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Mom perfectly explains how emotional it is to accept kids letting go of ‘childhood magic’

One of the best things about having children is being able to pass along your family traditions or starting new traditions. Many families let their kids experience the magic of fictional characters like the tooth fairy or Santa Claus. But eventually they get older and they slowly start to realize the truth.

For parents, this can be an emotional process because it signals that their kids are growing up and moving into the next stage of life—adolescence. Soogia, a mom on TikTok, perfectly explains her youngest child’s gradual realization that things in her childhood have been “pretend.”

Through tears, Soogia talks about the Elf on the Shelf she has for her daughters, saying, “But I know that this year is probably the last year we’ll have our Elf on the Shelf, Peppermint.” She described how her daughter has started to ask questions about the Easter Bunny, the tooth fairy and now Elf on the Shelf.


But Soogia refrained from just telling her daughter the truth on the last one. Instead, when her daughter asked, “Is Peppermint real?” the mom of two asked, “Do you really want to know?” Soogia explained that her daughter started to cry before admitting that she didn’t want to know the answer. Oh, my heart. You just want to hold on a little bit longer to that childhood innocence.

Soogia says she thinks it’s her daughter’s way of preserving the magic for herself a little while longer. In the end, the mom reveals when her kids figure out the elf isn’t real that they will get their turn at hiding it around the house. It’s always a little sad when we realize the “last” is happening or has happened. Soogia’s explanation of experiencing her children’s “last” piece of childhood magic is so relatable.

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Feeling super emotional this holiday season but who isn’t? #elfontheshelf #peppermint #childhood #magic

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Keke Palmer’s baby reveal on ‘Saturday Night Live’ inspires hope to those with PCOS

Sure, folks are talking about Keke Palmer’s epic baby bump reveal on “Saturday Night Live” because it’s a masterclass in comedic timing. Seriously, nobody does it like Keke Palmer.

But for those living with polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and hoping to one day announce their own pregnancy, it became a much more meaningful conversation.

Joking that she would ”set the record straight,” the 29-year-old “Nope” star revealed a pregnant belly hidden underneath her trench coat, adding that it has been “the biggest blessing.” As fans were quick to note—this news is especially positive since Palmer has been open about her own struggles with PCOS.


The actress shared her diagnosis back in December 2020 via Instagram, saying the condition was “attacking [her] from the inside out” but she “had no idea.”

Getting a proper diagnosis was already a difficult task—as Palmer mentioned, it was a struggle to get her doctors to take her concern seriously since she “looked healthy.” But once her condition was confirmed, she began speaking out as a way to empower others who might find themselves in similar situations.

The post included a picture of an acne flare-up, something she noted was the “least harmful” symptom PCOS could bring. In addition to skin problems, the hormonal imbalance—which is quite common, affecting 1 in 10 women of childbearing age—can also lead to irregular periods, ovarian cysts, weight gain and, of course, infertility.

However, as the Office on Women’s Health explains, PCOS is treatable (even if it isn’t curable), and does not mean that pregnancy is impossible. Sometimes only milder forms of treatment are necessary—like weight loss, different combinations of medications to promote ovulation or hormone therapy. Other times, more complex procedures such as assisted reproductive technology (like IVF) or surgery are needed.

All this to say, PCOS might not prevent pregnancy altogether, but it can cause major stress to those struggling to conceive, which is why Palmer’s joyous announcement struck a chord.

Many were inspired to share their own fertility victories. As one person wrote, “I was told it was going to be very difficult for me to have children. And I was so scared and crushed. But I was blessed with three girls in four years! I don’t know what I did to deserve it, but I’m very fortunate.”

“My PCOS baby <3 Definitely congratulations to Keke! I know the feeling,” wrote another, alongside a photo of their newborn.

One person commented that they are “currently 24 weeks pregnant with our second child after secondary infertility for 6 years and treatments! PCOS & endometriosis had doctors tell me I wouldn’t get pregnant because of my weight but met the most amazing specialists who helped us.”

It’s worth noting that while losing weight can help with PCOS, doctors have been guilty of implicit bias against overweight patients, leading them to focus on judgments that are solely weight-based. This, of course, blinds them from seeing the whole picture, which is why finding an empathetic, open-minded specialist can be very important.

Others felt that Palmer’s success story made their own dreams of starting a family seem more possible.

One person tweeted, “As a woman with PCOS seeing Keke Palmer pregnant and also having PCOS is truly amazing. The first thing you think about after your diagnosis is ‘Will I ever have kids?’ God always has the last say so, so I know when my time comes it will be one of my greatest testimonies.”

It’s important to see others overcome challenges similar to our own. That said, no two lives are the same, and it would be insensitive to assume that everyone has the same access to resources or solutions. But still, stories like Palmer’s help illuminate what’s possible, and those are always stories worth sharing.

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His aunt died on Thanksgiving and his ‘rap’ about how the family handled it is hilarious

A loved one dying on a holiday isn’t normally something to laugh about, but there are exceptions to every rule. This video is one of them.

TikTok user Darien (@dairy.n) shared a story about his family’s Thanksgiving Day that is so gloriously bizarre and delightfully real, it’s hard not to laugh, despite the fact that it’s about his aunt dying. The fact that he tells the tale in the style of a “One thing about me” rap is extra hilarious, and judging by the comments of some of the 6.7 million people who’ve watched it, it’s struck people’s funny bones.

Dark humor? A little bit. But his aunt was 95 and she died of natural causes, which helps the hilarity feel not quite so inappropriate. She also apparently had a fabulous sense of humor that she used to cope with her own difficulties throughout her life, so the video is more like a fitting tribute than a what-the-heck storytelling.


There is plenty of what-the-heck here, though. I tell you, I was not prepared.

It’s one of those videos you simply have to see—and process—for yourself. Off we go:

@dairy.n

This is a healthy way to process things right?

OK, but that rigor mortis dance? Epic.

One thing that’s so relatable about this video is that so many things are happening at once, and you can picture exactly what it must have been like to be there. The grieving, of course, but also the logistics of “What do we do with her body?” and the “Well, we already have all of this food and we need to eat anyway,” is just totally real. People don’t talk about the practical parts of someone dying like this very often, but it’s part of the death process. And when it’s a very old person whose time has naturally come, it’s not really a tragic death, so a little humor—especially if the person would have appreciated it—can be a totally appropriate way to handle it.

Darien posted a follow-up video to explain a little bit about who his aunt was, which makes the viral video all the better.

@dairy.n

You better apprecciate how earnest im being because from here on out it’s silly hours.

If you’re not familiar, the Holodomor was a deliberate famine in which Stalin’s regime starved nearly 4 million Ukrainians in 1932 and 1933. After being largely ignored for decades, in recent years it has been officially recognized as a genocide against the Ukrainian people.

Here’s a YouTube video of her playing piano at age 92. Impressive.

Auntie Taissa clearly lived a good long life, and what better way for a performer to go out than with a viral video about you that brings people joy?

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Congress gives its highest honor to the officers who protected the Capitol on January 6

Congress honored the heroes of the January 6 insurrection at the U.S. Capitol on December 6 by bestowing its highest honor, the Congressional Gold Medal, to those who protected democracy on that dark day.

“Exactly 23 months ago, our nation suffered the most staggering assault on democracy since the Civil War. January 6 was a day of horror and heartbreak. It is also a moment of extraordinary heroism,” Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi said at the ceremony.

“Staring down deadly violence and despicable bigotry, our law enforcement officers bravely stood in the breach, ensuring that democracy survived on that dark day,” Pelosi added. “So, on behalf of the United States Congress and the American people, it is my honor to present the Congressional Gold Medal to the United States Capitol Police, the Metropolitan Police and every hero of January 6, from every agent that responded that day.”


Hundreds of officers who worked that day will be collectively honored by four medals placed at four locations in Washington, D.C.: the U.S. Capitol Police headquarters, the Metropolitan Police Department, the Capitol and the Smithsonian Institution.

At least nine people connected with the capitol riot have died since January 6, 2021. Three Trump supporters died during the riot, two suffered medical events and another was shot by Capitol Police. Four officers that worked on the day of the attack have since died by suicide. Officer Brian Sicknick died shortly after being sprayed with a chemical by one of the rioters.

The legislation passed by Congress specifically mentioned the “courage” of Capitol Police Officer Eugene Goodman who used himself as bait to keep the violent mob away from the Senate chambers.

“Words cannot adequately express our gratitude for what you did to help our officers by joining in the fight that was taking place,” U.S. Capitol Police Chief Tom Manger said as he accepted the award on behalf of his officers.

“You did not give up. You did not give in. And yes, you were vastly outnumbered. But you were determined, exhausted and injured. It will show your sweat and your tears that mark these realms where we stand today,” Metropolitan Police Chief Robert Contee said. “You show the world just a glimpse of what we are.”

The ceremony was a way to honor those who fought bravely on behalf of their country on one of its darkest days. It also affirmed the notion that the January 6 insurrection was an assault on American democracy perpetrated by a group of right-wing protestors who attempted to thwart the election of an American president. The insurrection has been downplayed by many prominent Republicans who have dismissed the violent attack in order to protect former President Donald Trump.

On the day of the insurrection, Trump told the protesters to “fight like hell” to prevent Biden’s election from being certified by Congress.

The Republican Party’s collective shrug wasn’t lost on the family of Officer Sicknick. They refused to shake the hands of Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell or House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy when they accepted the fallen officer’s medal.

Surely, as time moves on, the politics surrounding the January 6 insurrection will cool and cease to color perceptions of that horrific day. As the story falls into the hands of historians it’ll be remembered as a brutal attack on democracy that was thwarted by brave men and women who gave everything they had to protect their country.

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Give the gift of relaxation to moms this holiday season

Every year, moms put on their elf hats and become Santa’s helpers. They shop for and wrap the family’s presents, cook the holiday meal, organize the crafts and even set out cookies for the big guy. They’re so busy making the holiday season magical for their family that oftentimes they don’t get any time to rest.


So this year, we’ve carefully selected five items for mom that you can grab without braving the cold and crowds. These gifts are sure to be just what Santa’s helper needs to rejuvenate after the festivities. Plus, 10% of sales made through this gift guide will be donated to the organizations The Magnolia Mother’s Trust and the SeekHer Foundation, to help even more moms this holiday season.

1. Baloo Weighted Blanket

It’s hard to go wrong with a weighted blanket. They can help with anxiety and sleep because the pressure from the blanket helps to calm your heart rate and slow your breathing. Baloo’s weighted blankets come in several sizes, including a throw blanket so mom can cuddle up on the couch. Plus Baloo donates a portion of its proceeds to Pajama Program, a nonprofit that provides books, sleep health education and caring connections to kids facing adversity.

2. Conscious Step Scented Candles

Conscious Step scented candles are amazing! They smell fantastic and support multiple causes, so if mom has a cause that’s near to her heart, you can grab a candle that supports it. The candle Starry Seas supports Oceana, the largest advocacy organization focused on oceans, while the candle Love and Limes helps to support The Trevor Project, an organization that offers a lifeline to LGBTQ youth.

3. Mindsight Breathing Buddha

This little guy is so cute and the perfect gift for a mom trying to get relief from the stress and anxiety of the holidays (or any days). The Mindsight Breathing Buddha helps with mindfulness by serving as a guide for open-eyed meditation—when the belly is green you inhale, purple you hold and blue you exhale—making meditation much less complicated and easy to do between cookie decorating parties. Plus it doubles as a great natural sleep aid, to help mom wind down after a day filled with demanding kids (and partners).

4. Wearwell Cozy Moccasin Slippers

Why, hello warm feet. Kids may not know, but spouses certainly do—mom’s feet are notoriously always cold and are generally warmed up on the back or legs of their unsuspecting partner. You can do mom a solid by making sure her toes stay toasty with these super comfortable and stylish Wearwell Cozy Moccasins.

5. Burt’s Bees Calming Night Cream

Who doesn’t love a good moisturizer that serves a double purpose? This Burt’s Bees Calming Night Cream is perfect for moms with sensitive skin, plus it will help her get some quality rest after long winter days. It’s made with aloe and rice milk for amazing hydration while mom sleeps.

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I swapped out ‘millennials’ in headlines for something better. It made a huge difference.

This article originally appeared on 07.06.18

Ah, millennials…

At once destroyers of worlds and lazy slackers who won’t move out of our parents’ houses, we’re all-purpose punching bags for society at large.

We’re also ferocious killers. Did you know that we’re responsible for the death of consumerism, the American Dream, Applebee’s, marriage, boobs, beer, home ownership, the oil industry, and the future of humanity itself? Not bad, right? With so many contradictions, we’re what Winston Churchill might have described as a “riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma.”


With no clear start and no clear end, the term “millennial” has mostly become a stand-in for “youths” in angry “kids these days”-style news stories.

There’s just one major problem: We’re not kids.

Pew Research defines a millennial as anyone born between the years 1981 and 1996. In 2018, that’s most everyone age 21 to 37.

Other sources might have slightly different start and end dates for the qualifying range, but the point is, we’re not pre-teens. And yet, the way the label of millennial is used, it certainly gives that impression.

When AL.com asked readers if we should elect more millennials to Congress, responses demonstrated just how much people misunderstand what the term means.

While those in favor of more millennials in Congress mentioned the benefits of having more diverse representation, those opposed clung to tired and factually inaccurate stereotypes.

“No! F— no! Not until they get some life experiences! If this past presidential election taught you anything, it should’ve taught you millennials don’t have life experiences to know how to vote. Living off of your parents doesn’t give you life experiences,” wrote one Twitter user.

(According to Pew Research, only 13% of people aged 30-34 live with a parent.)

“Until you are working on your own, off your parents health insurance, and paying real taxes I don’t think you should be able to to be elected to Congress,” wrote another.

(Parental health care expires at age 26, and anyone whose income meets a certain minimum must pay taxes regardless of age.)

“Not until they learn personal responsibility at least,” wrote a third.

In all three of these examples, it’s clear respondents don’t have an accurate demographic understanding of what a millennial is.

Author Summer Brennan came up with a really interesting idea aimed at getting people to accurately understand the term “millennial.”

Every time you see a headline that mentions “millennials,” she suggests, consider whether it’d sound any more ridiculous if you replaced it with “adults under 40.” In the examples above, for instance, the implication that adults under 40 don’t have their own health care, pay taxes, or have any life experience sounds a little absurd.

Your reaction to the experiment might help determine whether or not you’re viewing “millennial” as a group of young- to middle-aged adults with diverse views and experiences or as a buzzword loaded with years of negative press. (And yes, yes, I know, Pew’s classification puts the cap on millennials at 37, not 40, but as I said, this can vary.)

Let’s take a look at what a few other “millennial” headlines would look like if we used Brennan’s trick. Do they seem a little silly?

The Economist recently asked why millennials weren’t buying diamonds. Think about it rationally, and you’ll realize it could have something to do with the fact that we entered the workforce at roughly the same time that the entire economy was in total free fall and haven’t really recovered.

When you swap the headline to read “adults under 40,” this becomes much more clear:

Inc. put together an explainer for people trying to understand why millennials are so “entitled.” Swap in “adults under 40,” and suddenly that headline just looks poorly thought out.

The Guardian told its readers that La Croix sparkling water was virtually a religion to millennials. Reframing that headline reveals it to be an odd, unfounded claim.

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This thought exercise can be applied to all sorts of issues, not just debates about whether millennials are the worst.

The way we frame conversation plays a big role in how we view the world. If specific words and phrases didn’t have the power to change minds, marketing firms would have no reason to exist.

For instance: In 2009, political strategist Frank Luntz wrote a memo encouraging Republican members of Congress to change their vocabulary in order to derail Democrats’ efforts to pass health care legislation. Luntz found that the public generally favored health care reform, so in order for Republicans to successfully oppose it, he urged them to instead refer to health care reform as the “Washington takeover” of America’s health system.

While the Democrats’ law was eventually passed, Luntz’s rhetoric generated a lot of confusion around the health care debate that year. That confusion made it a political liability for Democrats and ultimately led to a thrashing during the 2010 midterm elections.The same concept applies to the immigration debate. When you replace innocuous terms like “undocumented immigrant,” “asylum-seeker,” or “refugee” with far more loaded words like “illegal immigrants” or the even more dehumanizing “illegals,” the debate shifts again. As pundits switch out adjectives for buzzwords, it becomes harder to remember that these discussions are about actual human beings.

The “millennials” vs. “adults under 40” trick is a doorway to untangling a lot of the learned rhetoric we’ve been taught to use on a number of issues.

Next time you read a story that evokes a powerful emotion, take a deep breath and mentally swap out buzzwords to see if you still feel the same.

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Spoon Gave An Electrifying Performance Of ‘Wild’ On ‘The Late Show’

Spoon just got nominated for a Grammy for Best Rock Album for their new LP Lucifer On The Sofa. The band brought the songs on a co-headlining tour alongside Interpol, and now they’ve performed the track “Wild” on The Late Show With Steven Colbert.

“Wild” is infectious and electrifying live, moving with relentless energy in this late-night television performance. Britt Daniel’s vocals are clean and passionate while the guitar work is nothing short of energetic. It’s a song that becomes even more powerful and invigorating in a live setting

About Lucifer On The Sofa, Daniel said, “It’s a record we decided we wanted to make when we were touring the last one. We toured Hot Thoughts longer and with more shows than any other album we’ve ever done, which is saying a lot. While we were out there, we kept discovering that we were playing the songs from the last album better on the road than they were on the record. So the idea was to take that energy that you get from playing songs live and being on the road and hashing out the songs, using that energy first.”

Watch their performance of “Wild” on The Late Show With Steven Colbert above.

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The Ketchup Jokes Are Flying After The Trump Organization Was Found Guilty Of All 17 Counts Of Tax Fraud

Things haven’t been going great for Donald Trump. His choice of dinner guests is getting heat even from the GOP, as is his call over the weekend to “terminate” the Constitution so he can be reinstated in the White House. It may be easy to forget he has some major legal and financial headaches as well. One of them is the trial involving the Trump Organization, which ended on Tuesday with the former president’s business being found guilty of all 17 counts of tax fraud. As of this writing, the big guy hasn’t had one of his now-daily meltdowns on his rinky-dink Twitter clones. On the actual Twitter, though, the ketchup jokes were flying.

Over the summer, when the idea of Trump’s business being all but destroyed was but a glimmer in the nation’s eye, the Jan. 6 committee received testimony from a Trump insider, Cassidy Hutchinson. Her’s was the wildest day of the hearings, and among her claims was that on that day went sideways for the outgoing commander-in-chief, he lost his stuff and threw ketchup-laden food at the wall. Trump later denied throwing ketchup at a wall.

But few believed him, and as his business was torpedoed for criminal behavior — with him directly involved, no less — tragically broken ketchup bottles was all some could think about.

There were even drawings.

As per The New York Times, the Trump organization was found guilty of, among other things, having “doled out off-the-books luxury perks to some executives: They received fancy apartments, leased Mercedes-Benzes, even private school tuition for relatives, none of which they paid taxes on.” Prosecutors stopped short of indicting Trump himself, but that doesn’t mean he’s in the clear. Nor are any containers of ketchup within arm’s reach of the famously volatile failed blogger.

(Via NYT)

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Of Course The QAnon Wackos Are Convinced That Kirstie Alley Didn’t Die Of Cancer But Was Instead Murdered For Being An Anti-Vaxxer

On Monday, Kirstie Alley, legend of both the small and the big screen, passed away unexpectedly. She was 71. The cause of death was later revealed to be colon cancer. But it didn’t take long for tinfoil hat conspiracy theorists to offer an alternative (read: baseless and silly) explanation: that she was somehow murdered because she happened to be anti-vax.

As per Vice, mere minutes after news of Alley’s death was announced, QAnon adherents — a famously sensible bunch — began flooding message boards with tall tales of mysterious figures poisoning the Cheers and Look Who’s Talking alum as part of a global plot to silence critics of COVID-19 vaccines.

“I wholly believe the [deep state] has a way of dosing people with poisons that create aggressive cancers,” one person wrote. Another went further, writing, “She either just drew the short straw or she was poisoned by the Deep State for being a public Patriot.”

There was another breed of QAnon wackiness. Some believe that sudden deaths, such as Alley’s, mean that they were given a COVID vaccine. Alas, Alley reportedly never got a single jab. That forced conspiracists to get creative. Some speculated that, because Alley had recently joined the cast of The Masked Singer, she had been forced to get vaxxed. Others offered another out-there theory: that she had to get jabbed to receive treatment for her colon cancer. Others still wondered if it had anything to do with her longheld belief in Scientology.

And of course, there was some fun with numbers, with some pointing out that Alley was 71, and if you switch those two numbers around, you get 17 — an important number amongst the QAnon crowd.

For everyone else, you can honor the passing of Alley by digging into her vast CV, which contains more than a terrific run on one of the best sitcoms to ever air.

(Via Vice)

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Mitch McConnell And Kevin McCarthy Got Coldly Snubbed Publicly By Jan. 6 Congressional Medal Honorees And People Loved It

Family members of fallen Capitol Police officers publicly snubbed the GOP’s most public-facing leaders during a ceremony honoring those who gave their lives defending the Capitol building on Jan. 6th.

House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy and Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell were completely bypassed by relatives accepting awards on behalf of Capitol Police officers Brian Sicknick, Howard Liebengood, and William Evans, and D.C. Police officer Jeffrey Smith. The men were being honored with the Congressional Gold Medal for their bravery in defending members of Congress during the Trump-instigated insurrection which might be why their families weren’t pleased that Trump-simping Republicans were on-hand to pay their respects.

After all, these men died because of a voter fraud lie spread by Trump, who was enabled by both McCarthy and McConnell during and after the 2020 Presidential Election.

“I think whatever they said at that podium was because they were forced to,” Kevin Sicknick told The Huffington Post. “They had to show face because they were the leaders of their respective parties. But was it sincere? I doubt it.”

Both McConnell and McCarthy, while speaking out against the actions of the mob that day, refused to take harsh action against Trump, with McCarthy even flying down to Florida to ensure his support for the contested House Majority leadership. McConnell and McCarthy voted against an independent commission investigating the Jan. 6th insurrection, a motion proposed by the families of police officers, including the Sicknicks.

“I’m just tired of them standing there and saying how wonderful the Capitol Police is, and then they turn around and… go down to Mar-a-Lago and kiss his ring and come back and stand here and sit with — It just, it just hurts,” Gladys Sicknick, Brian Sicknick’s mother, told CNN.

The Sicknicks hadn’t planned on publicly dissing the GOP frontmen, but video from the ceremony clearly shows the family refusing to shake the hands of McConnell and McCarthy while both men stand with their hands outstretched.

And though the context of this video is somber — these people lost loved ones because of the inaction and willful ignorance of the men now designing to offer them a glorified necklace in replace of their dead family members — the internet is having a bit of fun laughing at McConnell and McCarthy’s expense.

(Via Huffington Post)