This weekend, Format Festival 2023 is preparing to plant its roots in Bentonville, Arkansas’ Ozark Mountains. Beginning Friday, September 22, through Sunday, September 24, three major recording artists are slated to headline, namely Leon Bridges (9/24), Alanis Morissette (9/23), and LCD Soundsystem (9/22).
Over the three days, dozens of entertainers will perform across the five performance spaces (North Of OZ, South Of Oz, Drag Me To The Disco, Next Door, and Rode House). Below, you will find the set times, which were announced by the organizer. Notable acts listed across the lineup include Modest Mouse, Poolside, Tash Sultana, Little Simz, Channel Tres, Kari Faux, Madeline Edwards, Serpentwithfeet, and Sudan Archives.
Similar to last year, in addition to the primary and secondary stages, there are also unconventional spaces on the grounds, such as forest enclaves, pavilions, barns, and speakeasies for more intimate performances. Outside of the musical performances inside the Fermentation Hall, geared toward video art programming. Featured visual artists include Jeremy Deller, Jon Rafman, and Ragnar Kjartansson x The National.
There are a limited amount tickets that are still available for Format Festival 2023. For more information, click here.
The schedule is subject to change. For an up-to-date timeline, visit the official Format Festival website.
Some artists covered here are Warner Music artists. Uproxx is an independent subsidiary of Warner Music Group.
The autumnal equinox is somehow already upon us, bringing us not just pumpkin-flavored everything, seas of plaid shirts, and Octoberfests – but what serious National Park travelers look forward to all year — shoulder season. Crowds are lessening; temperatures are dropping; accommodations are lowering their rates and. bonus, the leaves are turning to vibrant yellows, reds, and oranges in many of the most iconic National Parks.
Emily Hart
Fall is an incredible time to see some of the United States’ most photographed and revered landscapes through a golden lens. As someone who has visited nearly every one of them in multiple seasons, I strongly agree on which should be highest on your fall travel priority list. I considered a few things in creating this ranking:
FALL COLORS:
Fall foliage is essential for any fall traveler, and US National Parks have much to offer. So, while not every park on this list is “known” for fall colors, many, if not all, do see foliage changes – and the top-ranking parks are in a league of their own.
CROWDS:
Shoulder season, in most destinations, automatically means fewer crowds. As National Parks have continued to explode in visitation and popularity, this is a significant consideration. Crowds contribute not just to sometimes a frustrating experience in a park but also increase accommodation costs and create situations where reservations and timed entry permits are necessary.
BEAUTY:
All National Parks are beautiful in their own way. But some stand out – crowds or not. Encountering beauty is a large part of travel – so it superseded all other considerations for some of the rankings. Now, onto the list:
10 – YELLOWSTONE NATIONAL PARK – WYOMING
Emily Hart
To say Yellowstone is legendary is an understatement because almost no words convey its magic. As the first National Park established in the United States (and many would argue, the world) over 150 years ago, Yellowstone’s geothermal features, abundant wildlife, incredible vistas, and hiking trails have long made it one of the most bucket-list-worthy trips one could take – and the summer crowds make that abundantly clear. With nearly one million visitors in July alone, the crowds are ever-increasing in the summer months – which is why fall is the move if you want any peace or quiet here.
WHAT TO DO:
Despite the crowds, I always visit Old Faithful to watch an eruption (with a brew on the balcony of the Old Faithful Inn) before heading to hike Fairy Falls for a great view of Grand Prismatic Spring, visiting the impressive Yellowstone Lake and West Thumb areas.
WHERE TO STAY:
There are ample accommodations in West Yellowstone, Jackson, the Teton Valley, and Gardiner, Montana – depending on which entrance you choose and what else is on your itinerary for the area.
BOTTOM LINE:
Yellowstone is the first National Park and is still just as impressive as 150 years ago. A fall visit will help those visitors looking for more solitude while viewing the impressive landscape.
9 – VOYAGEURS NATIONAL PARK – MINNESOTA
Emily Hart
As one of the least visited national parks in the United States, you’re not likely to be inundated with crowds in Voyageurs National Park in any season – especially not in the short but beautiful fall season. While there isn’t much time to enjoy the changing fall foliage in this far north park, that’s what makes it such a unique experience worth any hassle.
WHAT TO DO:
The water-based park is definitely in “off-season” outside of the summer, but the solitude makes it a particularly unique fall destination for the intrepid traveler. Hike, fish, or boat during the short fall window in the park.
WHERE TO STAY:
Rent a van or an RV with RVShare and head to one of the many campgrounds that will still be operational during the fall season. Camping within the park during the early fall is possible – but note that all front and backcountry campgrounds require a boat to access.
BOTTOM LINE:
Voyageurs is a less-visited National Park that is uniquely water-based. Fall is an incredible time to visit as a self-supported, intrepid traveler looking for fall colors and a bit more of an adventure.
8 – YOSEMITE NATIONAL PARK — CALIFORNIA
Emily Hart
Is there ever a wrong time to visit Yosemite? I don’t think so, but fall is incredibly charming in this breathtaking California oasis. With fewer crowds, unique opportunities to view wildlife, striking fall foliage, and cooler temperatures, this is a great time to visit the Yosemite Valley and beyond.
WHAT TO DO:
Check out the famous Tunnel View before heading into the valley to hike, picnic, or participate in the annual clean-up event “Yosemite Face Lift,” which occurs each year in late September. Tioga and Glacier Point Road are known for incredible fall foliage and the views you can’t find anywhere but in Yosemite.
WHERE TO STAY:
You can camp in the fall within Yosemite, book a room at one of the park lodges, or head into a gateway community. I have always loved staying at Sierra Sky Ranch just outside the park boundaries in Oakhurst.
BOTTOM LINE:
Yosemite is legendary for a reason, and you won’t be disappointed any time of year. Fall is excellent for leaf peeping, lessened crowds, and lower temperatures.
7 – GRAND CANYON NATIONAL PARK – ARIZONA
Emily Hart
You’ll notice a theme here, but the lessened crowds of fall are a great time to visit the “Marquee” parks in the US National Park system – like the Grand Canyon in Arizona. The storied park is a sight everyone should see at least once in their lifetime, and it’s a lot more fun to do it when thousands of others don’t surround you. Besides the consideration of crowds, the weather is much more tolerable in the fall, as summer temps can often become dangerous for hiking in the canyon.
WHAT TO DO:
Head to the South Rim for fewer crowds than the busy summer season to catch a sunrise or sunset. Hike into the canyon on Bright Angel Trail and enjoy a cocktail at the historic El Tovar.
WHERE TO STAY:
Many lodges within the park will be open into the fall season, including El Tovar and Grand Canyon Lodge – offering the opportunity for discounted rates compared to the summer season. Head to Williams and stay at Backland, a luxurious “glampground” with many amenities.
BOTTOM LINE:
Grand Canyon should be on every traveler’s list regardless of the season – but fall is great for those interested in lessened crowds and lower temperatures.
6 – GLACIER NATIONAL PARK – MONTANA
Emily Hart
Many of the most popular parks – including Glacier National Park in Montana – have instituted vehicle reservation and permitting procedures to mitigate overcrowding within the National Park system. While the reservation systems are necessary to protect the natural beauty of this expansive park for years to come – it can be a hassle to navigate. So, if you have the flexibility, I recommend visiting Glacier in the early fall after reservation systems expire but before the jaw-dropping Going-To-The-Sun Road closes for the season (roughly September 10 to mid-October).
WHAT TO DO:
The iconic Going-To-The-Sun road generally does not close for the season until into October, so that should be the first on your to-do list. Stop at Logan Pass and hike Hidden Lake or Highline Trail before heading to Lake McDonald, St. Mary’s, or Many Glacier.
WHERE TO STAY:
Fall in Glacier is trickier, with many lodgings operating seasonally and closing shortly into October. I recommend renting a van or RV, camping in the park or nearby KOA’s, or staying in Whitefish.
BOTTOM LINE:
In my extensive US and National Park travels, nothing is as spectacular in the lower 48 states as Glacier National Park. It is inspiring in any season, but the colors, fewer crowds, and the ending of reservation systems make fall a great season in the park.
5 – ROCKY MOUNTAIN NATIONAL PARK – COLORADO
Emily Hart
While we don’t have the same variety of fall foliage in Colorado – where I live – as in other parts of the United States, we have something that might be even better: Aspens. The prevalent Aspen trees change quickly from green to gold for a very short period in the higher elevations of the Rocky Mountains, making a trip to see them at peak feel like you’ve been let in on a secret. The legendary park is the perfect place to get in on the leaf peepin’ action, with aspens dotting the trails around the beautiful alpine lakes and imposing mountains it is known for.
WHAT TO DO:
September is prime festival season in the gateway community of Estes Park, with Autumn Gold Festival and Elk Fest taking place in later September. While in the park, drive Trail Ridge Road for incredible views and golden colors. Emerald Lake Trail, Glacier Gorge Trail, and Alberta Falls are perennial favorites (if you have a timed entry reservation for Bear Lake Corridor) if you want to get your heart pumping.
WHERE TO STAY:
Estes Park has ample lodging available in the fall. Try the classic Stanley Hotel (maybe attend The Shining Ball in October – if you dare), or head over to the Grand Lake side and book a room at the perfectly appointed Grand Lake Lodge.
BOTTOM LINE:
Rocky Mountain National Park in the fall is a bucket list-worthy escape, with lessened crowds, golden aspens, and ample wildlife. Just remember your timed entry reservation through October 22.
4 – GREAT SMOKY MOUNTAINS NATIONAL PARK – TENNESSEE AND NORTH CAROLINA
Emily Hart
You may be surprised that not only is Great Smoky Mountains National Park the most visited National Park in the system but that it is by a long shot. In 2022, the park had nearly 13 million visitors – almost three times the Grand Canyon numbers, the second-highest park by visitation. And while visitors flock to this centrally located park in Tennessee and North Carolina throughout the year – fall is genuinely something special here. Known for vibrant foliage on its rolling hills – this is the move if you travel in the later months of fall.
WHAT TO DO:
Driving through the Smokies in the fall will put your jaw on the floor and maybe even a tear in your eye. The changing colors are vibrant and all-encompassing. The park experiences fall color for several weeks at varying elevations, so you’ll see some gorgeous displays whenever your fall visit commences. Head to Cades Cove or Clingmans Dome for views, and hike Mount LeConte for something more challenging.
WHERE TO STAY:
Stay in Gatlinburg, the gateway city to the park in Tennessee. There are lots of lodging options for any traveler. I’d love to go complete kitsch on my next visit and stay at Dolly Parton’s nearby Dollywood Dream More Resort & Spa.
BOTTOM LINE:
The Smokies and autumn are synonymous for a reason – and you must see it to believe. The park is easy for much of the country to visit, with many accommodations, trails, and activities nearby.
3 – GRAND TETON NATIONAL PARK – WYOMING
Emily Hart
I’ve made my love for Grand Teton National Park no secret. After visiting 59 of the 63 major US National Parks, it is still the one I return to most often, and – when pressed – I would say it is my “favorite.” While every season is magical with a Teton view, fall is extraordinary. With lessened crowds, changing leaves, crisp air, abundant wildlife, and greater ease in securing accommodations – it is always my recommended time frame for a visit.
WHAT TO DO:
Hike String Lake Loop, Taggart Lake, or Cascade Canyon. Take a scenic drive on the park road and watch the sunset over Jackson Lake. You can’t go wrong with a Teton view.
Truthfully, I’ll never leave this park off of any “best of” National Park list. It is incredible in all seasons and truly a wonder of our world. That said, fall offers a unique experience for travelers looking for a Teton view with slightly fewer crowds.
2 – NEW RIVER GORGE NATIONAL PARK – WEST VIRGINIA
Emily Hart
As the newest recipient of simply the “National Park” name and redesignation, New River Gorge National Park may not yet be on many park lovers’ radar. But it should be – especially during the fall. I have visited the park in summer and fall, and while they were both incredible, the fall foliage took this underrated park to the next level. The hiking trails, river access, and quaint towns that dot the area around the park are the perfect place for a long weekend getaway – it is also prime time for rafting the nearby Gauley River during the world-class Gauley Season rapids.
WHAT TO DO:
New River Gorge comes alive in the fall season – with incredible foliage and outdoor adventure. Gauley Season brings whitewater enthusiasts worldwide to this West Virginia park, along with the legendary “Bridge Day,” where BASE jumpers hurtle into the gorge beneath the New River Gorge Bridge and takes place on the third Saturday in October.
WHERE TO STAY:
I loved staying at River Expeditions during my fall visit. They offer many options for onsite lodging, from tents to luxury homes, along with a zip line, bar and restaurant, beautiful grounds, and guided river trips.
BOTTOM LINE:
New River Gorge is the “newest” National Park in the NPS system – but it has already proved one of the best. From fall foliage to great weather, friendly people, and heart-stopping adventure – fall here is next level.
1 – ACADIA NATIONAL PARK – MAINE
Emily Hart
This ranking should surprise no one, and a part of me almost didn’t want to seem cliche by giving this park the top spot – but it’s known for fall for a reason y’all. There is simply nothing else like Acadia National Park in Maine during the fall months, with incredible foliage covering the small park, beautiful sunrises and sunsets, hiking trails that feel like a fairytale, and water always nearby – it is worth braving the crowds that will be with you here this (and any) fall.
WHAT TO DO:
Head up to the summit of Cadillac Mountain (with a timed entry reservation) for sunrise or sunset. Hike or bike the carriage roads, follow the Jordan Pond Path and hike the Beehive and Precipice Trails for more of an adventure.
WHERE TO STAY:
Stay in the quaint Bar Harbor in a traditional hotel, resort, or one of the many quaint bed and breakfasts. I always come back to The Elmhurst Inn.
BOTTOM LINE:
It will be crowded, but once you catch a glimpse of Acadia in the fall, you won’t even mind the traffic – it’s that enchanting.
Did anyone who voted for John Letterman really expect and/or want him to be wearing a suit everyday in the Senate? Dude seems exceptionally happy now that he’s dressing like himself again — in cargo shorts and a hoodie — and this is also how he dressed on the campaign trail. He’s giving people want they voted for, and he’s showing up and getting the job done, rather than scrambling up the Capitol stairs while missing an important vote.
Speaking of Lauren Boebert, she previously called out Fetterman’s “unbecoming” congressional hoodie, which probably made him really enjoy issuing an excellent response to a comparison of his clothing with her Beetlejuice scandal. Fetterman also pushed back at Marjorie Taylor Greene’s bashing of his clothing, and now, it looks like Meatball Ron DeSantis wants a piece of the action.
On the campaign trail, DeSantis actually went there to complain about DeSantis’ “like, sweatshirts and hoodies and shorts,” which he likened to “dumbing down.”
DESANTIS: “The US Senate just eliminated its dress code because you got this guy from Pennsylvania [Fetterman] – who’s got a lot of problems […] he wears, like, sweatshirts and hoodies and shorts […] We need to be lifting up our standards in this country, not dumbing down.” pic.twitter.com/IZDlkmPcPA
This is funny and a fitting comeback, even though it’s not entirely accurate. Whereas Fetterman looks very comfy in his choice of clothing, DeSantis never looks comfortable doing anything. He cannot even look natural while eating pizza, so there’s probably no hope for him giving up those robot ways. Whereas Fetterman has no need for “crudités” or fancy clothing. Still, good comeback.
In 2021 Floridians reëlected Ron DeSantis, which is a shame because judging from his 2024 presidential campaign, it looks like they’re stuck with him. But look on the bright side: Things could be worse. They could be ruled by incompetent impeacher and general annoyance Matt Gaetz. Alas, turns out that nightmare could become a reality.
As per NBC News, Gaetz — who’s long been on the shortlist of possible DeSantis successors, presumably even when he was being investigated for ties to a sex trafficking ring — spent part of the weekend allegedly talking up his gubernatorial prospects. During festivities for future speaker of the Florida House held at a Tallahassee Marriott, Gaetz was seen “kind of holding court” as he allegedly talked up a 2026 run.
“There was a lot of talk about it at the reception last night, and Gaetz was telling people to basically expect him to be in,” a longtime Florida GOP lobbyist claimed.
Alas, Gaetz poured some cold water on that one, sort of, not really. “Many did encourage me to consider running for governor one day,” Gaetz told NBC News about the weekend’s transpirings. “But we have an outstanding governor who will be in that position through 2026.” He added, “My only political focus right now is Trump 2024.”
Even Donald Trump’s Trumpiest fans have to admit that as president he didn’t take the job’s traditions seriously. Instead of working round the clock, he apparently watched tons of TV. Instead of following the law and preserving any and all White House documents, he would tear them up or stuff them down toilets, clogging them. But that’s not all he would do to government materials.
As per ABC News, Trump’s longtime assistants informed federal prosecutors that he repeatedly used White House documents as an excellent place to scrawl to-do lists:
As described to ABC News, the aide, Molly Michael, told investigators that — more than once — she received requests or taskings from Trump that were written on the back of notecards, and she later recognized those notecards as sensitive White House materials — with visible classification markings — used to brief Trump while he was still in office about phone calls with foreign leaders or other international-related matters.
Last summer, when the feds searched Mar-a-Lago for government documents that had not been returned as requested, they didn’t take said notecards with them. Instead, Michael later discovered them under a drawer organizer. She then helped transfer them to the FBI.
Sources also say Michael claimed that after Trump learned that the feds wanted to interview her last year, he told her, “You don’t know anything about the boxes.”
Of the 91 criminal charges Trump faces, 37 of them are connected with the case accusing him of mishandling government documents. About Michael’s claims, a Trump spokesperson said that they lack “proper context and relevant information,” on top of being part of “illegal leaks.”
Ever since the rumor that NSYNC would return for the 2023 MTV VMAs turned out to be true (it was the second such rumor in a decade, so some skepticism would have been warranted), hopeful fans (including Taylor Swift) have been clamoring for a full-on reunion with an album and a tour. The is already enjoying some renewed attention thanks to their new song in the upcoming animated film Trolls Band Together (which appears to be loosely inspired by the band’s success and breakup), so it’s only natural for fans to wonder…
Does NSYNC Have A New Album Or Tour Coming Soon?
Unfortunately for millions of millennial former teenyboppers, it doesn’t look like a comeback album or a reunion tour is currently in the works. According to Billboard, sources say NSYNC doesn’t have any plans to jump back into the boy band business. But, on the bright side — for some, at least — it sounds like Justin Timberlake is going to be putting out a new album in time for his own tour in 2024. His reps have put holds on several dates at arenas across North America and he’s set to enter a new album cycle.
So, sorry boy band fans, but you’ve got a glass half-full/half-empty situation on your hands here. At least you have the Trolls Band Together soundtrack. That’s due in November.
Weddings are expensive so, many brides look for ways to cut corners where they can. Designer wedding dresses can cost more than a nice used car so any sort of sale or thrift store find can significantly boost your budget for other things. Emmali Osterhoudt came across a deal so good on a wedding gown that she bought it immediately, even though she doesn’t have a fiancé.
It was too good of a deal to pass up at $25 when the original tag (still on the dress) read $6,200. The fact that the dress fit like a glove right off of the Goodwill rack makes not having someone to stand at the end of the aisle a mere technicality. Osterhoudt didn’t want to keep her find a secret, she uploaded a video of her future wedding dress to TikTok where it went viral.
The unbetrothed woman’s post generated more than 3.5 million views and caught the eye of the dress’s designer, Galia Lahav.
If you’re into celebrity news, including all the details of their big day, then you’ve likely come across Lahav’s name. She’s designed dresses for Katy Perry, Beyoncé, Jennifer Lopez, Christina Aguilera and Paris Hilton, according to Good Morning America. The dress is truly an incredible find on a day that Osterhoudt likely would’ve considered a bust, since she revealed in a follow up video that she used to answer people’s questions, she wasn’t having luck at that particular Goodwill.
“This Goodwill is in Birmingham, Alabama, in the Green Springs area and it had nothing. It had nothing but the dress,” Osterhoudt laughs. “I had gone in just to look at some picture frames for a gallery wall and I did. I had already checked out.”
Answer some of the Galia Lahav dress questions with me!!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼 #goodwill #goodwillfinds #galialahav #weddingdress
But on her way out she noticed a section they didn’t go through, so she went back to look. That’s where she found the beautiful designer gown, which luckily for other brides won’t be the only Lahav gown to hang on Goodwill racks. People received a press release from the designer revealing her plan to work with Goodwills across the country to donate wedding gowns.
“It’s a reminder that sometimes, life’s surprises can be as beautiful as the dress itself,” Galia Lahav said according to People.
Im so freaking excited about this find, i may not even use it when it comes to the day because im not getting engaged or married for awhile but maybe its fate lol also jlo has worn this brand as well #galialahav #galialahavbride #goodwill #weddingdress @Galia Lahav
Under the original video, people are flabbergasted by the woman’s thrifting find.
“As someone who has worked in bridal for 9 years and still has never seen a Galia Lahav in person, my jaw is on the FLOOR. The find of a LIFETIME,” one woman writes.
“We literally sell this dress where I work for $6800 20/10 find,” another person says.
“You had me at $25 designer wedding dress. A $6,175 save. To add it looks stunning on you, like it was made for you,” someone writes.
There’s no telling what you’ll find at the Goodwill, it can be anything from used salt and pepper shakers with little monetary value or a sculpted bust that turns out to be priceless. But thanks to Osterhoudt’s viral find, brides to be across America will soon be able to scour their local Goodwills to find a buried treasure left by the designer herself.
Deion Sanders changed our perceptions of an an athlete when he was one of the handful of people to ever play in the National Football League (1989 to 2005) and Major League Baseball simultaneously (1989 to 1997 and 2001).
Now, he’s changing perceptions on the sidelines as a head college football coach by being passionate, provocative and unapologetically “old school.”
Last season, the Colorado Buffaloes only won one game. This year, after hiring Sanders as a coach, the team is 3-0. One of the big reasons for the overnight change is that Sanders had no problem firing the entire coaching staff and replacing most of the team’s players.
Before the season began, Sanders told the team he was going to be hard on them and bring in a bunch of new guys from the transfer portal. If the players weren’t with how he was running things, he asked them to transfer out of the program.
“Now, if you went for that, if you were able to let words run you off, you ain’t for us because we’re a old-school staff,” he told “60 Minutes.” “We coach hard. We coach tough. We’re disciplinarians. So, if you’re allowing verbiage to run you off because you don’t feel secure with your ability, you ain’t for us,” he said.
“I’m sure that your straight talk was appreciated by some. But, is this scorched-earth policy good for college football or for the kids?” interviewer Jon Wertheim asked.
“I think truth is good for kids. We’re so busy lyin’, we don’t even recognize the truth no more in society,” Sanders replied. “We want everybody to feel good. That’s not the way life is. Now, it is my job to make sure I have what we need to win. That makes a lot of people feel good. Winning does,” he said.
Sanders’ honesty is probably refreshing to a lot of people who think kids are too coddled these days. What’s interesting is that his ultimate goal is exactly the same as a parent or coach who sugarcoats things. Sanders believes that by pushing young people hard they can achieve great things and through that success comes happiness.
Historically, guys with a passion for comic books, Star Wars, or anything else that might have a fandom, haven’t exactly been the poster boys for the ideal love interest. But nowadays, it looks like nerds really do get revenge.
Because apparently, everything that makes a great nerd, also happened to make a great husband. At least, according to thousands of women on social media.
Married podcaster Isabel Brown recently went viral on TikTok for attesting that “nerds make the best husbands,” and that society just gives them a bad rep.
Brown made her appeal as part of a stitch with another woman asking how to find a man that are thoughtful, attentive, good fathers, and know how to “spoil” their wives.
Brown’s response? “They’re nerds.”
“It honestly blows my mind how we have this entire trope in American literature and movies and TV shows about the nerdy girl who gets the glow up when she grows up,” ranted Brown of the common theme features in famed rom-com classics like “She’s All That” and “Never Been Kissed, but we don’t say that for men!” Brown says in her video.
In her opinion, we should be taking those nerdy traits as “green flags.”
“Hear me loud and clear, if he owns a lightsaber — green flag,” says Brown. “If he has purchased a wand from the wizarding world of Harry Potter — greenest possible flag. If he has an unhealthy obsession with Ashoka Tano, you better run to the altar.”
Brown even allots “bonus points” to a guy obsessed with monopoly.
But why does she think these traits translate into being good husbands? Because from her perspective, it means these men will appreciate their partner’s inner drives more, and understand heartfelt passions.
“Those little underestimated nerd boys grow up to be men who see what’s on here,” she says, while placing a hand on her heart.
Brown clearly wasn’t alone in her opinion. Several married women who had nerdy husbands of their own chimed in to agree.
“Mine has a LOTR sword and I knew he was the one after that,” wrote fellow TikTok creator Elyse Myers.
Another woman commented “I married the anime loving, nerdy gamer boy. Wouldn’t change it for the world.”
“Watching those beautiful girls [they’ve] always been attracted to” receive less-than-stellar treatment from other guys that are typically seen as more attractive provides a curriculum for “what not to do [in relationships],” he says.
According to some, however, this isn’t a foolproof dating plan.
As self-described nerd Justin explains, if a woman simply dates a nerdy man in hopes that it will make him a more loyal and dedicated partner, but doesn’t have any nerdy qualities herself and isn’t “willing to become part of that culture in some way,” then they won’t actually be able to build anything meaningful.
While it’s true that shared interests can create deep bonds, many experts agree that it isn’t vital to having a fulfilling relationship. In fact, having a partner with opposite interests can help us grow into more well rounded individuals. What really matters in the long run is having similar values and ethics.
Still, to Justin’s point, it probably isn’t best to date someone simply for what they can do for you. You need to actually appreciate who they are.
All this to say—aside from general personal improvement, it probably isn’t necessary for you to change key aspects of who you are in order to become more desirable by potential partners. What really matters is being authentic and actually being ready to be a partner.
When polarization starts to feel like a defining characteristic of humanity, sometimes we need a reminder that people really are capable of coming together as one.
Watching a stadium full of Green Day concertgoers bust out their best “Bohemian Rhapsody” when it came over the loudspeakers is just such a reminder.
As the person who uploaded the concert footage to Reddit noted: “For almost 6 minutes, the equivalent of a small city sang, with one voice, the beautiful song of a man who has been dead for decades. If you can do this, you’re not just a famous person, you’re a legend.”
What could be more palette-cleansing than hearing thousands of people breaking into song together for an entire six minutes? What’s more unifying than a piece of music being so beloved and well-known that a whole stadium knows every note and word and sings it in unison with all their heart?
As one commenter on Reddit wrote, “Ever notice how one crowd singing together always sound the same as other crowds, as in has the same tambre [sic] and sound quality? It’s like the recognizable and familiar voice of humanity. Regardless of how different the people in the crowd are, the crowd always sounds the same. I think the idea that we are listening to humanity’s voice when hearing a crowd sing is a beautiful concept.”
Listen to the voice of humanity. It’s truly a beautiful thing.
This article originally appeared on 03.03.20
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