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My father trafficked me throughout my entire childhood. It looked nothing like people think.

I saw this poster today and I was going to just let it go, but then I kept feeling tugged to say something.

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While this poster is great to bring attention to the issue of child trafficking, it is a “shocking” picture of a young girl tied up. It has that dark gritty feeling. I picture her in a basement tied to a dripping pipe.

While that sounds awful, it’s important to know that trafficking children in the US is not all of that. I can’t say it never is—I don’t know. What I do know is most young trafficked children aren’t sitting in a basement tied up. They have families, and someone—usually in their family—is trafficking them.


I’m pretty open about my story. My father trafficked me from the ages of about 5 or 6 until I was a teenager. Knowing this, I can say, I was never once tied up in a dark place such as this picture. It’s important for people to educate themselves on what trafficking can really look like.

Many, many times I walked into an amusement parks dressing room—Hershey, Dorney, etc.—with my father, told to wait in the stall, and a few minutes later another man came in acting like he was looking for his daughter. And that easily, a “drop” was made. Out I would walk holding his hand, nothing anyone would think twice about. Usually I’d be given something like an ice cream cone, etc.

And like me, these children are often not treated “badly.” I mean, yes, they’re treated awfully and violated beyond words. I mean they’re are not hit, tied up, or beat up. Most of the time, they’re treated with fake kindness (which really fucks up children’s trust later on in life). But they’re often praised, given treats, and made to feel like what is happening is a good (and normal or because they’re special.

How many vacations we went on where I was left for a minute at the pool, until a man came and I left with him for a while. Airports where I was passed over to another man in a crowd, looking like any girl going from her dad or uncle to her dad or uncle. Again, a public drop and nothing suspicious.

Most children trafficked in the US are so conditioned they don’t know anything else. It’s their normal. I think back as an adult and think, “Why didn’t I scream out for help? Make a scene?” But I had to forgive my inner child. There was no reason I knew to scream out for help. I wasn’t in danger; this was just my normal life.

I say all of this to simply say, it’s really important we bring attention to child trafficking in the US. VERY important. And posters like this can get the conversation going, but we also need to educate people that it doesn’t all look like this. I lived in Robesonia, a tiny nothing town. My father was a little league coach. My mother knew and helped some with these happenings; and she was just a stay-at-home, small town mom. These things happen everywhere and can look very normal.

Best thing we can do is talk to children. We don’t need to be graphic; but teachers, schools, need to talk to children about things like this in a child-safe way. Assume these children aren’t being taken to doctors. Teachers can make a huge difference. Talk to children. Go with your gut. Schools need to not be scared to act on what they feel. Conrad Wesier had a social worker in the elementary school who pulled me out of class on more than one occasion after teachers noticed “things” and it went nowhere. Social services were never notified. And they should have been. Period.

And what you can do is watch. Pay attention. Be mindful. If you’re waiting in line at a park, notice who goes in and out with what child. If you see something; speak up. If you’re wrong, fine you ruined someone’s day, apologize. If you’re right, you saved someone’s life.

This post originally appeared on Melanie Cholish’s Facebook page. It has been edited lightly for publication.

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Nike’s newest ad is an incredible visual effects feat with a beautiful message

You know when see an ad that’s so good you stop caring that it comes from a big corporation that’s just trying to sell you things and just marvel at the impressiveness of it all?

That’s the way this new Nike ad feels.

The ad (which Nike calls a “film) is the third the sportswear giant’s “You Can’t Stop Us” series. It features 53 athletes (both elite status and everyday folks) in 24 sports, shown in a series of split screen moments that blend different athletes and sports into one. Narrated by U.S. Women’s Soccer star Megan Rapinoe, the film celebrates sport and the human spirit, with a fitting message fo the moment we are in.

And the overall impact is, well…just watch.



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Much has been made of the film’s video editing, which is clearly deserving of accolades. But as one of our own video experts pointed out, creating this film involved far more than just editing. Nike has shared that 4,000 action sequences were researched to find the right shots to pull together to make the final cut of 72, which was undoubtedly done by a team of assistants. Visual effects specialists had to have done painstaking, frame by frame work to manually get the timing right and portions of the videos to line up perfectly. The sheer number of hours this must have taken is mind-boggling.

The whole crew who pulled this together did an incredible job. We need inspiration and hope more than ever right now, and this creative work hit those marks beautifully.

Rapinoe added her own thoughts that perfectly sum it all up:

“Players may be back on the pitch, but we are not going back to an old normal. We need to continue to reimagine this world and make it better. We have all these people in the streets, using their voices, and those voices are being heard. I ask people to be energized by this moment and not let up. I believe it’s everybody’s responsibility to advocate for change.”

Well done all around, everyone.

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NBA Bubble Watch Week 3: Ice Cream, Pool Parties, Oh, And Basketball Too

Some more basketball is back! Yes, I know, this is the official NBA Bubble Watch column but, if you have not been watching the WNBA in its triumphant return, I don’t know what to tell you. It’s so good! Fast, relentless, competitive, the skill and the moves are frankly unmatched. And just so cool? But sure, NBA basketball has also started this week, too.

It was a slightly slower week in the Bubble given this return to regular play. Guys spent their downtime close to home (hotels) instead of exploring the world (big pond full of stocked fish, golf course), but there was still some decent downtime to chronicle.

Chris Paul

Let us begin with the prince of darkness himse—just kidding! CP3 sat back this week with a stack of flappers, and queued up his e-reader for the world to see. This isn’t Jeffrey Russell on good vs. evil throughout history, nor is it the vaguely prophetic, antichrist conspiracy theories of Grant Jeffrey. This is the largely unknown story of Jeremiah G. Hamilton, the first Black millionaire on Wall Street. It’s a good book and its author, Shane White, had to scour endless ancient newspaper clippings to find enough on a man the largely white tellers of history did not want to talk about.

Rating: If we’re talking real ratings it 3.6 on Goodreads (those reviewers are a little much at the best of times, tbh) and 4 ½ stars on Amazon. But this is a 10/10 reading situation from Paul.

Kyle Lowry

Best in the business, most tenderhearted and underrated— no, none of this is biased — Kyle Lowry was stoked for the WNBA restart, propping up his VERY, uh, well-loved iPhone to catch the first games of the Wubble season restart. Something about all those gashes and nicks, this angle, makes Diana Taurasi, who is already hard as hell, look harder as hell. Here for it.

Rating: Surely Lowry has honoured his 3-year minimum Canadian absolute highway robbery phone contract and is due for an upgrade?

Jayson Tatum

I love to toss a real gut-wrencher into these things to keep your tears fresh and sense of loss sky-high! Tatum brought all his son’s favorite books into the Bubble so that he could read them alongside him every night before bedtime.

Rating: This was Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See? and it was a banger.

P.J. Tucker

Tossing two gut-wrenchers in here, for good measure. Tucker, the only living man who is allowed to call having his kids draw on his sneakers a “collaboration”, showcased the end results. Zoe, his daughter, drew a better rendition of the Rockets logo than the actual Rockets logo, did a toe covered in multicolored bubbles for the Bubble, emphasized words like “Splash” and “Fire!” with water and flames, and wrote Stinkabutt, which Tucker revealed is his nickname for her. King on the other hand got wild and weird. He slapped down a bunch of stick figures (“I have no idea who this guy is,” Tucker said pointing one out who looked to be holding a 7-tier ice cream cone) and gave the Jumpman a lightsaber.

Rating: He’s gotta wear these every game, right? Or else we gotta get new ones every month the Rockets hang on.

Jimmy Butler

Look I know this doesn’t really count for player activity but if you picture Butler having a listening party for one to folklore, wearing his cowboy boots, tapping on the floor and making the person in the room under him call the snitch line AGAIN on him, then it does.

Rating: This isn’t even a music website, this is the Guinness Book of World Records website. I just realized Butler probably has this as his homepage, checking for who he can challenge at anything, in any given moment.

Paul George

OK, but picture this and it’s Kawhi.

Rating: Actually Kawhi should do realistic masks where it looks like his mouth in a lil smile. Free million dollar idea for you, New Balance.

Donovan Mitchell

The big mail days continue in earnest for Mitchell, who has been having packages pile up outside his hotel room door for weeks now. Some have been, worryingly, manhandled to all hell. I know one of the rules of the Bubble would be that mail delivery was on players, but is it arriving via Dumbo without his magic feather?

Rating: Because he falls without the feather, you know?

Luka Doncic

This guy loves the long joke. Doncic was back at it again this week, tagging places he was in and things he was doing in them at Disney as much more remote and tropical locations. This duck got to be in Puerto Rico for a short while, I hope it enjoyed itself.

But finally we see the very nice resort pools being made use of. It’s too blurry to see who all’s in the background but I picture them playing Marco Polo as Doncic hushes them over the concentration he must pay to the game of kings in the hot, swampy, Orlando sun.

Rating: This pool, I can smell its aquamarine tang (just chlorine) from here.

Jamal Murray

Murray had been one of the last to get out on the water and try his hands at the ancient art of angling. Poor guy. He didn’t have much luck but he treated a lot of lucky fish to dinner this one, magic night.

Rating: The Arthur meme hand clench, see it?

Myles Turner

The portable ice bath has become the real unsung hero of the bubble. A lot of guys have upgraded from hotel room bathtub and infinite ice buckets of ice machine ice to inflatable kiddie pools set out off the well-kempt paths of the park. Turner made a point to highlight his being a “Bigg Recovery Guy”, and then a lurking Mo Bamba made a better point.

Got his ass.

Rating: Please let me know if you’d like to join my new Myles Turner fan club, Myles Turner Overdrive. We never meet, but we’re always Takin’ Care of Business.

Kent Bazemore

Baze loves golf so much he’s wearing it on his face.

Rating: Wear a mask!

Josh Hart

Hart had an eventful week. He took care of his chompers and paid a visit to the Disney dentist. I know you want to picture Goofy and the gang in dentist scrubs and gloves, holding the tooth cleaner and waterpik close up and approaching your mouth, but also quit picturing that because it would be so much scarier than the regular dentist already is! They’ve got no depth perception or fine motor control. Jk I don’t think he went to see a dentist, I think this was just some extra protective PPE he tossed on.

To take the edge off after his “appointment”, he went bowling with a bunch of the Pelicans. You can’t see it too well from the still, but he’s holding a giant slurpee cup in one hand and he’s just spun and flung the ball one handed, behind his back, with the other down the lane.

Rating: Whether or not there will be a Best Bubbler award at the end of all this, Hart is certainly acclimatizing with the greatest of ease.

Jordan Clarkson

This is just a picture of Jordan Clarkson grinning in a hotel ballroom turned practice court.

Rating: Figured maybe you needed it.

Kyle Kuzma

It was Kuzma’s birthday this week and his very thoughtful gf, Winnie Harlow, rented a plane to toot around the sky over Disney with a lil message for him.

Rating: How does this work? You pay in intervals of time? Asking for me, of course, and the way I’m going to announce Myles Turner Overdrive to Myles Turner in an ice bath.

Boban Marjanovic

Bobi was zooming around the Bubble by land, sea, and oh, I guess air too, when his feet left the ground during scrimmages before this week’s official restart. There’s no stopping Marhanovic. John Wick knew it, and now you know it too.

Rating: It’s me Boban!!! Is something you can scream out loud, for free, any time you want to.

Robert Covington

Another guy who is taking the Bubble in stride is Rob Covington. Take a good, long moment to take in the details of this photo. His “who me?” shrug with a fish very casually in one hand, his “STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES” visor which is at once very loud but incredibly subtle, somehow.

He later retired to his room to find an all-time snack delivery and thanked his mom, who sent it all through. It’s hard to keep the “It’s like summer camp!” thing about the Bubble going when it’s really a many multi million dollar, high intensity experiment, but this let me believe it for a second.

Rating: You dropped this Snack, King.

Jarrett Allen

Allen is a man of few words and many broken hearts (mine, thousands of times over!) and here’s another one. Co-opt the NBA slogan and slap it over a melting Mickey Mouse head made of chocolate and ice cream, I’m right here with you.

Rating: Are these things… gratis?

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Beyonce Is The Music Industry Tastemaker That Can Transform A Career

As the world’s biggest and best entertainer, Beyonce’s presence is regal in nature and everything she touches turns into gold. Her taste in fashion and music puts her in the realm of trendsetter and someone who fans can trust to put them onto things that are neat and she is fully aware of her power.

Over the course of her career, Queen Bey has taken this power and used it for good. Recently she put out a list of Black-owned businesses people should patronize and she is also known for giving opportunities to little-known creators and musicians on projects such as her just-released visual album Black Is King. A co-sign from Beyonce is like a co-sign from Jesus. The loyalty of her fans, aptly known as the Beyhive, support everything she does and they trust her because she has never let them down, especially when it comes to music. The power she has to change an aspiring musician’s life into something they’ve always dreamed of is real and she has done it countless times to much avail.

Here are a few superb acts that Beyonce has shined a light on, thus exposing them to the possibility of becoming not just national stars, but renown acts all across the globe.

Chloe x Halle

Chloe and Halle Bailey, the burgeoning R&B duo known as Chloe x Halle, were relatively unknown outside of YouTube before Beyonce became aware of their existence. Impressed by their ability to sing, Bey put them through artist and development (a rarity nowadays), much like what she went through with Destiny’s Child. The result of that is clear by the feel of their extremely creative roll out for their album Ungodly Hour. This includes their consistency of engaging with fans through charming Instagram Lives, allowing for fans to connect with the seemingly elusive sisters while still getting live performances done right in their living room. Clearly, Beyonce’s work ethic permeates through these two young women.

Signing to Bey’s label Parkwood Entertainment in 2016, Chloe and Halle immediately got to work with their debut EP Sugar Symphony and also joined her on The Formation Tour and later, On The Run II with Jay-Z. Two years later, they joined the cast of Grown-ish and released their debut album The Kids Are Alright, which earned the Bailey sisters Grammy Award nods for Best New Artist and Best Urban Contemporary Album. Chloe, who provided most of the production work on The Kids Are Alright, lent her beat-making talents to Ungodly Hour as well. Beyonce peeped the potential in these girls and she was absolutely right in believing in them. Now, with Ungodly Hour out, they have two of the most popular songs this year with “Do It” and “Forgive Me.”

Boots

Boots came through with all the vibes on Beyonce’s self-titled, game-changing surprise album release. Though the world had no clue who he was, Beyonce did and her choosing him to help craft her project resulted in the musician, born Jordan Asher Cruz, nabbing a Grammy nomination for Album Of The Year. His moody and dark production represents over half of the album, including “Haunted,” “Jealous,” “Flawless” and “Superpower.”

Shortly after Beyonce‘s release, Boots shared a beautiful duet between the two titled “Dreams” to his SoundCloud. The same vibe was maintained on the tracks he worked on with her for Lemonade, which earned him a second Grammy nod for Album Of The Year. He’s since gone on to work with Run The Jewels, Sir, and Kelela. The power of Beyonce believing in you is real.

Megan Thee Stallion

Megan Thee Stallion ran 2019 with her Hot Girl summer movement. This year, she essentially owns TikTok thanks to her viral hit “Savage” off her Suga EP and its accompanying dance created by Keara Wilson. Seemingly out of nowhere, however, Beyonce took it upon herself to hop on the track for the remix.

This unexpected move transformed the hottest song of the year into pure flames. It’s the inevitable Houston collaboration that fans had been waiting for and is also a great look for the city. Beyonce’s added excitement to the song, with her shocking rhymes co-signing “demon time” and OnlyFans, boosted the track, giving Megan her first No. 1 on the Billboard Hot 100. In June, “Savage” was certified Platinum and remains one of the hottest songs in the streets and on TikTok.

Dram

The Nintendo-esque, salsa production and essence of Dram‘s “Cha Cha” off his debut EP #1Epic was cool enough to catch the attention of Beyonce before the rest of the world caught wind of the song. Randomly, Queen Bey posted a video of her twisting her hips and having fun to the track on her Instagram page to her more than 150 million followers along with the caption, “This song makes me happy.” Once that happened, the talented singer admittedly lost his mind and things for the Virginia native consequently blew up.

“I literally stood on the closest bench and hassled random people walking down the street, being like, ‘HEY, BEYONCÉ LIKES TO CHA CHA!!!,’” he annotated on the lyrics found on Genius. His next single, “Broccoli” featuring Lil Yachty, earned a Grammy nod for Best Rap/Sung Performance off his debut album Big Baby Dram.

O.T. Genasis

O.T. Genasis is a West Coast hero consistently coming with the bangers since he came on the scene from 2014’s “Coco” to 2015’s “Cut It.” In 2018, during Beyonce’s Coachella performance christened as Beychella, the singer chose to bless O.T. Genasis with a major stamp of approval by incorporating his braggadocio track “Everybody Mad” into her electric performance. The use of the song came as a surprise to the rapper who expressed immense gratitude that Queen Bey had an entire dance routine to his song.

“This is lit right here,” the Long Beach native said in an interview with TMZ. “I sat there and I was like ‘not only did she play my song, but the band played to it.’ You actually have to put that together and be at rehearsal. That’s just dope, especially since I didn’t really get the credit I felt I deserved for the song when I made it.”

The song currently boasts over 19 million views on YouTube and sits as one of his most viewed videos.

Big Freedia

Big Freedia is a New Orleans treasure and it should come to no surprise that Beyonce, who has Louisiana roots, would at some point connect with the bounce music legend. In 2017, Bey made it happen by using her voice on her surprise Lemonade single “Formation.” “I did not come to play with you hoes,” Freedia says with a thick NOLA drawl. “I came to slay, bitch! I like cornbread and collard greens, bitch! Oh yas, you besta believe it!” She was also featured on Beyonce’s Formation Tour just to help perform the track.

Though Big Freedia already had her own show on Fuse back in 2013, no doubt her association with Beyonce put her in the graces of a more mainstream audience.

In 2018, Drake used her voice on his No. 1 hit “Nice For What” and was slated to head out on tour with pop star Kesha until the pandemic hit. Nevertheless, Beyonce’s shining a major light on Freedia has been huge for the rapper as she continues to make dance hits for the club.

Some artists covered here are Warner Music artists. Uproxx is an independent subsidiary of Warner Music Group.

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Seth Rogen Went To ‘Illegal’ Lengths To Satisfy An Unlikely Obsession During Quarantine

Seth Rogen’s doing the rounds to promote An American Pickle, the HBO Max movie starring him as a 1920s Jewish immigrant who falls into a pickle vat and wakes up a century later to meet his grandson, also portrayed by Rogen. In doing so, Rogen stirred up controversy with Marc Maron while questioning why Israel exists as a state, but when the Pineapple Express star visited Jimmy Fallon, the tone stayed more lighthearted, although not without a whiff of “illegal” dealings (not “pot,” exactly).

Host and guest did that thing that we all do now, which is discuss how quarantine is going. In the process, Rogen revealed that his unlikely addiction — pottery — led him to break the law in order to buy proper art supplies, since non-essential businesses weren’t on the table during shelter-in-place orders:

“I literally had to buy illegal clay… I literally made an illegal clay deal from the backdoor of a pottery studio… This might be the most apocalyptic thing that has happened to me, illegally purchasing clay from the back of a pottery studio.”

You gotta do what you gotta do. And I gotta say, Rogen’s rather gifted in the pottery-making department, legal procurement of supplies or not.

HBO Max’s An American Pickle arrives on August 6.

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J.J. Redick: ‘I Don’t Think Anybody In The NBA Cares If President Trump Watches Basketball’

NBA players, coaches, and referees took a knee during the national anthem before Thursday night’s bubble openers. It was an expected move by all involved — the news of the New Orleans Pelicans and Utah Jazz taking knees had been reported — but it still created a powerful visual and served as the latest reminder of the ongoing fight against systemic inequality in our society.

It also, in news that should surprise absolutely no one, happened to the chagrin of the President of the United States. Donald Trump famously blew a number of dog whistles and tried to reframe the discussion around Colin Kaepernick’s decision to take a knee when he was a member of the San Francisco 49ers to one about loving the flag and America’s military. While POTUS hasn’t tweeted about the knees taken by NBA players, he did indicate that “the game is over for me” when a player kneels in a tweet from earlier this month.

J.J. Redick of the New Orleans Pelicans was asked to respond to this by Chris Hayes of Yahoo Sports following the team’s loss to the Jazz on Thursday, and in response, he indicated that making sure a television at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue is turned into a basketball game isn’t exactly top of mind.

“First of all, I don’t think anybody in the NBA cares if President Trump watches basketball. I couldn’t care less,” Redick said. “As far as his base, I think regardless of the specificity of tweeting about the NBA, every tweet of his is meant to divide, every tweet is meant to incite, every tweet is meant to embolden his base. So [last week] was no different.”

Redick, who has never been shy about criticizing Trump in the past, also discussed any sort of negative response that could come the league’s way in terms of individuals who agree with Trump’s sentiment turning off games. In his eyes, there’s a level of understanding that he believes is necessary for those who are tuning in.

“Look, we want people to enjoy the NBA and we love our fans, but I think there has to be some level of acceptance and acknowledgement in what our league is saying, what our league is doing and what is happening across this country,” Redick told Yahoo Sports. “And the people who are unwilling to acknowledge that, maybe they shouldn’t be fans.”

Redick came off the bench for the Pelicans on Thursday, scoring 21 points on 7-for-15 shooting with four rebounds and three assists. The Pelicans will next take the floor on Saturday evening in a tilt against the Clippers.

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Dave Chappelle’s List Of Comedy Recruits For Ohio Events Now Includes David Letterman

Earlier in the week, Chris Rock broke the seal on a series of private, socially-distanced shows that Dave Chappelle has been quietly hosting in his hometown of Yellow Springs, Ohio with a surprising amount of star power. At the end of Rock’s set, Chappelle took a FaceTime call from Jim Carrey, who reportedly closed the show, which was a wild treat for the small, intimate audience that was limited to 100 guests for safety.

But not long after Rock flew into Yellow Springs, another major celebrity was spotted walking the streets with Chappelle: veteran late night host David Letterman. The comedy legends were photographed chatting outside of a local comic book store on Wednesday.

And this happened as well.

As for the street-based photo, TMZ reported on the presence of a camera crew and suggested that they were filming an episode of Letterman’s Netflix show, My Next Guest Needs No Introduction. Whatever the case, Chappelle apparently has been cooking up something special, according to the Dayton Daily News:

Major stars from both the comedy and music worlds have made appearances at Chappelle’s events. The series, which has been referred to as “An Intimate Socially Distanced Affair,” has featured Jon Stewart, Chris Rock, Tiffany Haddish, Jon Hamm, Michael Che, Erykah Badu, Michelle Wolf, Common, Donnell Rawlings, Talib Kweli, Cipha Sounds and Mo Amer, among others.

One can gather that a special might be brewing, due to the presence of camera crews, but should that not materialize, the comedian could be working with COVID restrictions and having a blast turning his hometown into the next hit venue. Judging by the big names that have already rolled through, and how quickly tickets sell out, Chappelle is well on his way to putting Yellow Springs on the comedy map.

(Via TMZ & Dayton Daily News)

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Ben Schwartz Submitted His Audition To Be An NBA Virtual Fan In Orlando

On Thursday, after a more than four-month hiatus, the NBA officially returned, and fans got treated to a taste of what’s in store for the rest of the season in Orlando. Despite some obvious rust, the play itself was generally top-notch, as the TNT double-header delivered a pair of hard-fought contests that were each decided by two points in the final seconds.

For the most part, the experience of watching the games in an arena without fans wasn’t nearly as strange or off-putting as some may have feared. The sound folks were able to pump in faux crowd noises in a way that didn’t feel completely artificial, and the new camera angles added a dimension that helped us see the game from a new perspective.

The league is still in the process of adding fans to the experience, via the large LED screens placed behind the benches, and those who want to appear during the games are free to sign up using the Microsoft Teams app. Actor Ben Schwartz decided to submit an entry to appear on these screens via Twitter on Friday.

The actor, who lives in Los Angeles and can be sometimes spotted at Clippers games, is originally from the Bronx and is a diehard Knicks fan. For my money, I say we skip adding Schwarz to the virtual fan screen and get him to the bubble in Orlando immediately, where after the mandatory quarantine, we can put him to work as a sideline reporter for all of the games, but have him remain in character as Jean-Ralphio Saperstein from Parks and Recreation while doing so.

Either that, or have him and Thomas Middleditch “Yes, And” their way through different improv scenarios on screen during the timeouts. Unfortunately, we will probably have to settle for something less exciting, but anyway we can have Schwartz involved, we’ll take it.

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‘Caddyshack’ Star Michael O’Keefe Regales Us With Stories From The Cocaine-Addled Set Of The Movie

In trying to write about Caddyshack this past week I fell deep down a rabbit hole I’m only now clawing my way out of. Stories about the making of movies usually aren’t that interesting, but this one sends you in all different directions. Chevy? Bill? Douglas Kenney? The National Lampoon? When you try to pin it down you start to understand why the initial rough cut was four hours long.

But let’s focus. In the midst of all those rising stars and eventual comedy icons there was Michael O’Keefe, playing Caddyshack‘s presumptive protagonist, Danny Noonan. He’d lied his way into the starring role (telling producers he was a scratch golfer) beating out his rival, Mickey Rourke. It fit, because, like the Murray brothers (Brian Doyle and Bill) on whose childhood Caddyshack‘s story was based, O’Keefe had grown up in a huge Irish-Catholic family working as a caddy.

Everything got pretty weird after that. O’Keefe, who was nominated for an Oscar in The Great Santini, which he’d done just before he got the Caddyshack gig, arrived to a cocaine-besotted set in Florida (Florida in 1979: enough said) where the first-time director (Harold Ramis) had thrown out the script and let his cast go wild. The coming-of-age tale he’d signed on for had become… well, whatever the hell Caddyshack is. A slobs-vs-snobs story, sort of.

A wild time was had, the likes of which would never be seen again. O’Keefe would get sober (an alternative preferable to Caddyshack writer Doug Kenney, who died three months after release, in a slightly mysterious hiking accident in Hawaii), and go on to have a fine career. He’s 65 now and, minus a few lines, looks pretty much the same as he did 40 years ago, with an admirable head of hair. Somewhere along the line, he married and divorced Bonnie Raitt and was ordained as a Buddhist priest. I told you, it’s a rabbit hole.

O’Keefe was gracious enough to reminisce about Caddyshack and reflect on its legacy this week, though as he puts it, if you can remember the set of Caddyshack, you weren’t really there.

So take me back to the time when you got the part, what was going on in your life at the time?

I did a meeting in New York with Harold Ramis and then they called me back in LA and I saw Harold and Doug [Kenney] and Brian Doyle-Murray. And I had already done The Great Santini and that was with Orion, which was the same distribution company as Caddyshack. You’ve probably heard this story, but according to Wallis Nicita, who was the casting director, it came down to me and Mickey Rourke for the part. I could spend days musing on the possibilities of Mickey Rourke as Danny Noonan, putting down his bag to go perform a hit at lunch and then coming back.

I heard it had something to do with your golf game.

Well, I frankly lied at the audition and told them that I was a competent golfer and I was hardly that. I was terrible. I played a little bit as an adolescent and probably hadn’t played since I was 12 or 13, which was like a 12-year window. So, I mean, I had to really start from the ground up. I had about a six-week window where I could prepare and I got hooked back into the Winged Foot Golf Club, which is in Mamaroneck [Long Island] and is a golf club that I caddied at when I was a teenager. And then when I was in Florida, I worked with the Toski brothers and they’re kind of a legendary golf-teaching family in Florida. So, whenever I wasn’t working on camera, I was hitting golf balls. It got me to a point where, as Ben Hogan used to say about a lot of his shots, my swing was serviceable.

To me, you look like clearly the most competent golfer of the people that were playing in the movie.

That would have been an easy thing to look like! No disrespect meant, but nobody in the movie had a good… the real golfer in the movie is Bill Murray. But, of course, he didn’t play golf in the movie. He’s a far better golfer than I’ll ever be.

Do you still play at all?

No, not really. I’m married and I have a seven-year-old son and a lot of my free time is devoted to that. And also I’m really into Tai Chi and qi gong, and so the time that I would have to practice golf, I’m usually doing that. There was a window there though for about 10 years before I got married where I played a lot, and I got down to about a 12 handicap when I was playing.

Now that you’re into Tai Chi and I think I read you were a Buddhist… uh, something or other…

Yeah, I’m a Buddhist something or other, Vince. That’s the official title.

I didn’t want to mess it up. I think the book I was reading said you’re a Buddhist priest, but then I was thinking, “Wait, that doesn’t sound right.”

I started in 1985 when I was 30 years old and the teacher I was studying with at the time is a guy named Bernie Glassman. He started an order of priests called the Zen Peacemakers. We do something called “engaged Buddhism,” which means we practice a certain kind of social action. We get up off the cushion. So he started this order called the Zen Peacemakers and I did ordain in that order in 1994, I believe.

With all this in your background, it seems like you could actually live out, as Danny Noonan, all of Ty’s [Chevy Chase’s character’s] advice in the movie, to get spiritually connected with your golf game.

Well, one of the people who really influenced me early on about Zen was Doug Kenney. Doug was one of the people that turned me on to Zen in the Art of Archery, the Eugen Herrigel book, he was German author that wrote the book in 1927, I think. And for all of Doug’s kind of insane fake Zen poetry, you know “a flute without a hole is not a flute, but a donut without a hole is a Danish,” and stuff like that, he actually knew a lot about it. He was one of the people that planted the seed. But I suppose if I’m like anybody in the film, it’s Ty Webb, without the golf game.

What did you think when you saw the movie for the first time, did it turn out a lot differently than what you thought you’d shot and what they’d pitched it as?

Well, the script was changed, I’m sure you heard the story, about nine or 10 days in. Harold and Doug and Brian realized that they had this potential modern day Marx Brothers combination of Bill and Chevy and Ted and Rodney. And so they began to cut a lot of the Danny Noonan stuff to focus on them. I’ve said this before in interviews and it was true for me then and it’s true for me now, I was kind of relieved because they are in a different league than I am. I have a lot of skills as an actor and I had a certain amount of skills when I was younger, but Bill, especially Chevy, Ted, Rodney, were all just in a different playing field than I was. And so to turn things over to them was something of a relief because then you have all those speeches that Bill wrote about the Dalai Lama or winning the Masters. And Rodney’s incredibly off the cuff, crazy Catskills humor and then Chevy’s work as well and Ted too. Ted was the ultimate professional. He was really the one who kind of held the ship together, because he had the ethos and the ethic of trying to be a responsible adult, whereas everybody else was doing their best to be an irresponsible and immature adult.

It sounds like the set was a pretty crazy time. How do you remember it?

Well, as David Grosby often said about the ’60s, if you say you remember the making of Caddyshack, you weren’t there. These are all things everybody knows now, but I’m still somewhat mortified to talk about them. There was cocaine everywhere. We were all getting high. There was a kind of mythology at the time that somehow this led to more creative experiences. That’s a rabbit hole that a lot of people never came back out of and directly connected to Caddyshack in that regard. That’s how Doug Kenney died. So while there’s a lot of goofy stories, which are really fun and we had a great time while we were doing it, there’s a whole serious downside, which I make sure to talk about when I talk about the film, because I don’t want anybody to get the idea that you can get away with that kind of stuff, because you can’t.

Is that still the wildest set that you’ve been on?

Well, yeah, because it was the ’70s and I also got sober after that. It certainly was the last time I did cocaine. And also all of that stuff just became a liability. You can’t get insured with all those issues now. And most associate it with drug addiction and people going to rehab and people blowing up their career by doing some stupid thing under the influence of drugs or alcohol, it’s such a big deal now, that set could never happen. And it was very clear after we did that that it shouldn’t happen. I mean, it was really just insane. But at the time, look, if you go back and read the stories about the making of Lenny Bruce or the making of The Gambler with James Caan, that’s what everybody was doing. Go back and look at the making of New York, New York with Scorsese and DeNiro and Liza Minnelli. But now you’re a pariah if you do anything like that.

Did Doug Kenney dying have anything to do with you getting sober?

Absolutely. Scared the shit out of me. And frankly, I loved him. Have you had a chance to see A Futile and Stupid Gesture yet, on Netflix? First of all, it’s a good movie. Will Forte is great. Martin Mull is great. And these two young writers, I was the first person they approached only because they were staff writers on Leverage, the Timothy Hutton show that I was on for a while. And I did an episode of it and I went to a screening and they came up to me and they were like kids in a candy shop. They were Caddyshack fans. They were like, “We really want to write this movie about Doug Kenney.”

And in the back of my mind, of course, being the cynic that I am, I was like, “That’ll never happen.” Ten years later, they got it done. And my hat’s off to them because I know how hard it is to get a movie made. They were really diligent. They talked to everybody, but they also wrote a really effective look at Doug’s mindset and how he got into the zeitgeist at the time and how he really led. I loved Doug. Everybody did. He just inspired this kind of affection and loyalty and friendship in people, and people were just crushed when he died,. And so one of the things that happened to me, I was like, “I am never going back to that kind of scene again.” And I never have.

So you were basically doing the Murray Brothers’ life story in a way. Did they coach you at all on playing this character that was so close to their childhood?

They didn’t need to because I’m the oldest of seven from an Irish Catholic family too. So we could probably tell stories to each other and forget whose family we were talking about. The real job was to connect with Chevy, especially, and Ted, and then kind of let them lead the way so that this kind of slobs-versus-snobs thing that Harold and Doug had refined on Animal House.

So you have seven siblings, how did you first get into acting? Because you started pretty young, right?

I was dropped as a child, Vince, that started it all. No, we grew up in this really big house in Larchmont, New York, near the city. We moved into it when I was about 12 and the prior owners had rented it out for commercial locations. The location manager came to the house one day and knocked on the door, cold-calling and asked my mother if she would rent us the house. And she was like, “…are you going to pay us?” And he said, “Yeah.” And she said, “Done.” And then it was seven of us, kind of blonde, good looking kids hanging out. A number of us were there that day when he came by, I remember the day, and he said to her, “Your kids are actually kind of good looking and they could probably model and I represent actors. Would you be interested in doing that?” And my mom said “…would you pay them?” And he said, “Yeah.” And she said, “Done.”

And then very quickly, most of my brothers and sisters lost interest, but I was always on a mission, even at the age of 12. And by the time I was 15, I was taking acting classes in the city. I was at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts. And I did a showcase play there that both Peter Weller and Melanie Mayron were in at the time when they were young actors. And so I got an agent after that and then I just started working. I dropped out of college my first semester. I was a terrible, terrible student, but I had this passion about acting and I got an offer to do a play at the public theater with Barbara Barrie, who is one of the most wonderful actors you’ll ever meet. And Ralph Waite, who was playing the father on The Waltons at the time. So anyway then I just kept going and never looked back and I’m kind of pleased to turn around now at the age of 65 and say, “Oh yeah, well, that all worked out.”

You were in The Great Santini and it hadn’t come out yet, and you got nominated for an Oscar before Caddyshack had come out. And then you’re in Caddyshack, which is this sort of whatsit at the time. What do you think Caddyshack did for your career at that time?

Well, at the time the film was not very successful, so nothing. Now what’s happened is there’s this kind of a crude benevolence, I want to say adoration, but it sounds a bit much. But there’s something about Caddyshack that sparks the affection of the American filmgoing public. I got tagged in it and I went to a Comic-Con last year and Chevy and I, and Cindy Morgan were there and we signed autographs and people cannot stop talking about that movie, and it’s 40 years later. Who knew at the time? I mean, part of the dilemma Doug was facing, besides the fact that he was strung out on cocaine and clinically depressed, was that he did not like the final cut of the movie at all. He had really intended what they’d call in lit classes, a “bildungsroman,” and it was anything but that. It was this weird kind of pastiche of standup and improv and Bill and Chevy kind of in one style and Ted in another and Rodney over here. I think it all kind of melded, but for Doug he was really not happy.

I probably came out somewhere in between. I did things as an actor where I was clearly uncomfortable and not happy with myself, and I didn’t have the ease and aplomb that you get over time. But I was very happy with my golf swing, I was really happy with the stuff with Chevy and with Ted. And now, it’s like I could say whatever I wanted to in a critical way about Caddyshack, it would fall on deaf ears.

Are there any other good memories from shooting the movie that stick out in your mind?

Mainly watching Bill come up with all those monologues. I happened to be there when he came up with the, “Young greenskeeper, Cinderella story. He’s got about 320 yards to the hole, he’s going to punch an 8 iron.” I was sort of walking by and Harold grabbed me and said, “Oh, you got to watch this. It’s great.”

Harold, he would say to Bill, “You know that thing where you’re a kid and you’re playing basketball and you’re in the NBA final and you have two seconds left, and–” and Bill would say, “Don’t say anything else.” Then he would go out in front of the camera and just start. He did that on the whole Dalai Lama speech on the fly too. It was amazing.

And getting to know Rodney, who was the most genuinely kind of nerdy, sweet, kind guy. If you talked to any standup comedian from that era that went through Rodney’s club in New York, they’ll tell you how much he worked for other comedians and how much he helped them. I remember we ran into him just before he died, and he had had open-heart surgery. There was this place, it’s not there anymore, but in LA, Kate Mantilini, on Wilshire Boulevard and Highland. It was an industry place. I went in there to have lunch one day and this was probably already in the 2000s just before Rodney died. There was Rodney with his wife at a table and he was wearing one of those matching summer outfits that you see Miami elderly people wear, with a really horrifying pattern where the shirt matched the shorts. And the shirt was completely unbuttoned, and he had a scar from his throat to his belly button and it’s wide open. And I was like, “Rodney, it’s Michael O’Keefe.” He goes, “Oh, hey kid, how you doing?” I’m like, “Rodney, you look good.” And he turns to his wife, he goes, “You hear that, baby? I look good.” He was so endearing.

What do you miss most about comedies from that era? Are there things they were doing at that time that maybe forgotten about or that we’re not doing as much anymore?

Well, I mean, I don’t know that I miss anything from that era because there’s stuff out there now that’s got parody. I think anything Will Ferrell or Adam McKay did has elements of genius in it that are off the chart. I’m sure Judd Apatow learned a lot from all of that and went to school on that film. Also, my wife and I just watched The Great, which is this series with Elle Fanning and Nicholas Hoult, which is hilarious. So there’s no dearth of good comedy out there. But those guys shifted the table. Because if you go back and look at the straighter ’60s comedies, like It’s a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World or any of the Rock Hudson, Doris Day things, they were just a little stiffer. It’s not to say they weren’t funny, but you know who was really cutting edge way before Caddyshack, when you go back and look at his career? Alan Arkin. If you go back and look at The Russians Are Coming or Catch 22. So certainly Alan Arkin was way ahead of the curve on all that stuff. But there wasn’t that kind of rebellious tone really except in Robert Altman’s work. If you go back and look at Robert Altman’s MASH, because I bet you dollars to donuts, that was a big, important film for Doug Kenney.

So what are you working on now?

I’m doing this thing with Kevin Bacon, City on a Hill, which I’m hoping will boot back up again. I got shut down right in the middle of the second episode of the season. It’s the second year on Showtime. It’s really a great show. I did a feature for Netflix that Bob Pulcini and Shari Berman directed. They’re the ones that did American Splendor, the thing about Harvey Pekar. This is with Amanda Seyfried and James Norton. And I got teamed back up with Karen Allen as husband and wife. And they had cast us without knowing that we had done a picture in 1980, right after Caddyshack in which we at later became boyfriend and girlfriend after. So that was fun. And then I did this thing with Adam McKay and John C. Reilly about the purchase of the Lakers. Reilly plays Jerry Buss and I played Jack Kent Cooke, the guy who sold them the Lakers. And then it’s really about the acquisition of Magic coming to the Lakers. And so that’s a Showtime pilot that I had been into. That was amazing.

‘Caddyshack’ turned 40 on July 25th, 2020. Vince Mancini is on Twitter. You can read his ‘Caddyshack’ 40th anniversary retrospective any day now.

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