Month: July 2024

Viewers of the 2024 BET Awards are still intoxicated by last night’s (June 30) ceremony. From Usher’s hotly debate Lifetime Achievement Award tribute to the flurry of individual performances, watchers have found a way to extend the televised celebration. One of the night’s entertainers, Megan Thee Stallion’s latest business venture, has something to keep the party going.

On May 19, the “Down Stairs DJ” rapper teased that she was gearing up to launch a tequila brand. Today (July 1) during her appearance on the Club Shay Shay podcast, Megan revealed that she has fellow Houston hottie Beyoncé to thank for the business’ formation.

When host Shannon Sharpe asked Megan about her next chapter as an independent artist, she revealed that it has leveled her up in all ways with the guidance of Jay-Z and Beyoncé.

“When I was in the situation with [1501] and I wanted to get out of it, they told me you need to do this on your own,” she said. “Like, ‘You already know what it is. You already have all the tools. All the legal sh*t you are going through, I know you are learning something. So you should figure out how to get out here and be your own boss.’”

Megan then opened up about the suggestion Beyoncé made. “Beyoncé is actually the person that inspired me to get my own tequila,” she said. “Because I used to be the cognac queen. I still am the cognac queen. But as much as I used to enjoy cognac, and I’ve promoted a lot of people’s liquor brands, she was like, ‘the next time I see you, you better have your own. You need to have your own alcohol.’”

Watch the full episode of Club Shay Shay with special guest Megan Thee Stallion below.

In the immortal words of Erykah Badu, artists are sensitive about their sh*t. But, time and time again, the public has learned there are also easily irritated but others’ works.

Just when music fans thought the tumultuous trend of beef soundtracked by song (Kendrick Lamar versus Drake, Megan Thee Stallion versus Nicki Minaj, Latto versus Ice Spice, Chris Brown versus Quavo) was over, PartyNextDoor seems to be throwing his hat in the ring. Yesterday (June 30), all eyes were on the 2024 BET Awards. But the “For Certain” singer was focused on airing out fellow musicians Chris Brown, Bryson Tiller, and Jeremih. So, why did PartyNextDoor send shots their way?

Continue below for more details.

Why Did PartyNextDoor Diss Chris Brown, Bryson Tiller, And Jeremih?

On June 30, PartyNextDoor supposedly pulled a tweet-and-delete. In a screenshot captured by users online, PartyNextDoor dissed Chris Brown, Bryson Tiller, and Jeremih after learning that his ex-girlfriend, Desma Triplett (Tripp), previously known as Desma Dooney, was featured in the trio’s latest video for single, “Wait On It.”

“I’m finna make these n****s cry,” he wrote. “Bryson, Chris, and Jeremih… enjoy the nights of your life.”

PartyNextDoor then penned a message to his former love: “Doing videos at 34, that b*tch broke.” Users online slammed his attempt to age shame Desma, considering she made appearances in other visuals, including Cardi B’s “Up” (according to Capital Xtra).

Although Bryson Tiller hasn’t issued a response to PartyNextDoor’s post, Chris Brown and Jeremih has. View their clapbacks below courtesy of The Shade Room.

The obituary Eminem placed in the Detroit Free Press newspaper to promoted his upcoming might have been extreme, but that’s his norm. The “Houdini” rapper’s latest promotional clip is even more shocking.

Today (July 1), Eminem took to his official X (formerly Twitter) page to announce the official release date for The Death Of Slim Shady (Coup De Grâce). Instead of a simple reveal, Eminem shared a suspense-filled teaser visual to break the news.

“OH SH*T!!! THE DEATH OF SLIM SHADY (COUP DE GRÂCE) 7/12,” he wrote.

Although the caption of the post delivered the calendar goodies, frankly that isn’t the most exciting part of the upload. In line with Eminem’s latest string of music video and teasers influenced by movies (Batman and Friday The 13th), this clip is an eerily mashup of The Omen and Seed Of Chucky.

As the video opens, the audience is witness to the gift of life (the complete opposite theme of the forthcoming project). However, there’s a catch. After the doctor frantically attempts to revive the unresponsive newborn, his efforts pay off. Instead of a bouncing bundle of joy, a demon baby terrorizes the hospital room. With Slim Shady slated to be killed off, is Eminem seemingly reincarnated in the worst way.

The Golden State Warriors are going to get something back for Klay Thompson, who is leaving the team to join the Dallas Mavericks in a sign-and-trade. While Thompson will get a 3-year, $50 million deal to join Dallas, it was unclear what would make its way back to Golden State — right when the news of the deal dropped, it was reported that the Mavs would send Josh Green to the Charlotte Hornets.

It took a few hours, but on Monday evening, we learned what Golden State will get back: A pair of future second-round picks from Dallas.

Chris Haynes of Bleacher Report had the specifics on what the picks would be, with one coming in 2025 and the other coming in 2031. There’s also a sizeable trade exception that is being created due to the Warriors declining to take any salary back in the deal.

To put it bluntly, it is insane to see that the Klay Thompson era with the Golden State Warriors end with the team receiving a pair of second-round NBA Draft picks, one of which could be used on someone who is around 12 years old right now. It’s also worth mentioning that Golden State apparently did have the option to get a player back in a sign-and-trade for Thompson if he went to the Los Angeles Lakers, but they were not interested in a deal that would reunite them with D’Angelo Russell.

No matter who we are or where we live, we all have occasional bad days—and it can be surprising how quickly someone’s words or actions can make your day worse or better.

A woman shared a story on Reddit that showcases how one small and simple act of kindness can have a big lasting impact, prompting others to share their own stories.

Reddit user klem528 explained that she was “having a day” and crying in her car as she pulled into a frozen yogurt store parking lot one day.

“I caught a glimpse of a teenage girl and dad in the car next to me while I was crying,” she wrote. “When I came back after eating the fro you, their car was gone but this was in my door handle.”

The photo shows a $10 bill with a note bedecked with hearts that reads, “Your fro-yo is on us. We hope tomorrow is a better day.”

People loved the example of strangers taking the time and money to help a fellow human being feel a little less alone and began sharing their own stories of random kindnesses.

“I was at the self checkout at Walmart a few months back. This mother and her child id seen a couple times were checking out. Her son was a saint. The whole time, he would help her grab stuff off shelves. Was very polite to other people in the store if they were in his way.

Anyway, they’re checking out, and he had this toy and his mother apologized and told him she couldn’t get it. The kid seemed upset about it, but went and took it to the woman over the self checkout.

As he was walking back, a girl who was still checking out asked for it, and bought it for him. Took it over to him, and this kid burst into tears and thanked her. The woman who bought it asked if he’d be good for his mom, and this poor kid was choking back more tears, shaking his head yes. The mother also choking back tears a bit and thanked her.

It made my heart warm that day. I’ve tried to do little acts of kindness more since then.” – Shawnessy

“One day, I was on my way home with a friend when I was stopped at the pump by a young woman who was nearly hysterical, dressed up and shaking her hands out. ‘Please, please do you have $5? I haven’t had a job in months, I’m on my way to an interview, and I need just enough gas to get there. Please?’

I filled her tank as full as it could go. I got back in the car after her thanks and watching her speed away, and my friend says, without even looking up from her phone, ‘Know you just got taken for a ride, don’t you? She probably didn’t have an interview.’

But I just shrugged and said, ‘But maybe she did.’ I think about her often. Maybe I did lose $30. But maybe I helped a young mother (saw the car seat in her back) find a job and provide for her family. Either way, I did it because I wanted to help someone, and it’s on them if they lied. The world might be a lot nicer if we stopped assuming everyone’s out to get us. – KaythuluCrewe

“Last summer my best friend in the whole world and I had a complete falling out. I was sobbing in the Starbucks drive thru a few days later, I was feeling miserable and the woman in front of me payed for my drink and told the barista to tell me it’ll get better 😭😭 I cried.

There really are good people out there. I hope tomorrow is better xo” – haleymichal

“I once went into Starbucks and I was having such a hard day, my uncle died, boyfriend and I broke up, work was being really hard on me. I couldn’t hold back my tears when I went to order and the barista gave it to me for free. I’ve never been so grateful for such a small, kind gesture on a terrible day. I’ve never forgot it and I doubt I ever will. Small acts of kindness matter.” – venusdances

“I went to Chick-fil-A the morning after my husband passed away to get my daughter something to eat. The girl taking my order said, “you look like you need a hug. Can I hug you?” I sobbed in that girl’s arms for a solid 5 min. Another employee routed cars to the other lane, and she kept telling me, “who cares about those cars, it’s about you right now.” I will never forget the kindness of this young lady who couldn’t have been older than 18-19, did not know my circumstance. She just made it her mission to comfort me that day. ❤️😪” – beachbaby5

“I was in Lowe’s the first Mother’s Day after losing my own mom to buy plants for my garden. I was so late to checkout inside that the registers were closed. I apologized and said it wasn’t the best day. Not only did they open a register for me, but the cashier went in the back and brought me a gift bag full of candy that they gave to all employees who were moms that day. I will never forget her face or her kindness.” – carpalmieri

“I lost my dog 7 months ago. I’m very sad and having a really hard time. I went to the park we always visited for our fifteen years together. I was walking and crying behind my sunglasses. I was with my other dog ( she is having a really hard time too). A lady passed by and stopped me to ask about my dog and pet her. As I was answering, she asked if I was ok, because my voice was shaky. I said I was so sorry I was just thinking about my dog that passed away and really miss him, but that that we go there to feel him close, it was his favorite place. She started crying and hugged me, and told me I was a good dog mother. Small acts are HUGE for the ones in need. I needed that hug. 💜” – delphinacoscia

On one of the very worst days I can remember in years, my partner and I pulled over on a road trip to deal with some bad news. A woman in the parking lot passed two ice cream cones into our car windows. And that memory makes the hard day so much better in the rear view mirror. Kind strangers make the world such a better place ❤️” – neuro_fuzzy

The original poster who posted the story three years ago shared that she still keeps the $10 bill and note in her glove compartment. You just never know how a small act can boost someone’s mood and offer a much-needed sense of hope. Imagine the world we could build if we all went out of our way to lift someone’s spirits and remind them they’re not alone.

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Some songs make people emotional. It may be because the song has special meaning for them or because the musical arrangement is so beautiful that it activates something within causing tears to flow. Babies are not immune to being moved by music but typically they don’t request the song that brings them to tears.

Jillian James posted a video to social media that shows her toddler son laying on her chest seemingly preparing for nap time. The little guys requests that his mom sing the lullaby, “You Are My Sunshine” but before obliging the request, James asks multiple times if he’s sure. Apparently, the sweet song makes the toddler cry every time he hears it. Nevertheless, he persists with his request to hear “sunshine.”

James knows what the result will be and checks one last time to see if the little boy is sure he understands what will happen, “you already look like you’re about to cry. Buddy, I don’t want to sing it if you’re going to cry.”

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The additional warnings did not deter the persistent toddler. He assures his mom he’s not going to cry but she has a sneaking suspicion that he won’t hold up against the melody of the song and sure enough, waterworks before the first line is finished. Not just a little tear filled eyes, but full on crying and commenters don’t disagree with his tears.

@jillianjames31 Every single night he asks me to sing “sunshine” but this is also his reaction when I sing it to him… idk what triggers this response but it equally breaks my heart and makes me laugh at the same time 😂 #youaremysunshine #sunshine #son #toddler #mama #momlife ♬ original sound – Jillian James

“you are my sunshine will always emotionally devastate me,” someone admits.

“To be fair, You Are My Sunshine makes me cry too,” another writes.

“Sometimes it feels good to listen to your favorite song and have yourself a good cry,” one person shares.

“He wants you to sing sunshine for the same reason I like to watch military homecoming videos I guess. Same reaction,” a commenter says.

Many people were not expecting the level of crying that escaped from the little boy and suddenly understood why his mom didn’t want to sing it. Maybe when he’s older he will understand why he listens to music that makes him cry, though sometimes it’s just a matter of needing an emotional release with no larger reason outside of that. Poor little guy, sometimes we all just need a cry.

A good therapist has the magical ability to take our messiest problems and break them down in a way that makes sense. They have an incredible way of showing us our struggles from a fresh perspective and quite often, the answers were right in front of our faces the whole time. We just needed their help to nudge us in the right direction.

For some, a therapist’s simple, sage wisdom can change their lives with just one poignant realization.

Recently, a Redditor named BuildingBridges23 asked people on the subforum to share the priceless bits of wisdom that changed their lives and over 5,300 people responded. The pithy but powerful observations they shared were helpful to many people and more than one called the thread “free therapy.”

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Here are 19 of the best responses to the question: “What’s something your therapist said that was life-changing?”

1. You can’t fix sick

“You’re going to put yourself in an early grave trying to make your mother happy. Your mother is sick, trying to make her happy is like trying to fill a bucket that has no bottom, its not going to happen unless she fixes the bucket. You can’t fix it for her.” — ModerateDude9

2. Other people’s feelings

“I asked him, ‘How do you process all of the negative feelings that are projected at you?’ and he said “They aren’t my feelings.'” — Wirestyle22

3. Coping with death

“‘The way your parents died will never be the most interesting thing about you. It’s not even the most interesting thing about THEM.’ My parents died by suicide together and I was worried that it was going to consume me as an individual. I didnt want their deaths or my grief to become my entire identity.” — Crazyofo

4. Being brave

“When I broke down because I was so fed up with being scared and anxious all the time, he said something like. ‘You can’t be brave without being scared first.’ It always stuck with me that fear, no matter how overwhelming, won’t last forever and I try to see it as a chance for me to prove to myself I can fight back and try to get through this.” — AnxiousAxolotyl88

5. Change

“Change happens when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of change.” ؅— SpicyEmmaa

6. Dealing with mental illness

“Just because the mentally ill person screaming at you lives in your home instead of on the streets doesn’t mean their opinion is any more true.” — UnorignalUse

7. People are like colanders

“Some people are like a colander. It doesn’t matter how much time, love and support you pour into them, it will never fill them up enough to make a difference.” — Competitive-Watch188

8. Boundaries

“The only people in your life who will be angry because you established boundaries were the people who benefitted from you not having them in the first place.” — Imagine_magic

9. Other people’s anxiety

“‘Be the mirror, not the sponge.’ Don’t absorb other people’s stress and anxiety, show it back to them gently. Changed my life.” — CariocaInLA

10. Sensitive people

“That being a ‘highly sensitive person’ is just how I’m built. It’s not something that’s wrong with me or something that I necessarily have to change. I just have to accept it, to learn my boundaries and needs and live accordingly.” — stuttering-mime-ta2

11. For people-pleasers

“‘You don’t need to please everyone all of the time. People who love you will not leave you because you disagree with them or do something they don’t like.’ She nailed a lot of my behaviours back to the fact my biological dad left when I was 9 months old. I cannot cope with perceived abandonment, and will do everything in my power to keep people happy… because they might leave me.” — RhiR2020

12. It’s not about you

“‘You aren’t that interesting.’ I would have panic attacks and paranoia that people were out to get me (PTSD, etc) and would think that people were judging me in grocery stores because my toddler was crying or that my hair was messy. And honestly it boiled down to…nobody cares. We’re all trying to survive and get through the day and what someone looks like or does, we observe and move on.” — jac_kayyy

13. Judgement

“We judge ourselves by our intentions, but we judge others by their actions.” — Horny_Rapunzel

14. It’s simple

“‘The answer is simple. That doesn’t mean it’s easy, but it’s simple.’ I was doing what I always do in difficult, scary situations that I don’t want to deal with head-on; I was overthinking and over-complicating what I needed to do to be happy again. The answer was actually quite simple: I needed to tell my (now ex-husband) that I wanted a divorce.” — RovenshereExpress

15. Realize your unhappiness

“At the third session with our couples counselor, my wife and I had a brief ten-minute private session with our therapist. During my session, the therapist said, ‘You need to accept the possibility of a divorce. You are trying to do the right thing and be supportive, but you can’t do that alone. Your wife is taking advantage of you. You can’t see how unhappy you are. That will change within a year after your divorce.’ Yup. She was right. My wife and I agreed to divorce during the 4th session. I am finally happy, and love my life.” — BlueCollarBeagle

16. Hurt

“Just because you were hurt when you were younger, doesn’t mean randoms have the right to hurt you now.” — Paeliens

17. See-saw relationship

“A relationship is like a see-saw. If the other person doesn’t want to participate, you can keep going, but you’ll get really tired.” — SendInYourSkeleton

18. Panic

“Not my therapist, but a friend told me hers said this: ‘You do not have enough information to panic about that yet.’ Whenever I catch myself spiraling about the unknown, I try to remember that.” — Bananaphone1549

19. Heart attacks

“It wasn’t my therapist, it was my doctor, but it was life-changing. I had been 300+ pounds all of my adult life and I was in for a physical and he said to me: ‘You know, the first symptom of a heart attack is a heart attack.’ It was what caused me to change my life at age 54 and lose 110 pounds in 16 months and I became a runner. I have run a race in all 50 states, 26 Halifax marathons and 2 full marathons, Chicago and Boston. That one thing he said to me kicked off my decision for better health! That was 15 years ago.” — BlueJasper27

A mystery teacher has become an internet scholar after imgur user SharkyTheSharkDog shared photos of the extra credit questions on their exams.

While the first six are really fun—you should see if you can get them all correct—the last one is pure torture in the form of public humiliation.

Don’t read too quickly, students.

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1. How many seasons was “Full House” on the air?

2. Complete the verse… “I been in the game for ten years makin’ rap tunes…”

3. What color pants does Jake from State Farm wear?

4. Okay, this one’s going to be tough for you.”Yesterday, during my lecture, I quickly mentioned that only a pink pen will save you tomorrow. Draw a stick figure below in that pink pen.”

5. Describe the dumbest conversation you overheard recently.Guy: Do you like Bon Jovi?Girl: No thanks, I don’t eat Italian Food.

6. Including “The Revenant,” how many times has Leo DiCaprio been nominated for an Academy Award?

7. And this one’s a true test of your reading strategy.

First person to read this, stand up proudly on your chair, and yell at the top of your lungs, “Oh Captain, My Captain!” will receive a 95% on this exam.
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*Just kidding. Name the drummer for The Beatles.

This article originally appeared on 05.01.19

Society, pay attention. This is important.

My wife, Zoe, is transgender. She came out to us — the kids and me — last summer and then slowly spread her beautiful feminine wings with extended family, friends, and neighbors.

A little coming out here, a little coming out there — you know how it is.

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It’s been a slow, often challenging process of telling people something so personal and scary, but pretty much everyone has been amazing.

However, she dreaded coming out at the office.

She works at a large technology company, managing a team of software developers in a predominantly male office environment. She’s known many of her co-workers and employees for 15 or so years. They have called her “he” and “him” and “Mr.” for a very long time. How would they handle the change?

While we have laws in place in Ontario, Canada, to protect the rights of transgender employees, it does not shield them from awkwardness, quiet judgment, or loss of workplace friendships. Your workplace may not become outright hostile, but it can sometimes become a difficult place to go to every day because people only tolerate you rather than fully accept you.

But this transition needed to happen, and so Zoe carefully crafted a coming out email and sent it to everyone she works with.

The support was immediately apparent; she received about 75 incredibly kind responses from coworkers, both local and international.

She then took one week off, followed by a week where she worked solely from home. It was only last Monday when she finally went back to the office.

First day back at work! I asked if I could take a “first day of school” type picture with her lunchbox. She said no. Spoilsport.

Despite knowing how nice her colleagues are and having read so many positive responses to her email, she was understandably still nervous.

Hell, I was nervous. I made her promise to text me 80 billion times with updates and was more than prepared to go down there with my advocacy pants on if I needed to (I might be a tad overprotective).

And that’s when her office pals decided to show the rest of us how to do it right.

She got in and found that a couple of them had decorated her cubicle to surprise her:

Butterflies! Streamers! Rainbows! OMG!

And made sure her new name was prominently displayed in a few locations:

They got her a beautiful lily with a “Welcome, Zoe!” card:

And this tearjerker quote was waiting for her on her desk:

To top it all off, a 10 a.m. “meeting” she was scheduled to attend was actually a coming out party to welcome her back to work as her true self — complete with coffee and cupcakes and handshakes and hugs.

(I stole one, and it was delicious.)

NO, I’M NOT CRYING. YOU’RE CRYING.

I did go to my wife’s office that day. But instead of having my advocacy pants on, I had my hugging arms ready and some mascara in my purse in case I cried it off while thanking everyone.

I wish we lived in a world where it was no big deal to come out.

Sadly, that is not the case for many LGBTQ people. We live in a world of bathroom bills and “religious freedom” laws that directly target the members of our community. We live in a world where my family gets threats for daring to speak out for trans rights. We live in a world where we can’t travel to certain locations for fear of discrimination — or worse.

So when I see good stuff happening — especially when it takes place right on our doorstep — I’m going to share it far and wide. Let’s normalize this stuff. Let’s make celebrating diversity our everyday thing rather than hating or fearing it.

Chill out, haters. Take a load off with us.

It’s a lot of energy to judge people, you know. It’s way more fun to celebrate and support them for who they are.

Besides, we have cupcakes.

This article originally appeared on 04.08.16.

With age comes wisdom (or at least it is supposed to follow). The path toward maturity is sometimes fast tracked for those who are thrusted into the spotlight. Reneé Rapp can somewhat attest to this.

Following the release of her debut studio album, Snow Angel, and subsequent breakthrough leading role in the Mean Girls movie musical, Reneé gained mainstream recognition. This newly found famed has made the 24-year-old grow far behind what she expected, and her forthcoming sophomore album will reflect this.

During an appearance on the Close Friends Only with Instagram podcast with Rachel Sennott, Reneé divulged that the project will highlight the massive difference between her 23 and 24-year-old self.

After being asked if she was working on an album and if she was opening to sharing, she said: “Yes, and no.”

“Well the only, I mean I guess the only this like 23 to 24 has been such a massive difference for me,” she added. “It’s [about this new era of my life] and it’s also about, to this point, a reflection on my 23rd year specifically… it was so bad, and I thought like 22 was insane for me.”

Watch Reneé Rapp’s full appearance on Close Friends Only, with Instagram podcast below. Her remarks on her upcoming sophomore album begin at the 29:28 mark.