There are many things that can shake our faith in humanity, from the inane bickerings of people on social media to the fact that humans are still trying to war their way to peace.
But amidst the negative news and division-pushing algorithms, we find glimpses of hope, gems of human decency and kindness that don’t make the headlines but are happening every day, all around us. There are so many people who are willing to go out of their way to help out others—not just their friends and neighbors but perfect strangers as well.
Someone on Reddit asked people to share the nicest thing a stranger has done for them, and it’s a mood-boosting, faith-restoring collection of human goodness.
The question was posed with a story of a mom who was at the mall with her toddler, watching a train ride that you could ride for a $1. She was broke and didn’t have any cash, but her kiddo was content to watch. A group of loud teens went by, and then one of them came back to put some money in the machine for her son, saying, “I always liked watching trains too.” Her son lit up, and the teen went on his way.
“I never would have expected that action from a stranger, let alone a teen with his friends in a mall,” she wrote.
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Another parent added a similar story, but from an older couple instead of a teen.
“When my son was a toddler he loved the mini merry-go-round that operated for 50 cents or something like that.
We happened to be at the mall, and this elderly couple asked if it would be okay that they could pay for a few rounds for him to play on it cuz they just wanted to enjoy watching a child play.
That memory has stuck with me as clear as day even though my son is now a young adult. I have every intention on being that kind of elderly couple.” – ThatCanadianRadTech
The teens are often more helpful than we’d expect, though, as another person shared:
“One time my wife was at the mall with our autistic then 4 year old. They went to get on the escalator. My wife thought she was there with her, but at the last moment she backed off, and didn’t realize until she was well on her way up.
This is one of those escalators where the up is not right next to the down, it’s on the other side of the hall.
My wife is freaking out over our kid stuck at the bottom, who’s afraid to come up on her own, but my wife doesn’t want to leave eyesight to go around to the down.
A rowdy group of teens walks by, sees what’s going on, immediately stops being rowdy and helps our girl go up the escalator.
The teens are alright.” – Helagoth
It’s amazing how a simple kindness shown to a child can make a lasting impact.
“When I was maybe 6 or 7 I was trying to win a mini basketball at cedar point at one of the basketball carnival scam games. I obviously failed and then this guy next to me was like “great shot kid, you deserve this” and gave me a mini charlotte hornets ball he had just won. He had a bag of them he had won and was going around giving them to the kids that were playing and failing. I’m 39 now and never forgot this. And because of that one random day I have always made an effort to gift any random prize to a kid so maybe he’ll do the same for someone else. The only thing I’m any good at is claw machines so I’ll hand off my prize to anyone that’s trying and failing or anyone that stops to watch me try. But random carnival basketball savant changed my life for the better just a little bit.” – TheMayb
And it’s even better when you’re single parent struggling to make ends meet.
“When I was a single mom going through my divorce, I saved up enough to bring my 4yo to an amusement park. At the light show my kiddo asked for a cotton candy I couldn’t afford.
An older couple was sitting behind us, he tapped me on the shoulder and asked if they could get my daughter the cotton candy.
I turned to thank them again after the show and they were gone.
25 years I’ve never forgotten that.” – A-typ-self
And it’s even more heartwarming when it’s kindness from one kid to another. Those kindnesses stick with us forever.
“When I was a kid, I remember going to this girl scout event that had a bunch of different stations with activities and crafts and all that jazz, and we each got a balloon to take home too. We didn’t have a helium thing at home, so we never had balloons so getting a balloon to take home was the shit. (Remember when Applebee’s used to give a balloon to every kid to take home? Them were the days.) Anyways, my mom came to pick me up, and as we were walking across the parking lot to the car the balloon string somehow slipped through my fingers, and my precious balloon was lost to the sky. I was devastated. I’m pretty sure I even cried. And then this little girl who was also leaving with her mom walked over and gave me her balloon. I’ll never forget that.
Such a small act of kindness, and from another child. We have such power to brighten a stranger’s day, and it truly takes very little effort from us to do that. We should all strive to be just a little bit kinder to each other. It could make such a difference.” – k_shon
Kindness doesn’t always look like doing something for someone, but simply opening your home to them.
“My coworker’s mom let me stay at her house overnight on the weekends between my work shifts as I used to live an hour away from my workplace (my old job did me dirty on the schedule change). I used to go to her house at midnight and leave at 4 AM the next morning, and she never charged me. I had my own room and key to come in and out without disturbing her and her husband.
Before, I was bouncing around sleeping at Airbnbs, motels, and even my workplace for several months, whatever I could afford. I couldn’t leave my job because I was under a two-year contract. My coworker’s mom let me stay at her house for 8 months, but I only met/saw her once when she gave me the key to her house during that whole time before I finally broke my contract.
I will never forget her kindness to literally let a stranger into her home.” – 8-bit-butterfly
Sometimes just having a stranger notice when we seem to be struggling is enough to touch our hearts.
“I was having a bad day and was trying not to cry in public but sometimes it’s hard not to when I get amped to a certain point. I was just coming home from integration course and was having a hard time dealing with estrangement from my family and adjusting to life in Germany at the same time. Unfortunately the sniffles started coming out and another young woman stopped and asked if I was okay. I really appreciated her kindness even though it was embarrassing. I eventually got home and ugly cried.” – karmamarmafarma
And it’s just as touching even if we’re not actually struggling emotionally.
“Was going towards the bus stop at like 6am on a freezing winter morning, it was dark, the wind was biting into my cheeks. I’m super sensitive, so immediately I started sniffling, trying to keep my nose from running, but my eyes went straight into water mode. Usual for me, just put headphones on and thanked the inventor of waterproof mascara.
A young woman walking the opposite direction saw me, and in a split second was next to me, hand on my arm, asking if I am alright.
I still think about her to this day and I hope she is doing well. The pure concern and care of a stranger really moved me, and I am thankful for pure beautiful people like her.” – TaoKitt
And it’s extra touching when kindness comes someone who’s been there and knows exactly what you need in the moment.
“The day my wife died, I left the hospital to go home to meet our families. On the way I realised that after 20 days going in and out of of the Icu my presses were bare of food and such. I pulled into the local supermarket to pick up some essentials. I remember walking into the store and completely blanking Just standing in the aisle. It was as if the adrenaline or something just vanished.
Suddenly a elderly lady hooked my arm whispered in my ear, ‘I know that look, let’s just get you some essentials.’ Picking up milk tea etc. Paying for it, walking me back to my car where she hugged me telling me that she was sorry for my loss. I never got to thank her and for months I went to the store on the same day at the same time hoping to see and thank her. Nine years later every so often I go to the store at the same time looking for her. I can never forget her kindness.” – ben0368
As another commenter put it, we never seem to hear enough about the good people of the world. If that seems true and if you enjoy collections like these, Upworthy’s book “GOOD PEOPLE: Stories From the Best of Humanity” is full of them. It’s coming out in September and is available for pre-order now here.