Month: May 2024

Troye Sivan opened his European and UK Something To Give Each Other Tour, supporting his October 2023 album of the same name, on Wednesday, May 29, in Lisbon, Portugal. According to several fan-taken videos circulating on X (formerly Twitter), Sivan had zero opening-night jitters.

The Australian pop star intensely made out with one of his backup dancers while performing “Rush,” a dance-pop LGBTQ+ anthem that Uproxx listed among the “Best Songs Of 2023.” Sivan also performed “Supernatural,” the live debut of his and Ariana Grande’s collaborative track from her Eternal Sunshine (Slightly Deluxe) album.

If that weren’t enough proof of Sivan’s uninhibitedness, the Troye Sivan Updates X account relayed that Sivan made Troye Sivan branded condoms available for purchase on his official website.

Sivan will continue weaving through Europe and the UK throughout June. Then, he and Charli XCX will co-headline their Sweat North American tour, beginning on September 14 at Little Caesars Arena in Detroit, Michigan. Their tour will hit iconic venues — New York City’s Madison Square Garden, Boston’s TD Garden, Chicago’s United Center, and Los Angeles’ Kia Forum — before staging the finale at Climate Pledge Arena in Seattle, Washington on October 23.

See all of Sivan’s upcoming tour dates here.

In September 2023, Hopscotch Music Festival delighted fans in Raleigh, North Carolina with a stacked lineup featuring Denzel Curry, Japanese Breakfast, Pavement, and Soccer Mommy. Hopscotch will return to downtown Raleigh from September 5-7, and the annual festival will stage another enticing lineup.

On Wednesday, May 29, Hopscotch Music Festival announced its 2024 lineup will be headlined by St. Vincent, Faye Webster, and Waxahatchee. A press release noted that this will mark St. Vincent’s “first time back at Hopscotch since her 2014 appearance opening for Spoon,” and Jesus Lizard will perform for the first time in North Carolina in 15 years. Other featured artists include BADBADNOTGOOD, Boldy James, JPEGMAFIA, Hovvdy, MJ Lenderman, and Snail Mail.

“We are incredibly excited about the diversity and talent in this year’s lineup,” Hopscotch Music Festival Director Nathan Price said in a statement. “Hopscotch has always been about discovery and community, and we believe 2024 will be our best year yet with such a fantastic mix of artists.”

Learn more about the 2024 Hopscotch Music Festival below.

Hopscotch Music Festival’s Full 2024 Lineup

Amen Dunes, BADBADNOTGOOD, Ben Katzman’s Degreaser, Blue Cactus, Boldy James, Brat, Canine Heart Sounds, Celebrity Death Slot Machine, Chicano Batman, Chiffon, Co-Ed Dorms, Colin Miller, Dean Johnson, The dB’s, Delver, Ducks Ltd., Durand Jones, Edsel Axle, Exercise, Family Vision, Fancy Gap, Faye Webster, feeble little horse, Fust, Gabriel Da Rosa, Geeked, Guided By Voices, Hanna Ljungholm, Harry Sings!, Hovvdy, Indigo De Souza, Isatu Kamara, ISS, Jason Joshua, the Jesus Lizard, John Roseboro, Joe Pera, JPEGMafia, JULIA., Katie Hughes, Klark Sound, Late Bloomer, Lily Seabird, Lord Jah-Monte Ogbon, Mark Brady, MAVI, MJ Lenderman and the Wind, Modern Biology, Mr. Phylzzz, Mutant Strain, Native Sun, Niecy Blues, No Visa & Friends (Alec Lomami, BABY COUSIN TAY TAY, Brydecisive, Micky Slicks), Flower In Bloom, Or Best Offer, Pat and The Pissers, Peter One, Pillow Queens, The Pink Stones, Pollute, Previous Industries, Public Circuit, Pylon Reenactment Society, Qwilt, Real Companion, RIBS, Rubber Band Gun, Rufat Agayev, Ryan Davis & the Roadhouse Band, Scientist, Secret Shame, Sluice, Snail Mail, Sofia Bolt, Sour Widows, Spencer Cullum, Spotlights, St. Vincent, Steven Chen, Super City, Tall Juan, Taper’s Choice (2 sets), Teens In Trouble, Teethe, The Thing, Tim Heidecker, Ty Segall Solo Acoustic, Undertow Brass Band, Verity Den, Wagging, Waxahatchee, Wednesday, Wendy Eisenberg, Winged Wheel, Wishy, WITCH, Youbet, Zorn.

How To Buy Tickets To The 2024 Hopscotch Music Festival

Tickets are on sale now on the festival’s official website. The 3-Day GA pass is listed at $149 (plus taxes and fees), and the 3-Day VIP + Club Fast Pass is listed at $349 (plus taxes and fees). Hopscotch is offering payment plans.

It’s not easy living away from family, especially when you live in a completely different country. The distance can become increasingly more difficult to adjust to when tragedy strikes your family back home. It can be cost prohibitive to fly back home and depending on your employer’s attendance policy, it may be nearly impossible.

Jarom Ngakuru recently faced this very situation. The New Zealander of Māori descent is living in the United States while his family still resides in his home country. Unfortunately, when Ngakuru’s grandmother died, he was unable to make the trip back to the island to give his proper goodbye.

Not being able to attend his grandmother’s funeral left him sad and broken. He wanted nothing more than to be there with his family. Ngakuru’s friends knew how important it was for him to send his grandmother off properly so the group of American colleagues worked in secret to learn the haka.

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Haka is a traditional dance performed by Māori people for important events like weddings, funerals, and significant life events as a sign of respect. The dance has been known to bring viewers to tears, and this haka is doing the same. Not just because of the haka itself, but because of everything that went into a group of American men learning a dance from another culture to honor their friend and his grandmother.

Ngakuru uploaded the video to his TikTok page with the caption, “Hardest part about living in America is that we live so far away. I couldn’t make it home for my nan’s funeral and I was BROKEN! So my boys at work learned the haka without me knowing and brought home to me.”

See why commenters could not stop crying below:

@jaromngakuru

Hardest part about living in america 🇺🇸 is that we live so far away. I couldnt make it home for my nans funeral and i was BROKEN! so my boys at work learned the haka without me knowing and brought home to me 🇳🇿🏠 #haka #grateful #maori #newzealand #brothers #fyp #foryou

“I don’t think they even understand how beautiful of an act this is,” one person writes.

“There is so much depth of emotion attached to the Haka I uncontrollably cry every time. This was beautiful,” another says.

“Well I’m sobbing like a baby in my office now,” a commenter reveals.

“You can feel the mana [spiritual power] and the aroha [love] they have for you they know your mamae [hurt], what a beautiful tribute to you and our culture. Arohanui [deep affection] for your loss,” someone else writes.

Ngakuru explains in the comments that it’s his brother-in-law, who is Tongan, leading the chant. He is also the one that taught their friends the haka in a single day. What an impressive show of love for their grieving friend. There’s no doubt that Ngakuru will remember this for the rest of his life.

For people from foreign countries, visiting America can feel like stepping into a movie. Many people across the world have grown up with American movies, TV shows, music, and even products, creating a kind of proxy culture through which they experience a slice of American life.

That’s why when they visit America for the first time, it can be a surreal experience. Everyday scenes that Americans take for granted—such as the sight of a classic yellow school bus, a waitress who calls you “Honey,” or a game of beer pong with red Solo cups—can feel like a moment straight out of a Hollywood script.

America is also full of characters that people may not find abroad, from sheriffs wearing cowboy hats to mustachioed bikers and people who really, really love guns.

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A Redditor named JeffRyan1 asked non-Americans on the AskReddit subforum to share the most American moment they experienced when visiting the United States. It was a fun post where folks shared the people, places, and things that they’ll never forget after visiting the land of the free and home of the brave.

Here are 17 of the “most American moments” non-Americans have had in the States.

1. The most American day ever

“Several years ago, one of my friends reached out because a new international student was joining a local college, and their parents were hoping to find somebody in the US to help them out. The first day they came to visit us, a couple of major coincidences created a weirdly over-the-top American experience.

Based on talks before they arrived, the two biggest things they wanted to do was walk around the downtown area to make sure it was safe and get some American BBQ.

We went to a local BBQ restaurant that serves a huge family-style meal on a giant shovel (it’s called KCs Rib Shack in Manchester, NH). The dad was absolutely blown away and took like 30 photos before we could eat. We then went downtown but didn’t realize that there was both a classic car show downtown and an Elvis impersonator competition going on. this family that had never been outside of Japan ate brisket out of a shovel then immediately walked around looking at classic muscle cars while dozens of dudes dressed like Elvis walked around. We kept trying to explain that it was an abnormally ‘American’ day, but the family was just so blown away and overwhelmed the whole time. The last time I talked to the student, she said her dad still talks about the BBQ shovel, car, Elvis day all the time.” — WoogyChuck

2. Never forget

“Dude took his shirt off in line at an amusement park to reveal no less than six 9/11 tattoos.” — Peskieyesterday

3. Peak Florida

“I was on Main Street USA in Magic Kingdom, when in the distance we could see one of the space shuttles being launched into the Sky. The barbershop quartet stopped, turned to it and started singing the ‘Star Spangled Banner,’ and a military dad and his two kids stood straight, rooted to the spot whilst they saluted until it went out of sight.” —Eezgorriseadback

“If this is actually true this has to be the best answer. That reads like a schlocky movie script—wild.” — HankSaggittarius

4. The XL coffee

“American immigrant from Europe… On my first week in the US, i walked into one of those chain coffee shops and ordered a coffee. When prompted for a size, I pondered that I had not slept that much (jet lag) and selected an extra large. You know what we call those extra-large coffee mugs in the old country? Buckets. What I got was a bucket of coffee.” — Milespoints

5. Pride of the frontier

“An old couple running a family run horse ranch, talking about their history, how their great grandparents acquired that bit of land, while their two daughters and son taught us horseback riding. The way they talked about nature, freedom, their dreams and aspirations, so different to our home country and our own culture, while still sounding faintly familiar, as if he was talking about a really old dream I used to have. It’s hard for me to put into words, but that scene, the surroundings, the air, every sensation, never left me, and but for a brief moment, allowed me to kind of understand the Americans a little more. I truly hope they all are doing well and that America never loses this special way of striving for a new frontier. Sounds probably ridiculous, but it was very special to me.” — Parthorax

6. Breakfast of champions

“Montana after driving across the Canadian border: Eating in a breakfast diner that actually had stacks of pancakes with the little square of butter on top, just like I had always seen in movies. The waitress was pouring coffee into everyone’s cups, talking about the ‘potata salad’ and saying ‘sir’ and ‘ma’am’ after every sentence. It was so quaint. Then I noticed a guy with a gun on his belt, wearing a shirt that read, ‘I’d rather be a Mormon than a Moron.’ The amount of Jesus and Stars and Stripes on that one little drive was peak America, from my outsider perspective.” — yycokwithme

7. Chicken-friend bacon

“Had chicken-fried bacon at some breakfast BBQ place on the I5 between Seattle and Portland. Was it delicious? Yes. Did it probably take at least a few days off my life? Also yes. And it was just the starter to my biscuits and gravy.” — parrallel_jay

8. Ready, aim, fire

“Being able to shoot weapons at a gun range despite being on a mere tourist visa.” — Throwawayconcern2023

“The first time I, a Canadian, ever fired a gun was in a range in Oklahoma City. I was on a road trip and my boyfriend at the time (from LA) suggested it, so we walked in and asked for the most comically large guns they would give us. They handed us AK-47s and a key to the range. Didn’t even ask to see ID.” — Safadancer

9. The big yellow bus

“The yellow school-buses. I felt like I was in a movie.” — SunnyTopHat268

“I hear red Solo cups have the same effect.” — JunkMail0604

10. Deer service

“Going into a Savalot supermarket and discovering the meat counter had an option for you to drop off a deer carcass to get it prepared by the butcher.” — Pickwick-the-Dodo

11. A monster of a night

“Went to watch Monster Trucks at the Georgia Dome (RIP) with family during the winter. We were a group of 6 brown people in coats and beanies and gloves amongst 59,994 rednecks wearing trucker caps, shorts, and sleeveless flannel shirts. Had my first Bud Light and funnel cake. What a time.” — Honeycomb286

12. Grocery sore

“Formerly a non-American, i noticed was how grocery store employees at the cash register are not allowed to sit.” — Ghengiskhan_1

13. Chatty Americans

“I think for me was noticing that strangers can randomly strike up a conversation with you. I’ve been in this country for more than 20 years now so I’m used to it. But I remember being weirded out by it before.” — Kororon

“I’ve lived here my whole life and still find it awkward and unusual.” — Mr-Whitecotton

14. Born to wild

“As if going to the NASCAR wasn’t ‘Merican enough, before going into the stadium, my mate and I had a walk around the fan park they had built outside it. Within 5 minutes of being there, I heard an engine being revved up to within an inch of its life, and the smell of petrol filled the air. I turned around, and this engine was on board a Harley Davidson three-wheeler, on which there was this big f*** off drum kit built onto it, driven by a bloke in full leathers, bandana, shades, the lot. All of a sudden ‘Born To Be Wild’ blasted out of the speakers also attached to it, and the bloke started playing the drums along to the tune, and started badly singing the lyrics, revving the engine every so often in random places. I felt like I was American myself by the end of it.” — eezgorriseeadback

15. What a hamburger’s all about

“A bite into an In-N-Out Burger. my sister couldn’t believe that I ate a burger at their place every day for 3 weeks. Feel free to invite me for a few weeks, very happy to come back to Thousand Oaks, California, and we will indulge in the burgers from In-N-Out. I’m from Germany, flight is on me.” — Seevetaler

16. Hollywood sunset

“I was driving through LA (from near Hollywood to LAX) in a pickup with the sun setting and listening to ’80s/’90s hip hop on the radio. I felt like I was in GTA.” — Criminalsunrise

17. Diner waitresses

“A diner where a lady walks around with a large pot of coffee and refills everyone’s cup.” — Y0rin

High school is tough enough for the average 17-year-old girl. Anyone who stands out is a target for whispers and hushed laughter in the in hallways or, at worst, public ridicule.

That’s why Maddie Cable, 17, from Charlotte, North Carolina, was less than enthusiastic after being told she needed to wear a large plastic brace to school for at least six weeks.

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Cable was in a car accident with her mother in November, and she fractured her T12 vertebra. After doctors stabilized it with rods and pins, Maddie was fitted with the massive brace.

“At first, I felt very self-conscious about the brace,” Cable told Buzzfeed. Then her friend Sarah Chako had the brilliant idea of turning the bland-looking brace into a badass steampunk armor corset using metallic spray paint, gear-shaped stencils, acrylic paint, and metal framing trim. Steampunk is a sci-fi/retro style that combines futuristic steam-powered designs and American “Wild West” aesthetics.

“I enjoy wearing it now,” Cable said. “It makes me feel more confident.” Her mother is pleased, too. “People are initiating conversation instead of just staring,” Cable’s mom, Linda, told HuffPost. “She feels like they see her, and not just her injury.”

Cable’s story is a great example of what you can do with some creative thinking, good friends, and steampunk power. She turned a depressing situation into an opportunity to express herself.

This article originally appeared on 09.12.17

One of the responsibilities of parenting is making sure our kids are fed nutritious foods. Unfortunately, our kids are not always on board with that idea.

Children’s finickiness ranges anywhere from will-eat-anything to will-only-eat-chicken-nuggets and everything in between. Picky eating poses a challenge for parents who want their kids to have balanced, nutritional diet, and all too often it turns into a battle of wills. Unfortunately, food battles can create negative associations with eating and mealtimes, which nobody wants. We do want our kids to try new foods and to learn to enjoy healthy eating, however. So how do we do that?

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X user Jeff Thompson posed the question: “Kids picky about food…what’s the strategy to get them to try new things?” and people weighed in with their advice. But one response in particular struck a chord both for its simplicity and effectiveness.

Bethany Babcock wrote, “Ok I actually have a great tip for this. Movie nights the kids get a ‘snack plate’ for dinner. Like a blend of a charcuterie board and veggie and fruit tray. I put all their favorites and sneak in new foods. All arranged super cute.”

“It’s the only time I’m full on Pinterest mom,” she added.

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She explained that the snacking continues as the movie plays and that the dim lights and semi-distracted state leads the kids to try everything that’s on their plate. “The new foods go last but eventually everything is gone,” Babcock wrote.

She said she gives them dipping sauces like hummus and dressings to dunk their healthy finger foods in. “The key is to put it all one one big board. The kids eat fast trying things because they are afraid someone else will and they will miss out. They have discovered they love radishes, bell peppers, salami, cheeses, spicy things, sour things…” she shared.

Babcock also shared a photo of how she started with the snack plate idea when her kids were toddlers, opening their “boxes” like they were a surprise.

When they were toddlers we started like this. They got to open their boxes like a surprise. pic.twitter.com/iRv2nCN9Ts

— Bethany | Commercial Real Estate (@bethanyjbabcock) May 28, 2024

Some people might take issue with the “mindless eating” aspect of munching in front of a movie, but when the munchies are healthy it’s a great way to semi-fool kids into trying something they normally might scoff at. According to Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, it can take between eight and 15 tries before a child will accept a new food, but parents often give up after a few attempts. The more opportunities you can find to get kids to taste something, the better.

Of course, there are some foods people just don’t like regardless of their age, so if a child has tasted something many many times and still doesn’t like it, no need to force it. There’s a big, wide world of healthy food options out there, and leaning into the variety and the fun of exploring new foods helps kids expand their palate without the battle.

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As KidsHealth.org points out, parents are the ones who control the food offerings, so the key is to provide a range of healthy foods in the home and then encourage kids to explore what’s offered. If a little dim lighting and movie distraction helps them do that, all the better.

No need to duke it out with kids to get them to eat their veggies or protein or whatever it is you want them to eat. Just keep offering healthy options, make the food attractive, create a relaxed atmosphere around eating and most kids will inevitably come around to trying almost anything you put in front of them.

Even though he was born “Katherine Elizabeth,” Skylar lived like a regular little boy for most of his childhood.

He was happy.

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This is Skylar.

But when puberty hit, he started feeling intense pressure to be “normal” and fit in. So he tried to present as more traditionally “feminine.”

But he couldn’t shake the feeling that he was denying a huge part of himself. Late in high school, he started taking testosterone.

Skylar started feeling more comfortable immediately. And before he knew it, he was at his “dream school,” having the time of his life. And taking lots and lots of pictures of himself.

Access to medical care played a big part in Skylar becoming the person he is today, but that wasn’t all.

Check out his story and walk five years in his shoes. It’s definitely a perspective we don’t see often enough:

This article originally appeared on 08.30.14

Every single day, babies across the world are born prematurely, which means that they’re born before 37 weeks of gestation.

In Canada, about 29,000 infants are born prematurely each year, roughly 1 in every 13. But in the United States, around 400,000 to 500,000 are born early. That’s about 1 in every 8 to 10 babies born in the U.S.!

Red Méthot, a Canadian photographer and student, decided to capture the resilience of many of these kids for a school photography project.

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He’s the father of two prematurely born kids himself, so the topic is important to him.

“My son was born at 29 weeks and my daughter at 33 weeks,” he told me in a phone interview. “These are the kind of pictures I would like to have seen when my first child was born — they’ve been through that, and they are great now.”

Méthot said he knows not all preemie stories have a happy ending — one of his photos features a child whose twin passed away after they were born prematurely — but for so many kids who come early, they go on to experience a great life.

Meet several of the beautiful kids he photographed!

Méthot’s school project originally consisted of 10 photos, but the reaction has been so positive and he’s enjoyed taking them so much, he continued adding to the collection.

Currently, he has captured 50 images. (You can view them all in the album on his Facebook page!). Méthot told me that his favorite part of the project has been meeting the subjects.

“Each time I meet a new person, I [learn] about a new story,” he said.

And I think we can all agree that Méthot is a wonderful storyteller through his photography. Between his photos showing the bright future so many premature babies have and his photo showing the loss, he captures reality beautifully.

This article originally appeared on 11.6.15

If you’re American that has ever attended high school in any state in the country, you know that most high schools are eerily the same. They have the same groups, similar subjects and can pretty much be plopped into the middle of a movie about high schoolers without having to change much of anything. It doesn’t even matter what decade you attended high school.

In every hall way you’ll find the jocks, theater kids, preps, the outsiders and everyone who doesn’t fit into any of those groups. Sarah, half of the duo Carlo and Sarah, posted her husband’s reaction to seeing her old high school. Carlo is Italian and completed his high school career there but judging by his reaction to seeing Sarah’s alma mater, Italian schools are very different than the schools people are used to in the states.

Immediately Carlo is aghast as Sarah points out the science classrooms. The shocked husband asks, “you do the frog thing in the science classroom?”

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The high school alum confirms that they indeed dissected frogs in that very classroom to the bewilderment of Carlo. Who then clarifies that she means dissect the frogs like they do in the movies. His reaction is so pure and full of disbelief. The man references the movies several times throughout the video, including the famous “High School Musical.”

Sorry to disappoint, Carlo, but American high school students don’t actually break out in organized song and dance in the middle of the cafeteria. But the reaction the Italian man has is so big that people are wondering what Italian high schools are like.

“Can we now see Carlo’s school, so we have a comparison,” someone asks.

“Ok I get that Carlo is excited because her high school looks similar to the idea of American schools you would get from watching Hollywood films. But he seems really surprised so now I’m wondering how Italian schools are apparently vastly different,” another wonders.

“But also take into account we grow up with those movies you mentioned. I was excited too when I saw the iconic yellow school bus for the first time, when I was visiting Maryland.Not to mention Manhattan. To European eyes it looks like a giant set,” one Italian person clears up the excitement.

“Okay but this is so accurate to coming to America. The first few months it’s just like ‘Omg! A yellow school bus like in the movies!’ The cop cars, the highway signs, Funyuns, Waffle House… like it’s foreign to you, but you’ve seen them in movies and tv your whole life so it’s still familiar in a weird way,” another European chimes in.

A few Americans living in Italy gave their impression of Italian schools and they were…without any sugar coating. The words “dream crushing” and “traumatized” were used as descriptors, though it could be related to culture shock and unmet expectations. Either way, Carlo’s reaction to seeing a real American high school is so wholesome that it makes you want to take him to see other typical American things to see if he has the same reaction.

When the attack on Pearl Harbor began, Doris “Dorie” Miller was working laundry duty on the USS West Virginia.

He’d enlisted in the Navy at age 19 to explore life outside of Waco, Texas, and to make some extra money for his family. But the Navy was segregated at the time, so Miller, an African-American, and other sailors of color like him weren’t allowed to serve in combat positions. Instead, they worked as cooks, stewards, cabin boys, and mess attendants. They received no weapons training and were prohibited from firing guns.

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As the first torpedoes fell, Dorie Miller had an impossible choice: follow the rules or help defend the ship?

For Miller, the choice was obvious.

First, he reportedly carried wounded sailors to safety, including his own captain. But there was more to be done.

In the heat of the aerial attack, Miller saw an abandoned Browning .50 caliber anti-aircraft machine gun on deck and immediately decided to fly in the face of segregation and military rules to help defend his ship and country.

Though he had no training, he manned the weapon and shot at the enemy aircraft until his gun ran out of ammunition, potentially downing as many as six Japanese planes. In the melee, even Miller himself didn’t know his effort was successful.

“It wasn’t hard,” he said after the battle. “I just pulled the trigger and she worked fine. I had watched the others with these guns. I guess I fired her for about 15 minutes. I think I got one of those [Japanese] planes. They were diving pretty close to us.”

Original newspaper reports heralded a hero “Negro messman” at Pearl Harbor, but no one knew who Miller was.

The Pittsburgh Courier, an African-American paper in wide circulation, sent a reporter to track down and identify the brave sailor, but it took months of digging to uncover the messman’s identity.

Eventually, Miller was identified. He was called a hero by Americans of all stripes and colors. He appeared on radio shows and became a celebrity in his own right.

Miller’s heroism and bravery didn’t go unnoticed in Washington, D.C., either.

In March 1942, Rep. John Dingell, a Democrat from Michigan, introduced a bill authorizing the president to present Miller with the Congressional Medal of Honor. Sen. James Mead introduced a similar measure in the Senate. While Miller did not receive the Congressional Medal of Honor, he became the first African-American sailor to receive the Navy Cross.

“This marks the first time in this conflict that such high tribute has been made in the Pacific Fleet to a member of his race, and I’m sure that the future will see others similarly honored for brave acts,” said Pacific Fleet Admiral Chester Nimitz following Miller’s pinning ceremony.

Following a brief tour of the country, giving speeches and pushing war bonds, Miller returned to Navy life.

In May 1943, Miller reported for duty on the Liscome Bay, an escort carrier.

On Nov. 24, during Operation Galvanic, a Japanese torpedo struck the Liscome Bay, sinking the ship. 644 men were presumed dead. 272 survived. Miller did not.

On Dec. 7, 1943, two years after the attack on Pearl Harbor, Millers’ parents received word of their son’s death.

Doris “Dorie” Miller gave his life for a country that didn’t always love him back.

Miller posthumously received a Purple Heart, the Asiatic-Pacific Campaign Medal, the American Defense Service Medal, Fleet Clasp, and the World War II Victory Medal. There is also a frigate and a neighborhood on the U.S. Naval Base in Pearl Harbor named in his honor.

Though his Navy Cross was never elevated to a Congressional Medal of Honor, as recently as 2014, the Congressional Black Caucus moved to waive the statute of limitations to make it possible.

While there are medals, movies, and statues celebrating Miller, it’s important to remember and honor the man himself — a 22-year-old black sailor who set aside the rules to do what’s right.Poet Gwendolyn Brooks wrote a poem from Miller’s perspective, the conclusion of which perfectly captures the young hero’s courage in the face of bigotry and uncertainty:Naturally, the important thing is, I helped to save them,them and a part of their democracy,Even if I had to kick their law into their teeth in order to do that for them.And I am feeling well and settled in myself because I believe it was a good job,Despite this possible horror: that they might prefer thePreservation of their law in all its sick dignity and their knivesTo the continuation of their creedAnd their lives.

This article originally appeared on 12.06.16