still in me to this day, just how I handle and carry myself.

On that sense of accountability, how do you bring that and that mentality to everything you do as a football player — practice, games, talking to teammates and coaches, etc.?

Just, what type of pro do you want to be? Are you taking those opportunities to get better every time? That’s really what it comes down to. And right now, we’re doing our best to fulfill every opportunity just to get better.

I also have a dog and I’ve never related stronger to an athlete than when you talk about just how peaceful walking a dog can be. Have you always been a dog person and what is it about draw dogs that you are drawn to?

I was a dog person, I had dogs growing up in my house. I don’t know, I mean, you always can look to a dog for comfort. I guess you being the owner, you’re kind of only family that they have. They’re just a part of the family just like anybody else, and my dogs, they can run out on my land, I can leave them outside all night, it’s real cool, real peaceful. I can wake up and go outside and my dogs will be outside, it’s real peaceful out here in the country.

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Joel Embiid Gave A Lengthy Answer On Why The Sixers ‘Have Always Been Built Around’ Ben Simmons’ Needs

Earlier this week, a report came out related to the seemingly never-ending saga that is Ben Simmons’ efforts to play his next basketball game with a team that is not the Philadelphia 76ers. According to Sam Amick of The Athletic, Simmons is of the belief that playing alongside Joel Embiid is no longer tenable, and while there is no personal animosity on his end towards the reigning MVP runner-up, Simmons thinks the two just can’t coexist on the basketball court.

While Doc Rivers apparently had a plan to try and stagger their minutes more and let Simmons play in a role reminiscent to that of Giannis Antetokounmpo — ball in his hands, surrounded by shooting, let him attack the rim and make decisions from there — it apparently did not pique his interest. Amid all of this, Embiid has spoken a few times, but on Thursday, he brought a level of candidness about the whole situation that has been rare.

Embiid met with the media and gave a lengthy answer about Simmons’ apparent gripe about how he fits. The All-Star center posited that the team has largely been built around the skill set of his soon-to-be former teammate, why he believes getting rid of Jimmy Butler was “a mistake,” how the situation as a whole has impacted the locker room, and fact that, despite all of this, the team wants to bring Simmons back.

Whether Embiid is correct or not can (and will be) discussed, but with how this entire situation has played out — players, coaches, etc. in Philly making clear they want Simmons back, reports indicating he has no interest that happen, no real traction on a trade appearing to exist — it’s a bit eyebrow raising that Embiid decided to be this forthright about the current state of affairs with the franchise. Perhaps this will lead to some sort of escalation regarding Simmons’ exit, but probably not.

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A man grossly misjudged how to speak to girls and got expertly handled by a Girl Scout

This article originally appeared on 03.09.20


Somewhere in Salt Lake City, a Girl Scout is getting allll the good mojo from The People of the Internet.

Over the weekend, Eli McCann shared a story of an encounter at a Girl Scout cookie stand that has people throwing their fists in the air and shouting, YES! THAT’S HOW IT’S DONE. (Or maybe that’s just me. But I’m guessing most of the 430,000 people who liked his story had a similar reaction.)


“I just saw the most wild thing!” McCann wrote on Twitter. “A man started walking toward the Girl Scouts cookie stand in front of the grocery store and he yelled ‘My bitches are BACK’ and this Girl Scout just yelled ‘No. Walk away.’ AND HE DID.”

So simple. So straightforward. But it gets even better.

McCann wrote out the full story on his blog, It Just Gets Stranger, offering some extra details to his tweets.

“It was truly jarring,” he wrote of the man’s exclamation. “Like, it was sort of the last thing I expected anyone to say. My mind suddenly rebooted. The six or so other people who were all standing around in front of the grocery store froze and looked at him. I opened my mouth to say something, but then really didn’t know what to say.”

“It was unclear who he was calling ‘bitches,'” he continued. “If it was the Girl Scouts, well obviously that was terrible. If it was the cookies, I mean that’s kind of funny (don’t @ me), but totally inappropriate to say to a bunch of 12 year olds (is that how old Girl Scouts are?). Either way, he shouldn’t have said it and I don’t know what could have possibly made him think this was a fine way to approach a group of Girl Scouts.”

McCann said the girl’s response was immediate, and it floored everyone. “Her tone was so full of confidence and sass,” he wrote. “It was the most perfectly delivered line I have ever heard.”

“This dude completely froze. He just stopped walking. His face went bright red. His mouth was sort of gaping open. He did this very awkward and stilted nod, almost apologetic, abruptly turned around, and shuffled back to his car at like 6-minute-mile pace. The girl just death stared him all the way through his walk of shame.”

McCann says it took him a bit to digest what he’d just seen.

“I ended up walking into the store and the entire time I was shopping I was just trying to process what had happened. I kept replaying it over and over and wondering if I had misheard or misunderstood something,” he wrote.

“Who was this guy? Did he just make the biggest miscalculation of his life? Is he going to move away and start a new life now? Is that girl going to be president one day? Can I adopt her? Can she adopt me? Can I start a cult to follow her?”

As he was leaving the store, he went up to the girl to compliment her—then got another perfectly delivered line from the intrepid Girl Scout.

“Two adult women were standing behind the girl (the troop leaders, I assume),” he wrote. “I said to the girl, ‘I saw how you handled that man earlier. That was really really impressive. Your troop is pretty lucky to have you.'”

“And this girl. This Goddess of a human. The one I’m for sure going to worship if ever she starts a religion. Without stuttering. With perfect comedic timing. She responded:

You gotta be pretty tough if you’re gonna go out in THIS outfit.‘”

OMG.

Let’s all give this girl a virtual high five for her gumption and wit. It takes a lot of courage to say something to an adult when you’re a kid, especially a man who is doing something inappropriate. The fact that she seemed to have been perfectly prepared for that moment, shutting him down so immediately and decisively that everyone in the vicinity stopped to take note, is so dang impressive.

This is what happens when you teach girls their true worth and encourage them not to accept anything less than respect and dignity. Gotta love it.

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One man turned nursing home design on its head when he created this stunning facility.

This article originally appeared on 09.08.16

92-year-old Norma had a strange and heartbreaking routine.

Every night around 5:30 p.m., she stood up and told the staff at her Ohio nursing home that she needed to leave. When they asked why, she said she needed to go home to take care of her mother. Her mom, of course, had long since passed away.

Behavior like Norma’s is quite common for older folks suffering from Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia. Walter, another man in the same assisted living facility, demanded breakfast from the staff every night around 7:30.


Jean Makesh, CEO of Lantern assisted living facilities, says he meets folks with stories like these every day. It’s their stories that inspired him to make some changes at Lantern.

“I thought I knew a lot about elderly care. The more and more time I was spending with my clients, that’s when I realized, ‘Oh my god, I have no clue.'”

Confusion is common in Alzheimer’s patients, but Makesh knew there had to be some way to minimize these conflicts.

A big believer in the idea that our environment has an enormous effect on us, he started thinking big — and way outside the box.

“What if we design an environment that looks like outside?” he said. “What if I can have a sunrise and sunset inside the building? What if I’m able to have the moon and stars come out? What if I build a unit that takes residents back to the ’30s and ’40s?”

And that was just the beginning. He also researched sound therapy. And aromatherapy. And carpet that looked like grass. No idea was off-limits.

What he came up with was a truly unique memory-care facility. And after testing the concept in Lantern’s Madison, Ohio, facility, Makesh is opening two new locations this year.

Instead of rooms or units, each resident gets a “home” on a quiet little indoor street reminiscent of the neighborhoods many of them grew up in.

All photos courtesy of Lantern.

Instead of a boring panel ceiling, residents look up and see a digital sky, which grows dimmer late in the day to help keep their biological clocks in tune.

Throughout the day, nature sounds and fresh aromas like peppermint or citrus are piped in.

Some studies have shown that this kind of aromatherapy may indeed have some merits for improving cognitive functioning in Alzheimer’s patients.

There’s even a little “main street” where residents can gather.

For Makesh, this isn’t just about making patients comfortable, though. He wants to change how we think about the endgame of severe dementia.

The insides of the rooms aren’t too shabby, either.

Makesh said one of the frustrating shortcomings of most nursing facilities is that they create conflicts with unnatural environments and schedules, and they try to solve them by throwing antipsychotic and anti-anxiety medications at patients. In other words, when someone has severe dementia, we often give up on them. From there, they stop getting the engagement their brain needs to thrive.

Of course, we’re a long way from a cure for Alzheimer’s.

But Makesh’s project shows that when we think strategically about altering the environment and focus on helping people relearn essential self-care and hygiene skills, the near-impossible becomes possible.

“In five years, we’re going to [be able to] rehabilitate our clients where they can live independently in our environment,” he said. “In 10 years, we’re going to be able to send them back home.”

He knows it’s a lofty goal. And whether he’ll meet it remains to be seen. But in the meantime, he’s proud to own one of the few places that offers something pretty rare in cases of severe dementia: hope.