One of the responsibilities of parenting is making sure our kids are fed nutritious foods. Unfortunately, our kids are not always on board with that idea.
Children’s finickiness ranges anywhere from will-eat-anything to will-only-eat-chicken-nuggets and everything in between. Picky eating poses a challenge for parents who want their kids to have balanced, nutritional diet, and all too often it turns into a battle of wills. Unfortunately, food battles can create negative associations with eating and mealtimes, which nobody wants. We do want our kids to try new foods and to learn to enjoy healthy eating, however. So how do we do that?
X user Jeff Thompson posed the question: “Kids picky about food…what’s the strategy to get them to try new things?” and people weighed in with their advice. But one response in particular struck a chord both for its simplicity and effectiveness.
Bethany Babcock wrote, “Ok I actually have a great tip for this. Movie nights the kids get a ‘snack plate’ for dinner. Like a blend of a charcuterie board and veggie and fruit tray. I put all their favorites and sneak in new foods. All arranged super cute.”
“It’s the only time I’m full on Pinterest mom,” she added.
She explained that the snacking continues as the movie plays and that the dim lights and semi-distracted state leads the kids to try everything that’s on their plate. “The new foods go last but eventually everything is gone,” Babcock wrote.
She said she gives them dipping sauces like hummus and dressings to dunk their healthy finger foods in. “The key is to put it all one one big board. The kids eat fast trying things because they are afraid someone else will and they will miss out. They have discovered they love radishes, bell peppers, salami, cheeses, spicy things, sour things…” she shared.
Babcock also shared a photo of how she started with the snack plate idea when her kids were toddlers, opening their “boxes” like they were a surprise.
When they were toddlers we started like this. They got to open their boxes like a surprise. pic.twitter.com/iRv2nCN9Ts
— Bethany | Commercial Real Estate (@bethanyjbabcock) May 28, 2024
Some people might take issue with the “mindless eating” aspect of munching in front of a movie, but when the munchies are healthy it’s a great way to semi-fool kids into trying something they normally might scoff at. According to Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, it can take between eight and 15 tries before a child will accept a new food, but parents often give up after a few attempts. The more opportunities you can find to get kids to taste something, the better.
Of course, there are some foods people just don’t like regardless of their age, so if a child has tasted something many many times and still doesn’t like it, no need to force it. There’s a big, wide world of healthy food options out there, and leaning into the variety and the fun of exploring new foods helps kids expand their palate without the battle.
As KidsHealth.org points out, parents are the ones who control the food offerings, so the key is to provide a range of healthy foods in the home and then encourage kids to explore what’s offered. If a little dim lighting and movie distraction helps them do that, all the better.
No need to duke it out with kids to get them to eat their veggies or protein or whatever it is you want them to eat. Just keep offering healthy options, make the food attractive, create a relaxed atmosphere around eating and most kids will inevitably come around to trying almost anything you put in front of them.