For those who feel like they could be happier but know they’re missing a key element, a therapist has shared her “hack” to happiness and it’s pretty simple: have an energizing hobby. The conversation about the happy hobby hack started on TikTok when marketing expert Harrison Swales noted that all his “successful” and “happy” friends have one thing in common: they enjoy energizing hobbies.
He added that instead of binging on Netflix or drinking all weekend, they were either in sports leagues or enjoyed creating things like books or videos instead of passively watching what other people make on TikTok.
“I don’t know if it’s directly correlated to your career and success in other areas of your life,” he said, “but it certainly seems like it.” The video went viral, amassing over 560,000 views and inspired a follow-up from therapist Israa Nasir, who shared the psychological reasons why energizing hobbies are so beneficial.
“This is literally the way to hack your happiness,” Nasir said in response to the video, “and there are two reasons why this creator is totally accurate.”
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1. Sense of flow
“A sense of flow is being so present and immersed in the present moment, being completely where you are,” she said, adding that it’s a state where “mind and body [are] in the same place, and you’re engaging in something that gives you joy or creativity or movement, boosts dopamine in your mind.”
“When we’re able to engage in that long period of time in a state of flow, we have a slow, sustained state of dopamine,” Nasir continued. “So that we feel happier for longer, which is the opposite experience when we do things like scrolling mindlessly or watching Netflix or mindlessly drinking.”
2. Hobbies de-center work and romantic relationships
“If you think about it, your whole life is structured around work … and your romantic relationship,” Nassir explained. “So that makes us very flat and one-dimensional. By adding hobbies, we add more depth and dimension into our life.”
She then had a message for the TikTokkers out there who claim they don’t have enough time for a new hobby. “Open your phone app where it measures how much time you’re spending on social media and you’ll see that you’re probably spending three to four hours a day on your phone,” she said. “So even if you cut that in half, you can make time for energizing hobbies.”
So now that we know that energizing hobbies are a key to happiness, what are they, specifically? In the comments section, Nasir clarified what she meant by energizing hobbies, saying that they are any activity that helps you lose yourself or enter a state of flow.
That could mean dancing, doing puzzles, playing a musical instrument, playing golf, crocheting, metal detecting at the park, surfing, writing, or any other creative activity. One commenter compared energizing hobbies with those that aren’t beneficial. “I have growth hobbies and rot hobbies. You can guess which ones are energizing vs draining,” Curtis Lane wrote.