Having a baby changes your body and while it may seem that some people pop right back to their pre-pregnancy size, not every one does. The expectation for people to be able to wear their old clothes mere weeks after birthing a tiny human is practically impossible for the vast majority of the human population. But it doesn’t stop us from comparing and grieving the body that was once so familiar.
These drastic changes can leave people feeling self-conscious and defeated. Sophia Bullis was feeling a bit less confident about her new body after giving birth to a son she shares with fiancé Jeff. The new mom hasn’t worn a dress since the baby was born due to these insecurities so she wanted to surprise Jeff with sporting an adorable white summer dress. In order to catch his genuine reaction, she set up her camera and it’s giving everyone the feels.
Jeff is clearly the ultimate hype man. He comes around the corner carrying their baby and stops in the doorway staring in awe at Sophia. Pointing to the baby, he asks if the baby sees “that” before looking back up at his fiancé.
“I did not realize we were in the presence of royalty, let me try this again,” Jeff says as he leaves and comes back only to pretend to faint.
Really, you couldn’t ask for a better confidence boost than having your fiancé fawn over you in the most wholesome way possible. Commenters agree that Jeff is definitely a keeper.
“Men don’t know how much this means to women in general but especially after a baby,” someone writes.
“If your man doesn’t make you giggle to the point where your cheeks hurt telling you how stunning you are what are you even doing,” another says.
“I love how much he adores you! You deserve it mama,” someone else shares.
“Men will never understand how much this means to women post pregnancy can be tough,” one person gushes.
Jeff’s support for his fiancé is a beautiful reflection of love that Sophia admits is one of the things she loves most about him in the caption.
“One of many things i love about him, his reactions and how he makes me feel so loved, pretty, wanted, and confident. Ive been struggling a lot lately with postpartum effects, and confidence with my body, and Jeff has been there for every step of it. It truly is hard, and if you are going through it, you got this,” she shares.
See the sweet video below: