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Just Blaze And Paul Smith Talk About Their Iconic Austin Takeovers And Share Plans For 2024’s Event

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If you aren’t feeling hyped for the chaos kicking off down in Austin this week, well… you’ve clearly never been to one of Just Blaze and Paul Smith’s famous takeovers. Simply put, Blaze and Smith are the uncrowned kings of this busy, bustling, wild melee of a month in Texas. And they’re coming back with a vengeance in 2024.

Who else can throw a party where Talib Kweli, Bun B, Redman, Jadakiss, Freeway, Beanie Sigel, and Dave Chappelle all hit the stage at the same time?

The answer is “no one.” Because for legendary hip-hop producer/ Fresh Pair host Just Blaze and real estate mogul / rap-loving event mastermind Paul Smith, a great SXSW party isn’t about how much money you can squeeze out of the moment. It’s about creating long-term connections that endure year after year.

“It’s a family affair,” Smith tells me via Zoom, “it’s all about bringing people together — people who are talented and, ultimately, good people.”

What consistently makes Blaze and Smith’s takeovers work is that they capture the independent, improvisational spirit of what made heading to Austin in March such a vital experience for creative-minded folks in the first place. Their first takeover was held in Smith’s backyard on a make-shift stage built out of two-by-fours. Last year, with Uproxx joining the squad as a media sponsor, they hosted not only an iconic episode of Fresh Pair but one of the most viral and vital nights in all of rap history.

We linked up with Blaze and Smith to talk about what they have planned for this year’s event — held on March 13 and 14th, produced in partnership with Uproxx, with tickets available here — how they continue to surprise audiences, and why they love collaborating together year after year.

Just, we’ve had a long history with you at Uproxx. It’s been a super fruitful collaboration with Fresh Pair and beyond, but I’m interested in your collaboration with Paul. How did you two link up?

Just Blaze: Aside from being an amazing event partner, Paul is a real estate genius and has done very well for himself there. And that’s initially how we met. Our agent linked us because Paul was handling some accommodations for a bunch of artists at South By Southwest. And Paul — correct me if I’m wrong — I think stayed at one of your properties at one point?

Paul Smith: Yeah, so basically in 2012 my wife and I had just moved downtown into a high-rise condo, and this was when Doritos was coming in and doing huge things, like all of a sudden they’ve got Lady Gaga booked to play in a parking lot for 500 people — it was just on its way to getting crazy.

I was helping people find places to stay for South By, and linking artists with people within the industry to homies of mine to be like, “Look, this is a good person. Don’t try to rake them over the coals for money.” And so being the plug as far as that goes is what started that. And so Sonny [Skrillex] had reserved four units at a condo that I was at, and then he pulled out and at that same time they connected me with Just.

Blaze: So Skrillex had booked a bunch of properties with Paul, and at the time we had the same agent. So I needed a place, that was my first South By getting booked for multiple things. Before that, I’d play one thing here, one thing there, but I had just put out the Higher record and it took off.

So I went from getting booked for one show to three shows a night. So I had to stay for an entire South By run. My agent connected me with Paul and what started as just a transaction ended up becoming a genuine friendship and brotherhood. So we stayed in touch over time and whenever I went down to Austin, he and his crew became my crew and my family. One year he had an idea to do a thing in his backyard and it went over very well — we continued to do that and it just grew.

I love how organic that sounds.

Blaze: It’s very much an organic growth story that started literally in a backyard and got so big that it couldn’t be held there anymore. We started going to actual venues and it’s grown every year since. We went from playing in a backyard with a few friends to Dave Chappelle rushing the stage requesting Redman records. You can’t get much better than that, especially organically.

Don’t get me wrong, there’s always strategy involved — you hope that it ends up here — but you could never plan or anticipate certain moments.

I think it was good planning, good vibes, but most importantly just good energy and good people. Just about everybody that you’ve seen that has taken the stage at any of our collaborative events has always been family in one sense or another. And when you keep it all in the family, when you keep that kind of energy going and everybody’s there for a good cause and just to have fun and support each other, that’s when things fall together the way they have been over the past decade-plus.

I think if I could say anything or stress anything, it would be that everybody is there to support each other in one way or another.

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Paul, obviously you’re a master organizer and you care very deeply about Austin — the Uproxx team raves about you. I’m just curious, where does that passion come from, this deep love of music you have, and for organizing and getting talented people together to celebrate the city?

Smith: Well, the crazy thing for me when it comes to music is it’s like my passion project. So everything I do typically in the music world will have some level of a charity component, and that’s everything from the first Open House that Just and I did, where literally, we made this stage out of two-by-fours and plywood and it was definitely rickety and just took a piece of vinyl across the front with the lamest graphics.

You know what though? It was dope.

And all the proceeds went to a nonprofit locally. Typically everything that I do within the music world has some sort of a philanthropic charge to it. A lot of times, one thing that music does is bring people together and it doesn’t matter where you are in life, we can all vibe at the same time. Dave [Chappelle] is doing the same shoulder rocking thing as people in the crowd, and at that point, music brings everybody on the same level regardless of who you are.

And I think one of the dope things that South By has done is have all these people that are coming in from different walks of life within the music community, and there are a few people that I’ve seen that bring people together really well.

I think Just is one of those people, I think Jazzy Jeff’s one of those people, I think Dave Chappelle is one of those people, where if you’re in the room vetted by them, then all of a sudden the guard comes down and now you’re just somebody that Just approved of, Jeff or Dave. And at that point there, that’s when a lot of real connection could happen because it’s no longer “What can you do for me? Who’s paying you to be here?” It’s like, “I want to be here. Let’s vibe.”

And that’s a big difference

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In the time you two have worked together, what are your highlights? Just, I know you mentioned Dave rushing the stage last year. That’s a super big moment, but what stands out to you individually?

Blaze: To be honest, it’s very cliche to say, but it’s true — It’s more about the journey than the destination. We’ve had so many highlights. The great thing I think about every year is the anticipation of who’s going to come out because we never really advertise the full lineup. So the look on people’s faces when a surprise artist graces the stage and it’s somebody that they didn’t expect is really cool.

I know the year that we did it with TI was awesome because nobody expected it. Don’t get me wrong, everybody who graces that stage is a legend. I just think we have our set group that people might expect or might not expect. Like Redman, okay, that makes sense. Wu-Tang, all right, that makes sense. Mannie Fresh, all right. That’s dope. It makes sense. A-Trak, Jazzy Jeff, this all makes sense.

But then you just have Tip come out of nowhere and the way we set it up was great because initially, we had his son come out.

Smith: By the way, shout out to Domani — dude, he’s blowing up right now.

Blaze: Yup. We had his son come out and the crowd gave him a great response. He put on a great performance, so they gave him a great response, but nobody in the crowd knew that he was Tip’s son. So when he says something about, “Let me bring out my dad,” and the crowd’s like, “Huh, you’re going to bring out your… dad?”

They’re expecting some old dude or whatever, then here comes Tip. And the crowd’s like, “Oh my God!” That was an awesome moment. And I think it was because of the setup beforehand because we had that extra layer of surprise.

Going back to what Paul was saying, it’s not so much about how much you paid to be here or how much you got to perform. These are guys that can easily command hundreds of thousands of dollars to even walk into a building. While we do well individually and as a collective, we don’t have that kind of money to put on a nearly free show. You know what I mean? Everybody that’s come out, we always take care of them because they’re extended family, but nobody’s come out for the big paycheck — which is just a testament to the kind of vibe and energy that we’ve built around this party to the point where we can say, “Oh, you know what it is, you’ve seen it, this person has done it, that person has done it.” And they’re like, “All right, cool, count me in.”

Good vibe and good energy are so key and so important as well as just relationships and the fact that, as Paul said, we always try to tie it into a charity. Nobody’s kicking off here.

The artists will walk away with a few dollars in their pocket and have had a good time and contributed to a good cause but nobody’s getting rich here. We’re just here to culturally leave our mark on Austin every year because, like Paul said, South By Southwest was this organic thing. And then next thing you know, we had people performing inside of 500-foot Dorito bags and events where you had to have an American Express card to get in or you had to be a member of this or a member of that. And it was taken away a bit from a lot of that organic experience, which is why we’ve always positioned the event the way we did — come one come all and just have a good time because we felt like some of that was missing on a larger scale.

Most of the big events were super hard to get into. You had to be a badge holder, you had to have this requirement or that requirement, and we were just like, “Yo, just come hang out man.” And that’s what it’s all been about.

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Nice. The same question, Paul, a moment that stands out to you as one of your favorites?

Smith: Man, there’s a bunch, right?

So South By is about creating moments. There are the moments that are happening where you’re hosting an event and you’re creating moments for those that are on the other side of the stage. And then there are also moments in which you’re creating for those on stage. And so then it’s like as we go through life, for me part of success is being able to put my friends on. And so it’s to say, “Oh man, two of my friends are doing something dope in the studio. Hey Just, what are your thoughts on this?” And maybe they do a collab or Questlove starts Questlove Supreme.

We’re out for breakfast one day and then all of a sudden Just is on there as a guest. Or sponsorships from last year — specifically with Hardin and then Trill Burgers — Bun doing a Trill Burgers out at Hardin during F1. Just the different kinds of spider webs of connections that happen. And not to say that they happen because of what we’re doing, but I think it certainly helps to bring people together and then nurture the relationships from that point forward. And again, I think it’s one of those things where if you’re not in it saying, “What can you do for me,” but “How can we build together?” then it doesn’t work.

What would you say it takes to galvanize your community? This is a group of people who are coming with high expectations and you guys mentioned the element of surprise a lot, so I just want to get taken into the headspace of what you guys are thinking as event planners and how you’re going to make it stand out year after year after year.

Blaze: That’s part of the challenge. At least on my end, there’s no grand formula. I think the part that makes it tough is March is a busy time of the year for everyone. You have festivals starting to pop back up around the country. You have the larger South By things that people do get paid a good amount of money for. So it’s always that balance of who will make an impact and who’s available. And that’s the challenging part, balancing cultural impact.

And it’s South By week, so things are constantly moving and evolving. The great thing about South By though is that a lot of times, even speaking from personal experience, I don’t like doing a ton of things anymore, but I’ll go down there booked to do one or two things and next thing you know people find out you’re in town and “Why don’t you come play my show,” or “I’ll come play your show if you come play my show.”

I remember one year, I got into town on Monday and I had something at Empire Garage. Somebody tapped me on the shoulder like “Yo, Rae and Ghost are behind you.” I’m like, “What? Are they performing?” They’re like, “No, they just came to see your show.” So next thing you know, I start playing some of their records. They jump out on stage. Next thing we know I go with them to one of their shows. They brought me out as a guest DJ, and I guest DJ the second half of the set.

So it’s very organic like that, which contributes sometimes to the surprise factor because you never know who else might be in town that might just be down to jump up on stage. So we almost have to bank on the fact that something magic will happen at the last minute that we didn’t plan. It’s been like that almost every year. So that’s something we have to factor in addition to what we do plan for. But yeah, there’s no one formula to keep it fresh. It’s just really us brainstorming and figuring out what makes sense every year.

I wanted to ask Paul specifically, as someone who spends so much time in Austin and is very connected to the city, can you speak to the importance of South By Southwest as a cultural event?

Smith: I think South By is something that put Austin on the map for creatives. South By was birthed by creatives, right? Same thing with C3, with ACL, you had all these creatives that were in Austin because at the time the rental rate was only 18% of the median income versus now it’s like 50%.

And so you have a large creative class, your Stevie Ray Vaughans, Janis Joplins, that can create that Sixth Street vibe that was the live music capital of the world. And that’s exactly how South By was birthed. It was a small festival, basically a group of shows that was on Sixth Street, and then you could come in and you’d see these different bands and over time they turned into what they are now, taking the convention center, putting panels together, bringing like-minded people together. And then you bring in music, you bring in tech and whatnot, and it becomes bigger. And so I think South By and its effect on Austin is hugely cultural, and obviously, they had their moment of starting in a backyard on some two-by-fours and some plywood too.

You guys have become known for the special guests and Just mentioned how sometimes this is about who’s available at that time which is always shifting. When it comes to those special guests, how up to the last minute is that? Is this something that you guys have any ability to project or is it always this final text like, “Guess who’s coming through!”?

Smith: I think it’s one of those things where you got to build out your mainstay. For example, Just and I went to the Grammys last year basically to go hang out with Pee .Wee [DJ Pee .Wee is Anderson .Paak’s DJ moniker] and just talked to him a little bit. And I know Just was doing some other stuff out there, but that was somebody that we had been talking to for a while and then all of a sudden we’d find ourselves doing karaoke at 04:30 in the morning and it’s like, “Okay, this is going to be a thing now” or with Tip, that was something where it was like, “Hey, he’s available.” A lot of times I feel like it starts out where people hit Just to be like, “Hey, let’s work together.” And it’s like, well, how do we use The Takeover as a way to maybe bring that collab together as some sort of a jumping point so people can see us on stage together or stuff like that?

And then there’s other stuff where it’s like, this person just flew in or they’re willing to fly in early, if we take care of their hotel and do something for them financially, which might not be what it normally would be, but they’ll come on for a couple of tracks. Again, I think the idea is you don’t know who’s going to come out and if all of a sudden you got hypothetically, Mannie Fresh and Juvenile and Juvenile comes out and drops “Back That Azz Up,” people are going to go nuts… Not saying that’s going to happen!

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On that note, what can you guys tell us about this year’s Takeover? I know that there’s going to be some stuff that you’re not going to be able to share. From the sounds of it, there might be some stuff you guys aren’t even fully sure is going to happen yet, so what can people expect?

Blaze: Good music.

Smith: It’ll be dope.

Blaze: Good energy. That’s the answer. Good music, good vibes, good energy. Be there. That’s it.

Smith: I’m excited. We’re getting ready to drop to the save the date. It’s one of those things where it’s like South By comes together in the last three weeks. It’s like the amount of people that are calling me saying, “Hey, we’ve got sponsorship dollars, or we’re going to be in town, or there’s going to be that.” It’s nuts.

Blaze: The key is you build out your core night, you build out your core experience, and then you just let the South By magic happen. Like Paul said, getting that phone call that somebody just landed or getting that call that somebody just finished a show and has some free time to kill and wants to come to check out your party. I would say it’s like 60/40. 60% planned and then you just let the chaos take over.

Smith: And I think the crazy thing is that run of the show — without the special guest — would probably still be the dopest thing happening that night.

Blaze: Exactly.

I just have one more question for you, and you guys touched on this a little bit briefly when we first started talking, but I think that the things that make these types of collaborations work, the things that make them resonate with people is passion and this is a point of passion for you.

So how do you define the Takeover in your own terms?

Smith: I would say it’s about collaboration. I think it’s one of those things where it’s similar to when Jazzy Jeff did PLAYLIST Retreat. He brings people together and they end up doing dope creations. They’re creating music, but typically at that point, it’s like everybody that’s in the room has either known each other or they’re one degree of separation from knowing each other.

So to me, it’s nice because you’ve got the core group of folks that we’re always hanging out with, but then there’s going to be somebody like a Zeelie or somebody or Buck Rogers pre-pandemic, he performed at one of our shows, and then he gets invited to PLAYLIST Retreat. And so stuff like that. It’s a family affair, and it’s just bringing people together and people who are talented and ultimately good people.

We know some talented people who aren’t great… typically we don’t want to work with them.

At the end of the day, my goal isn’t to pull every dollar out of it, so to speak. I’m certainly not a corporate sponsor in any way. So for me, it’s trying to create the dopest thing I can for Austin, and that in itself is the reason to do it.

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Kirsten Dunst Said Shooting The Violent, Gunfire-Heavy ‘Civil War’ Left Her With PTSD

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Kirsten Dunst hasn’t really done action before. She’s got the Tobey Maguire-era Spider-Man films, but for the most part she sticks to serious, non-gun-heavy cinema. She’s used to movies like her last one, The Power of the Dog, a revisionist Western that nabbed her her first Oscar nomination (ditto her husband). So when she signed up for the forthcoming Civil War, she was really not prepared for spending her workdays surrounded by loud (fake) gun shots.

In a new cover story for Marie Claire (in a bit teased out by Entertainment Weekly), the actress said she was initially pumped to do the film, about a dystopian future in which the nation is being torn asunder by dueling forces, which isn’t at all relevant to what’s going on now. “When I read the script, I thought, I’ve never done anything like this,” she remembered thinking.

Shooting it was a different story. Some of the more hectic business, such as combat scenes and a car chase, she said, “shook me to my core.”

“I remember hearing them practice an explosion. We were in the hair and makeup trailer, which was very far away from set, and the whole trailer shook,” she recalled. “There’s so much gunfire, and then you look at the news and it’s a school shooting again.”

Dunst said she “had PTSD for a good two weeks after.” She added, “I remember coming home and eating lunch and I felt really empty.” But perhaps that was what helped her performance, as a journalist caught in the middle of warfare. Alex Garland, the film’s writer-director (also of Ex Machina and Annihilation), wanted her to “let herself live inside the film, and feel the reality of the moments.”

On the other hand doing a big, violent, overly topical movie with lots of guns was a relief from the kinds of scripts she’d been getting. Since she’s a woman actress in her early 40s, she lamented that “every role I was being offered was the sad mom.”

Civil War hit theaters on March 14.

(Via Marie Claire and EW)

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Is Ice Spice’s Debut Album ‘Y2K’ Done?

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For the past 18 months, Bronx rapper Ice Spice has been a fixture of popular culture. Breaking out with her single “Munch (Feelin’ U)” in the summer of 2022 on wave of social media goodwill, the 24-year-old artist has parlayed her TikTok popularity into a flourishing career. She’s collaborated with some of the biggest artists in music, including Doja Cat, Nicki Minaj, and Taylor Swift, starred in Super Bowl ads, and grown in both skill and stature, all while driving discourse about her supposed lack of talent — which only makes her bigger.

She’s done all this without putting an album out, by the way.

So, naturally, the question on a lot of interested parties’ minds is: when will Ice Spice put out her debut album? While she did feed fans a project last year — the EP Like..? — both her fans and detractors are waiting impatiently for her to release a full-length project. Both may soon get their wish, as she announced the title for her debut, Y2K, and her intention to release it this year. After months of teasing, she shared some good news on social media today: she’s finished recording Y2K.

Does that mean the album is done though?

I guess that depends on what you mean by “done.” If you mean “in a state that is fit for public consumption” the answer is most likely “no.” After all, while Ice might be finished performing her raps into a microphone in a studio booth, that doesn’t necessarily mean that the songs themselves won’t go through multiple revisions, from beat changes to adding guests and live instrumentation, depending on Ice’s vision. From there, the recorded tracks will have to be mixed and mastered — meaning that the sound levels of everything from ad-libs to hi-hats will have to be adjusted and matched from song-to-song across the project.

Then there’s marketing and rollout to consider. Which songs will be singles? Are the music videos and single packaging shot and edited yet? Will there be any corporate tie-ins with the release? Almost certainly in today’s climate, when brand partnerships are an integral part of the business. So, while Y2K is probably in the pipeline, it could be months until we actually hear it. But hey, a slow-roasted meal nearly always tastes better than one from the microwave. A little patience goes a long way, and hopefully, in the case of Ice Spice’s album, it’ll pay off.

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The Boston Celtics Biggest Challenge Will Be Themselves

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The Boston Celtics spent Sunday afternoon bludgeoning the Golden State Warriors, turning what ABC hoped would be an exciting national TV showcase game into a Summer League exhibition by the third quarter. Both teams emptied the benches early in the second half, as the Celtics led 82-38 at halftime and ultimately cruised to a 140-88 win, providing yet another result to point to their dominance this season.

While there’s a tight race at the top of the West standings between two young, up-and-coming contenders in Minnesota and Oklahoma City, the defending champs in Denver, and a team finally hoping to fulfill its promise in the Clippers, there is no such race at the top of the East. Boston has an 8-game lead on the Milwaukee Bucks for the top seed in the conference, and should have the 1-seed locked up in a couple of weeks.

There aren’t many teams that are good enough to say anything less than a championship is a failure. The Celtics are, unquestionably, on that list. Those are the stakes for a team that’s made the Eastern Conference Finals its perennial home, but have only gotten to the Finals one time in five attempts. That consistency in being on the verge of a title but never reaching the summit also makes Boston far more interesting going into the postseason than most teams with their kind of regular season resume.

The West figures to be decided by teams that are either so new to this that they don’t have a ton of playoff scar tissue, or teams that have a championship pedigree. That should create some incredible matchups and tremendous storylines as new contenders look to take down past champions, but in the East, the dominant storyline will be the Celtics battling themselves.

Teams like the Warriors and Heat laid the blueprint for dealing with the Boston teams of the past, finding ways to frustrate and bait them into taking bad shots, settling for hero ball rather than playing with the flow that got them there. They spent this offseason trying to address those issues. Gone is Marcus Smart, the longtime emotional and vocal leader of the team, supplanted by Derrick White and Jrue Holiday in the point guard role. Smart was moved to bring in Kristaps Porzingis, the hopeful answer to the late-game offensive stagnation of the past. The results, to this point, have been emphatic. The Celtics have the best offense in the NBA. They have the second-best defense in the NBA. They have not lost back-to-back games at any point this season.

However, while it’s certainly not fair to completely wave away this level of regular season excellence, the truth is Boston has to make sure all of this translates to the postseason, and that’s what makes the next couple months such a delicate dance. They will likely have the 1-seed in the East sewn up with two or more weeks left in the regular season, meaning they will play more “meaningless” basketball than anyone. That requires them to toe the line between rest and rust, finding the happy medium between getting as healthy as possible for the postseason while maintaining the form that’s gotten them this far.

Once there, for all the talented teams in the East, Boston appears to be in a class of their own and will be the heavy favorites to make the Finals. There are good teams in the East — Milwaukee is starting to figure things out under Doc Rivers, Philly should have Joel Embiid back, Miami has proven that seeding matters very little to them once they reach the playoffs. But even though all three of those teams could make up the road to the Finals, the Celtics’ biggest test will be internal.

We often talk about playoff experience and how important it is in the process of building a champion, but for every example of a title team molded by prior postseason failures, there’s even more that could never rid themselves of that scar tissue to get over the hump. Boston looks like a team built to do just that, but as Chris Berman always says, that’s why they play the games. The Celtics will inevitably find themselves in positions they’ve faced before, but the double-edged sword of experience is that there are things they’ve seen but not been able to overcome. They are battle-tested but equally battle-scarred, and moving beyond that will require them to find something deep within themselves to not let the past haunt their promising present.

This season has been about preparing themselves for those moments. Joe Mazzulla was practically glowing after the Celtics beat the Sixers while shooting 5-for-22 from three, thrilled to have a game he can point to where his team still dominated despite shots not falling. Porzingis provides a level of floor balance they’ve lacked, blending the rim protection they need on the defensive end with a dynamism on offense that no team really has an answer to when he’s playing well (you have, assuredly, consumed some piece of NBA content over the last few weeks that deemed him the most important Celtic). Holiday and White have kept their point of attack defense elite while raising their offensive profile from the guard position. As a whole, the roster has given Jaylen Brown and Jayson Tatum everything they could need in a supporting cast. As Tatum explained to me at All-Star Weekend, they don’t present opposing defenses any real weak points to attack.

“It’s tough. I mean, I feel like guarding us, you got to give up something. You can’t stop everything,” Tatum said. “And I think that’s what we were trying to build. Get the right guys in place in our system that you might have to give up something and you have to give it up to a really good player.”

And yet, despite 60 games of proving it in the regular season, everyone is just waiting to see if they can do it in the biggest moments in late May and early June — which, it must be said, is partly due to them steamrolling the East and making it so people can turn their attention to the playoffs. For the ascendent teams in the West, namely the Thunder and Timberwolves, there will be plenty of discussion about how they’re hurt by the lack of playoff experience, but there’s also a freedom that comes from that which, when harnessed, can be a propellant.

On the flip side, the Celtics have seen firsthand how thin the margins are once you reach the NBA’s final four, and they will have to dig deep to find that same freedom and play without the fear that can come when you’re trying to outrun ghosts of the past. Their effort to do so will be fascinating to watch unfold, but if they succeed, it’ll make that first time hoisting the Larry O’Brien even sweeter.

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Sitcom Icon Ed O’Neill Is Also The King Of Repeatedly Butt-Dialing His Famous Costars

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You might think that butt-dialing is a thing of the past due to all of these fancy phones and updated technology, but you have to remember that there are people over the age of 60 who still think that you need to yell over the phone to hear someone, so that should be taken into consideration. Plus, we can’t really trust these things anymore.

Ed O’Neill, a legendary sitcom actor who also happens to be 77 years old, is smart enough to not join the mob, but it doesn’t mean he is immune to technological difficulties.

O’Neill’s Modern Family costar Jesse Tyler Ferguson had Sofia Vergara on his podcast this week when the topic of O’Neill’s sporadic calls came up.

While discussing the final season of Modern Family, Ferguson mentioned that O’Neill spent most of his post-Modern Family life in Hawaii, adding, “Although he sort of got bored, I think, cause, I don’t know about you, but he would call me randomly.” Vergara confirmed that this is his motive: “Oh yeah, believe me, he would call me randomly,” she said. The duo then swapped stories.

Ferguson said, “Sometimes it would be by accident. He’d FaceTime me, and I would just see, like, the side of his house. Like he would be holding his phone, accidentally like FaceTiming me, so I’d just be like seeing his wall,” he explained. “I’d be like Ed, Ed, Ed, it’s me. And he would be like, ‘Jesse, what are you doing on my phone?’” It didn’t stop there!

It seems that Ed also did the same thing to his former on-screen wife, but that’s because of her name. “You know what he does to me a lot? He leaves me messages, I think, because my name is Sofia and his daughter is Sophia. He leaves messages all the time, but it’s to the daughter,” Vergara explained. “He always starts ‘Sophia, it’s dad.’ I’m like, at the beginning, it was like, ‘Why is he calling? Why is he calling himself that to me?’ You know? And then I was like, ‘Oh, it’s Sophia, the daughter.’” she concluded.

The cast recently reunited on stage at the SAG Awards, mostly just to prove that they are all alive. “Honestly, on that night, we were all busy,” Ferguson explained. “Sofia Vergara was supposed to be doing press, I was supposed to be here in New York, Julie Bowen was shooting a show, Ed O’Neill had a glass of wine to drink. And so we all canceled those very important things, and we figured out a way to come together because the last time we had a reunion, Ty Burrell wasn’t able to come, and so we posed with a photo of Ty… and then the internet thought he was dead.”

Turns out he’s not dead, he just has a pretty significant mustache now.

(Via EW)

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From adding spikes to removing benches, anti-homeless architecture hurts us all

Have you noticed it’s getting harder and harder to find a place to sit in public spaces these days? There’s a reason for that. It’s a purposeful choice many municipalities are making in an effort to keep people who are homeless from setting up camp or making beds out of benches.

The anti-homeless spikes that make lying down on steps, along buildings and on other flat surfaces have been addressed by communities in creative ways, such as the artists who set up a cozy bed with a bookshelf attached to it over one set of spikes in London. But there are other manifestations of hostile architecture popping up around the world as the homelessness crisis reaches dire proportions in some cities.

Hostile or anti-homeless architecture makes the environment incompatible with comfortable rest and relaxation, which serves the purpose of pushing homeless people out of those spaces (but does nothing to actually solve the problem). And at the same time, it makes shared public spaces a lot less comfortable for everyone.


Cash Jordan shared a bunch of examples of hostile architecture in New York City, from bumpy subway vent covers that prevent people from sleeping on them, to slanted benches you can just lean on but not sit on, to removing benches and seats from public transportation stations altogether.

Not only do such choices make life harder for homeless people, but people with disabilities, elderly and pregnant people and others need to be able to sit for a bit when they’re out and about. And all of us could use a little respite from walking and standing sometimes. Hostile architecture choices remove features that make public spaces accessible and usable for us all.

Watch Jordan explain:

“It seems to me the ‘hostile architecture’ is only kicking the can down the road— if you notice they are not solving their homeless crisis—just keeping people out of certain areas,” wrote one commenter.

“That’s not stopping people from being homelesss, that’s just making everyone uncomfortable,” wrote another.

“Cities/people think homeless people will just go away with things like this. Unless you’ve been homeless (I have) you don’t understand the desperation, fear, and embarrassment of it. Whether due to poor choices or not (and it’s NOT always, even in America), no one deserves this,” shared another.

“As someone with a disability that makes it very painful for me to stand for long periods, that train station would be absolute hell,” added another. “So not only is this affecting the homeless population, it affects the many, many people like me with disabilities. I don’t like having to take my wheelchair places if I can help it, but places like that would force me to.”

Homelessness is not a simple problem to solve, no matter what anyone says, but putting money into something like this, which doesn’t actually address the problem itself, is wasteful in addition to making public spaces less usable. What if we invested that money into quality, affordable housing, programs that address the addiction and mental health issues that often perpetuate homelessness or other initiatives that actually stand a chance of solving the problem at its core instead?

Targeting the homeless population with hostile architecture is unkind at its core, and making public spaces uninviting, unwelcoming and uncomfortable for all is a short-sighted “fix” that doesn’t actually help anyone. Let’s take a step back, reset our moral compass and create spaces that are useful, accessible and comfortable for all.

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Woman shares texts showing the difference between a healthy and a controlling relationship

Saving old text messages from exes can sometimes be an asset when you need to remember exactly why you left them. Alternately, sometimes digital relics from old relationships are a good reminder of how much good we have in our lives currently.

At least, they did for the Twitter user May Larsen, who recently posted screenshots of two text threads with two very different men.


The conversation on the left shows how an old conversation went down with an emotionally manipulative ex. While the other screenshot is a prime example of what communication in a healthy partnership looks like.

The emotional dynamics of this exchange are full of red flags.

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This ex (boyfriend, hookup, whatever he was) went from 0-100 in no time. In fact, the ONLY way this kind of freak out would be excusable would be if they had prior plans she ditched on. Alternately, if he was doing a performance art bit where he embodied Drake’s 0-100 via text message. Outside of those possibilities, this type of reaction is nothing short of manipulation and emotional abuse.

The second text message showed how Larsen’s current partner responds to a simple night out.

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The difference between these responses to a simple night out on the town is night and day. When comparing the two messages, the red flags really pop.

People on Twitter had a LOT of thoughts about the texts.

Some women shared similar experiences with possessive partners.

A lot of people assumed the texts were from two guys she’s currently dating.

That quickly got shut down.

Meanwhile, others were caught up with the fact that her current dude wears a cowboy hat.

Regardless of whether the rest of us are pro cowboy hat (I’m pro if you can pull it off), it seems they’ve got a healthy situation going. Communication is key, in any kind of relationship.

This article originally appeared on 04.10.19

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This offensive photo sparked a whole lot of love for the boy who deserved better

Gerod Roth posted a photo of himself with a coworker’s child last month.

And while it might not be immediately obvious why this was such a mistake, well … let me tell you.

The initial photo, screencapped and tweeted above by Twitter user Dr. X, is seemingly adorable. But the comments and Roth’s intent soon turned rather ugly.


Roth had snapped the pic of his coworker’s 3-year-old son, Cayden, without his coworker’s permission (already an incredibly uncool thing to do) and proceeded to use it as his profile picture.

After it was posted online, his Facebook friends filled the photo’s comment section with hurtful, racist “jokes”:

“I didn’t know you were a slave owner.”

“Dude where the hell did you get a black kid??”

“Kunta Kinte.”

“But Massuh, I dindu nuffin.”

Roth replied in the thread, “He was feral.”

Yep. Real comments from real people … aimed at a 3-year-old. Because of his skin color.

Of course, this being on the Internet and all, Cayden’s mom quickly learned about the awful things being said about her child.

The funny thing about the Internet is, things get around. And before long, Cayden’s mom, Sydney Shelton, heard about what this coworker had done at her child’s expense.

“He is a well-loved, fun-loving, hyper-active and typical three-year-old,” Shelton told Fox 5 News, adding there was nothing funny about that post.

Roth told the outlet he was disappointed in his friends’ reactions to the photo and insisted that his own comment had only been “interpreted as racist,” even though he hadn’t meant it that way.

Shelton wasn’t buying it.

“People post things in a [joking] manner and it gets taken a completely different way,” Shelton acknowledged. “But I don’t believe any of these people were joking.”

Instead of firing back at Roth with a few choice words, Shelton responded by letting the world see the real Cayden.

She posted several photos of her smiley, adorable son to Facebook, accompanied with the hashtag #HisNameIsCayden.

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The Internet caught wind of #HisNameIsCayden. And unlike Roth’s friends on Facebook, there were some really fabulous responses.

Britt Turner, a woman from Phoenix, was so inspired by Cayden’s story that she decided to launch a GoFundMe to raise money for Cayden’s college fund.

“Instead of continuing to shed light on all of the dark aspects of this horrible act, I would like to shed a lot of light onto the good things,” Turner wrote on the fundraising page. “This young man has a full life ahead of him. I wanted to create this for Cayden, simply for that reason alone.”

In the aftermath of the comments on the initial photo revealing Roth’s penchant for racist humor, Roth has since lost his job.

Michael Da Graca Pinto, president of Polaris Marketing Group, where Roth had been employed, shared a statement on the company’s Facebook page about the incident. He, too, was not happy about what had happened and assured followers that Roth had been fired on Sept. 29 (although he claimed it was due to unrelated issues at work):

“It breaks my heart that Sydney and her adorable son Cayden were subjected to such hateful, ignorant and despicable behavior. Cayden visits my office almost every afternoon after daycare, he’s sat at my dinner table and I consider him a part of the PMG family. The atrocious lies, slander and racism he and his mother have been forced to endure are wholly intolerable. Myself and the entire PMG family in no way condones this kind of behavior and would never willingly associate with anyone who does.”

Sometimes the Internet can be a truly awful place…

But the times when overwhelming love trumps mean-spirited hate, victory tastes so sweet. Keep being awesome, Cayden.


This article has been updated. It was originally appeared on 10.06.15

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7 things Black people want their well-meaning white friends to know

I grew up black in a very white neighborhood in a very white city in a very white state.

As such, I am a lot of people’s only black friend.


Being the only black friend is a gift and a curse. I am black and I love having friends. But I am also, at any given moment, expected to be a translator, an ambassador, a history teacher, and/or a walking, talking invitation into “I am not racist” territory. It’s a lot to handle. See what I mean about that curse?

So when I saw the animated short-film “Your Black Friend,” I felt so seen. Clearly, I am not alone.

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The film, which was written, designed, and narrated by Ben Passmore and is based on his mini-comic of the same name, is a brilliant, refreshing way to examine whiteness and racism. The comic and animated short are an open-letter from “your black friend” to you, their well-meaning white friend, about bias, alienation, and what it means to be a good ally and friend.

It’s funny, honest, and heartbreaking in equal measure. And speaking from personal experience, it captures the experience of being a black friend to white people pretty much perfectly.

So if you’re a “woke” friend and ally, here are some things your black friend wants you to know.

1. You’re going to have to get uncomfortable.

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It could be something as obvious and upsetting as a racist joke. Or something as “benign” as your aunt suggesting you cross the street when she sees a group of black kids walking by. But either way, if you want to be a good friend and a real ally, you’re going to have to speak up. You’re going to have to have those tough conversations with people you care about.

It’s not easy to confront strangers or people you love, but if you don’t do it, you are part of the problem. Sitting out isn’t an option. No one said being an ally is easy.

2. “Your black friend would like to say something to the racist lady, but doesn’t want to appear to be that ‘angry black man.'”

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“He knows this type of person expects that from him, and he will lose before he begins,” Passmore says.

Black people can’t always react or respond the way we want to. When I am followed in a department store, pulled over for no reason, or stared at while picking up dinner at the fancy grocery store, I can’t stop what I’m doing and yell, “YES, I AM BLACK. NO, I AM NOT A CRIMINAL YOU SMALL-MINDED, BIASED ASSHOLES.” Trust me, I want to. But especially when police are involved, I have to be calm, respectful, and obedient.

That’s where you come in. You, white friend, need to speak up and say something when I can’t. If you are not at risk, nor considered a threat, you have a certain amount of privilege in these situations. Use it to demand answers, speak to supervisors, or if things really get dicey, pull out your phone and hit record.

3. We are constantly monitoring our surroundings and adjusting our clothes, hair, speed, and speech to maintain white comfort.

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We don’t like it, but one small choice — like deciding whether or not to wear a hood, or the speed at which we reach into our glove box — can be the difference between life and death.

When I am in a parking garage and walking behind a white woman, I intentionally cough or walk a little louder so she turns and notices me.

Why? Because when I don’t, that same white woman will often clutch her purse and occasionally let out an audible gasp as I pass her. This is something my white friends likely don’t realize I have to do. Some of them may even be the pearl-clutchers in the parking lot.

But to maintain white comfort and to avoid having the cops called on us, we often have to tamp down clothes, modify our speech and volume, even do our hair differently. We have to have “the talk” with our kids about how the world sees them, and how act in order to make sure they come home alive.

No, it’s not fair. No, we don’t like it. But so long as this country and its institutions are built on a solid foundation of white supremacy, it’s a grim reality. You need to know that, and take it up with your fellow white people about how to dismantle it.

4. “Your black friend wishes you’d play more than Beyoncé. There are more black performers than Beyoncé.”

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“Lemonade” was awesome. There is no denying it. And yes, I love seeing her iconic looks on Instagram too. But there is more to black music and black art than Beyoncé. Dip a toe outside your comfort zone and try new new artists and genres you may not be familiar with. Go listen, see it, and experience it for yourself.

And while we’re here, you can’t say the n-word when you sing along. Nope. You just can’t.

5. Speaking of which, performative blackness is really uncomfortable.

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When you wear that braided wig on Halloween, or use your “blaccent” when you’re around me or other black people, it hurts. It’s not cute or charming, and it definitely doesn’t make you seem cool.

Our culture and heritage are not costumes you can slide on and off at your convenience. We don’t get to be black only when it suits us. Neither do you.

6. “Your black friend feels like a man without a country.”

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Having white friends and seeming to “fit in” with the majority can feel really alienating. You can feel too “white” for black people, and too “black” for white people when all you want to do is find people to eat pizza with. As Passmore wrote, “He is lost in this contradiction, and held responsible for it.”

7. We would love it if we could stop talking about our anxiety and frustrations regarding racism. But right now, that’s impossible.

Our concerns are urgent and real. We’re getting subpar health care. We’re disenfranchised. We’re over-policed. We’re thrown in jail. We’re killed by people sworn to protect us. It’s exhausting, but we have to keep talking about it. So do you.

We can’t be expected to dismantle white supremacy on our own.

Our white friends and allies need to step up and gather their people. Have the tough conversations. Speak up when you see racism, discrimination, and microaggressions. The time to talk about it is done. Be about it, or find yourself a new black friend.

Watch “Your Black Friend” in full and check out Passmore’s book, “Your Black Friend And Other Strangers.”

This article was written by Erin Canty and originally published on January 30, 2018.

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A Trump Official Is Backing A Lawsuit By A ‘SEAL Team’ Writer Who Says Hollywood Is Biased Against Straight White Dudes

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A former script supervisor for SEAL Team has launched a lawsuit at CBS for allegedly not giving him a staff writer position because he’s a white and male. Brian Beneker is seeking $500,000 in damages as he publicly rails against “diversity, equity and inclusion measures,” which he calls “illegal policy.”

To the surprise of no one, Beneker’s lawsuit is being backed by former Trump administration toadie Stephen Miller, who has a well-documented history of backing controversial moves like separating families at the border and pushing Donald Trump to take an aggressive stance against Black Lives Matter protestors. (For more flavor, Miller also thinks Taylor Swift is a deep state plant propelled by “dark forces.”)

Via Deadline:

Beneker, who has worked on SEAL Team since 2017 and before that was a script coordinator on Sons of Anarchy, claims in 2019 that he questioned current showrunner Spencer Hudnut over why previous showrunner John Glenn had hired a new male writer when Glenn claimed at the time that “there were already too many staff writers and there was no room for CBS to hire [Beneker].”

“Hudnut indicated it was because he was Black,” the complaint says.

In his suit, Beneker alleges that he suffered by not being part of the “favored hiring groups; that is, they were nonwhite, LGBTQ, or female.” However, several of Beneker’s colleagues have already come forward to blast the spurious nature of his claims and basically call him a weirdo.

You can see some of the reactions below:

(Via Deadline)