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Blueface is now being sued for defamation, according to Rolling Stone, after he claimed he was the father of Soulja Boy‘s son. Jackilyn Martinez, the mother of the son she shares with Soulja Boy, was the one to file it in Los Angeles today.

The publication notes that she claimed her lawyers sent Blueface a cease-and-desist, following social media posts that he made about him being the father. “Might be my kid he ain’t even get the DNA test,” the rapper reportedly wrote in a post. In another, he claimed that he had sex with Soulja Boy’s “baby mama the day before your baby shower.”

“There is zero chance that the defendant is plaintiff’s child’s biological father,” Martinez’s filing read, per the outlet.

Martinez filed the lawsuit after Blueface had reportedly mocked the cease-and-desist on social media, which resulted in her getting death threats.

“Plaintiff is gravely concerned for herself and her child’s safety and well being, and plaintiff is extremely nervous and afraid to go outside and/or be in public,” she added in the filing. Martinez notes that she also believes Blueface is making the comments to get attention by “engaging in a feud” with Soulja Boy.

As part of the lawsuit, she is seeking “real and punitive damages, attorney’s fees, and a permanent injunction barring Porter from defaming her.”

Cardi B and Offset have reportedly been sued for both not paying rent and causing “significant property damage” on a Beverly Hills vacation home, according to TMZ. The publication claims that, from the court documents, the two left the property in October 2023, and did not provide notice to the landlord.

On top of this, the landlord who filed the lawsuit is also alleging that Cardi B and Offset owe at least $85,000 in the damages caused, which include “permanent scratches in the tile floors, rugs, and curtains, broken furniture, holes in the walls, and burn marks on things like tables, counters, and cabinets.” He claims he has been unable to contact either of them.

The alleged lawsuit follows Cardi B and Offset’s public split, which has played out on social media over the past few weeks. “I’m curious for a new life — for a new beginning,” Cardi revealed on a livestream just a couple of days ago. “And yeah, I’m excited.”

She also hopped on Twitter, directly tagging him in tweets about how she was fully planning to “take it there” about how he had been sucky to her.

It’s still unclear what caused their split, or if the dispute on the property with the landlord had anything to do with it.

Cardi B is a Warner Music artist. Uproxx is an independent subsidiary of Warner Music Group.

5 Seconds Of Summer dropped their new tour documentary, The 5 Seconds of Summer Show, which is now available on YouTube. The footage was recorded at the band’s Amsterdam concert in October, as they continued their tour of the same title.

Along with footage from the concert, there are clips of the band discussing the process of working on the tour — and their anniversary as a group.

“From the beginning, when we set out to do the tour, we really wanted to get the vibe right of like, what’s the tone that’s being set at the beginning of every 5SOS show?” the band’s guitarist, Michael Clifford, said in the doc, according to Rolling Stone. “And how can we make the light that’s kept us going of humor and fun mixed with high-energy shows.”

“Doing this tour, and it being so well received, has even more ignited this new frame of mind for the band,” lead band member Luke Hemmings shared. “We can have these songs that maybe sound like this and feel more in touch with the younger songs we wrote, but also going forward into a next album and tour, personally not being afraid of having a bit more fun with it and really capturing what the spirit of the band is.”

Check out 5 Seconds Of Summer’s new tour documentary above.

Flavor Flav recently opened up to TMZ to set the record straight about rumors regarding him and Chuck D, the other half of Public Enemy, having tension within their professional and personal relationship.

“A lot of people been asking me, ‘When is Public Enemy going to reunite?’” Flav said. “We never broke up to reunite. We just took a long break.”

“There wasn’t no beef,” he added. “I love my partner, man. And I know he loves me, too. You know what I’m saying? Sometimes, you know, you don’t see eye to eye on everything.”

Flavor Flav and Chuck D had a brief reunion to perform at the iHeartRadio Music Festival back in September. To be fair, it also hasn’t been that long since Public Enemy dropped a new album, as their last one was in 2020 with What You Gonna Do When The Grid Goes Down?. During their recent concert, they even premiered “Everywhere Man,” a new single that they have planned for a future release.

“One thing about me and Chuck, we always manage to pull it back together to see eye to eye and to keep moving forward,” Flavor Flav pointed out about their specific dynamic.

Check out the clip of Flavor Flav discussing how he feels about Chuck D above.

The NBA is typically a one-way door. When a player leaves for another league, it signals that they no longer meet the demands of the league or teams no longer view someone as an NBA-caliber player.

That’s what makes Dante Exum’s reemergence particularly interesting. Exum was taken fifth in the 2014 NBA Draft by Utah as a 6’5, dynamic point guard who could both run the show and fill in the gaps as an off-ball player. Exum never actualized his talent in Utah due to a litany of injuries that took his entire second season and limited his contributions moving forward. He would only play 215 games through five seasons before being traded to Cleveland in 2020, where he would play just 30 games through the 2021 campaign.

In Exum’s first NBA stint, his skills as a disruptive driver who doubled as a connective passer popped off the screen. He also became an infamous point of attack defender in the 2018 playoffs, when Utah deployed the devious plot to defend James Harden from behind on pick-and-roll actions. Utah could only deploy that scheme because Exum was long enough to disrupt Harden and quick enough to potentially get back in front of him on drives. Somewhere in Exum was a high-level basketball player, but injuries mixed with an inconsistent jumper prevented that player from ever coming to fruition.

In 2021, Exum went to the Europe to play for FC Barcelona, where most would assume that he would become a Remember Some Guys All-Star. But something happened while he was abroad: He sharpened his best basketball traits while improving the jumper that plagued him in the NBA. Exum shot 52 percent from on just over one attempt per game in his first EuroLeague season and then followed up by shooting 42 percent on over two attempts per game the following year. The shooting uptick was encouraging, but certainly not a big enough swing to guarantee a return to the NBA.

However, the Dallas Mavericks signed Exum to a minimum deal last offseason after bringing on former Jazz GM Dennis Lindsey as a consultant — Lindsey drafted Exum in 2014 and played a large role in the signing. Entering the season, Exum had a small bench role as the third point guard behind Luka Doncic and Kyrie Irving. It was unclear as to how much Exum would play due to those two needing the ball and the team’s desire to get reps for young guards Josh Green and Jaden Hardy. But as the season has progressed, Exum has gone from a guy who positively impacts the game in small stretches to an important part of the team’s rotation.

In 13 November games, Exum averaged just 11 minutes a night and shot a pedestrian 26 percent on threes, but he had an 8.7 net rating in his time on the floor. Most importantly, Exum flourished next to Doncic and Irving by initiating sets and allowing both of them to enter their pick-and-roll actions on the move. Dallas has quietly made the offense less taxing on its biggest star by allowing other players to bring the ball up the floor and initiate sets, thereby reducing the amount of time the ball is in Doncic’s hands. Exum, Doncic, and Irving have logged 40 minutes together this season and have a plus-49.8 net rating in that small sample size.

Just as Exum was hitting his stride alongside that duo, the Mavericks were hit with injuries to both Irving and Green, which forced Exum into a secondary ball-handling role. The role elevation led to the best stretch of Exum’s career. In eight December games, Exum is averaging 16.1 points, 4.1 rebounds, and 4.1 assists per game on 62 percent from the field and a ridiculous 53 percent on threes. This included a 26-point performance in a nationally televised win against the Lakers where Exum splashed seven threes — the Lakers game planned to leave Exum open and he made them pay.

The three-point shooting has been the headliner for Exum’s game, but he has also shown the finishing skills that made him a top-5 pick. Exum’s length and quickness allowed him to consistently get into the paint early in his career, but he often got into the paint without a plan or didn’t have the strength to finish around the rim. This season, Exum is shooting 73 percent within five feet of the rim. It’s a welcome sight for a Maverick team that struggles to create consistent rim pressure outside of Doncic and Irving. Exum caffeinates the Maverick offense, and when he gets to the rim, it’s a high percentage shot. When Exum is on the floor, the Mavericks pace is 102.75. Last season, they ranked 28th in pace at just 97.2.

Exum won’t maintain his hellfire three-point percentage, but if he can settle into being a consistent option, he has all the tools to be one of the best role players in basketball. He’s a big, high IQ guard who can make both Irving and Doncic better while also filling in if either misses a game. Exum’s first stint in the league didn’t go as plan, but he went to Europe, refined his game, and came back as a player who will have a role in the NBA for some time.

A mother’s exasperated reaction to getting Christmas gifts from her family in 1988 shows that things haven’t changed much for mothers in 35 years.

Jordan Alvillar, 36, was transferring his family’s old camcorder footage when he found this goldmine of footage of his mother. “I digitized my family’s home videos from the ’80s,” Jordan Alvillar, 36, captioned a TikTok video. “Here’s my mom’s soul leaving her body on Christmas Day!”

The shining moment is when Alvillar’s mother, Susan, opens up her gift, a Kitchen-Aid mixer. “It’s a mixer!” Susan says to the camera in a sarcastic deadpan. “Boy, oh boy, I can’t wait to use that to make my husband a wonderful meal.”

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“Just think of the tasty treats I can make my family with this mixer,” she continued. Even though she asked for the mixer, there’s something a little sad about giving a woman a kitchen appliance as a gift.

@jordielaura5

I digitized my family’s home videos from the 80s. Here’s my mom’s soul leaving her body on Christmas day! #familyvideos #homevideos #christmas #snarkyhumor #familymemories #motherhood #motherhoodunplugged

“Isn’t this just a wonderful holiday season? I’m so glad I’ve been able to cook and clean and just do things like a regular housewife should!” Susan says later in the video, to which her husband jokingly responds: “A woman’s work is never done!”

Women in the comments applauded Susan’s timeless performance on Christmas 1988.

“It’s like those clips you see on True Crime. ‘She seemed like a normal housewife. But she was about to murder them all,’” Bonky wrote. “I am a Mom in 2023 & I strongly feel every word she’s saying. Exhausted & overwhelmed Moms are timeless,” Erin added. “So moms have always been like this. I love it!” Milli commented.

Many people dream of somehow being able to pay their parents back for the sacrifices made for them during childhood. Whether that’s something physical, like paying off their mortgage, or simply being the best version of ourselves to make them absolutely proud.

For Lindsay Moore, it was finding a “prized possession” her dad once gave up to help the family, and returning it to him once again.

Moore still vividly remembers being only seven years old when she saw her father walk into a comic book store to sell a Dan Marino rookie football card from his first season with the Miami Dolphins.

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In a now-viral TikTok, Moore’s father is seen reliving this memory as he holds onto a Christmas bag and a family member reads a card out loud.

“Money was tight, so you were selling your most prized possession – at least I viewed it as that,” Moore wrote. “I felt your sacrifice and it taught me that I would do whatever necessary to ensure my future family never needed anything. It was a lesson that has stuck with me since that moment.”

It was also the moment she became “determined” to pay her father back. Cut to thirty years later, and her father is her Secret Santa. It was the perfect opportunity to fulfill that promise.

“I will never be able to fully repay that debt,” her note continued. “Seven-year-old me would be so elated to see that I finally fulfilled that promise I made to myself. Thank you for everything.”

As he listened, Moore’s dad began tearing up. Sure enough, he opened his gift to see it was the cherished card he sold all those years ago.

The video concludes as Moore and her father enjoy a warm embrace.

@lindseyswagmom

Im not crying, you’re crying

♬ original sound – Lindsey Moore

The sweet exchange certainly struck a chord online.

“When he started crying I LOST IT,” one person wrote.

Another added, “Something about bringing a grown man to tears always gets me.”

A few parents shared their own stories of sacrificing prized possessions.

“As someone who has sold his prized Gretzky rookie to provide for his kids, I appreciate and respect this a lot,” commented one person.

“Just had to sell my signature MacKinnon jersey to pay bills. Sucked so much but kid comes first,” echoed another.

On the flip side, some shared their one experience of getting to repay their parents. One wrote:

“I got to do this for my mom last year. She won a [Dolce & Gabbana] purse one year at work and sold it to buy my prom dress and never thought twice. She never [got] name brand anything. So this year I took her to get her very first name brand fancy hand bag or her picking, my treat.”

But perhaps the best comment belonged to this person, who astutely pointed out: “The card wasn’t the real gift to him. It was hearing his impact on you. Priceless.”

We might not all get to reclaim what our parents sacrificed. And that’s okay. There are so many other ways to share just how much of a positive impact they made on our lives. Even saying how much we appreciate them can be an invaluable reward. Yes. Really.

A mother’s exasperated reaction to getting Christmas gifts from her family in 1988 shows that things haven’t changed much for mothers in 35 years.

Jordan Alvillar, 36, was transferring his family’s old camcorder footage when he found this goldmine of footage of his mother. “I digitized my family’s home videos from the ’80s,” Jordan Alvillar, 36, captioned a TikTok video. “Here’s my mom’s soul leaving her body on Christmas Day!”

The shining moment is when Alvillar’s mother, Susan, opens up her gift, a Kitchen-Aid mixer. “It’s a mixer!” Susan says to the camera in a sarcastic deadpan. “Boy, oh boy, I can’t wait to use that to make my husband a wonderful meal.”

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“Just think of the tasty treats I can make my family with this mixer,” she continued. Even though she asked for the mixer, there’s something a little sad about giving a woman a kitchen appliance as a gift.

@jordielaura5

I digitized my family’s home videos from the 80s. Here’s my mom’s soul leaving her body on Christmas day! #familyvideos #homevideos #christmas #snarkyhumor #familymemories #motherhood #motherhoodunplugged

“Isn’t this just a wonderful holiday season? I’m so glad I’ve been able to cook and clean and just do things like a regular housewife should!” Susan says later in the video, to which her husband jokingly responds: “A woman’s work is never done!”

Women in the comments applauded Susan’s timeless performance on Christmas 1988.

“It’s like those clips you see on True Crime. ‘She seemed like a normal housewife. But she was about to murder them all,’” Bonky wrote. “I am a Mom in 2023 & I strongly feel every word she’s saying. Exhausted & overwhelmed Moms are timeless,” Erin added. “So moms have always been like this. I love it!” Milli commented.

Many people dream of somehow being able to pay their parents back for the sacrifices made for them during childhood. Whether that’s something physical, like paying off their mortgage, or simply being the best version of ourselves to make them absolutely proud.

For Lindsay Moore, it was finding a “prized possession” her dad once gave up to help the family, and returning it to him once again.

Moore still vividly remembers being only seven years old when she saw her father walk into a comic book store to sell a Dan Marino rookie football card from his first season with the Miami Dolphins.

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In a now-viral TikTok, Moore’s father is seen reliving this memory as he holds onto a Christmas bag and a family member reads a card out loud.

“Money was tight, so you were selling your most prized possession – at least I viewed it as that,” Moore wrote. “I felt your sacrifice and it taught me that I would do whatever necessary to ensure my future family never needed anything. It was a lesson that has stuck with me since that moment.”

It was also the moment she became “determined” to pay her father back. Cut to thirty years later, and her father is her Secret Santa. It was the perfect opportunity to fulfill that promise.

“I will never be able to fully repay that debt,” her note continued. “Seven-year-old me would be so elated to see that I finally fulfilled that promise I made to myself. Thank you for everything.”

As he listened, Moore’s dad began tearing up. Sure enough, he opened his gift to see it was the cherished card he sold all those years ago.

The video concludes as Moore and her father enjoy a warm embrace.

@lindseyswagmom

Im not crying, you’re crying

♬ original sound – Lindsey Moore

The sweet exchange certainly struck a chord online.

“When he started crying I LOST IT,” one person wrote.

Another added, “Something about bringing a grown man to tears always gets me.”

A few parents shared their own stories of sacrificing prized possessions.

“As someone who has sold his prized Gretzky rookie to provide for his kids, I appreciate and respect this a lot,” commented one person.

“Just had to sell my signature MacKinnon jersey to pay bills. Sucked so much but kid comes first,” echoed another.

On the flip side, some shared their one experience of getting to repay their parents. One wrote:

“I got to do this for my mom last year. She won a [Dolce & Gabbana] purse one year at work and sold it to buy my prom dress and never thought twice. She never [got] name brand anything. So this year I took her to get her very first name brand fancy hand bag or her picking, my treat.”

But perhaps the best comment belonged to this person, who astutely pointed out: “The card wasn’t the real gift to him. It was hearing his impact on you. Priceless.”

We might not all get to reclaim what our parents sacrificed. And that’s okay. There are so many other ways to share just how much of a positive impact they made on our lives. Even saying how much we appreciate them can be an invaluable reward. Yes. Really.

The Dry January challenge as we know it has around since the early 2000s, but the idea of taking a break from alcohol the first month of the year actually has its roots in World War II. To save resources, the Finnish government initiated “Raitis Januar,” or Sober January, in 1942, encouraging people to stop drinking alcohol entirely for at least that one month.

The modern Dry January has become more and more popular as people recognize the health benefits of abstaining from alcohol and acknowledge the impulse to cut back after the indulgent holidays. According to the American Association for Cancer Research, 19% of millennials, 14% of Gen Xers 12% of baby boomers say they plan to participate in Dry January 2024. That’s about 31 million Americans.

Some people find it easy to stop drinking for a month, while others find it more challenging. If you’re going to try to have a Dry January, here are some tips for a successful and satisfying month.

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Get clear on your ‘why’ and remind yourself of it often.

If you’ve decided to try Dry January, there must be a reason. Maybe you’re on a mission to take better care of your body. Maybe you’re questioning your relationship with alcohol. Maybe you feel like it’s a good self-discipline exercise. Maybe you read the WHO statement that no amount of alcohol can be considered safe or healthy.

Whatever your “why” is, keep it front and center in your mind—maybe even write it down someplace—so that you can call on it if or when you’re tempted to drink.

Find some yummy substitutes for your favorite drinks.

When you’re trying to cut something out, it can be helpful to have something to replace it with. Decide ahead of time what you’re going to order in a restaurant instead of wine or a beer. Lots of establishments offer non-alcoholic alternatives to those things, but you might also just choose a favorite soda or even just water. It’s just good to go in with a plan, rather than relying on whatever sounds good in the moment because what sounds good in the moment will likely be the alcohol drink you’d normally get.

You might even decide to treat yourself to a yummy mocktail so that you don’t feel like you’re missing out on the festive element of drinking. Mocktails have grown in popularity so it’s not an unusual request.

Read other people’s success stories.

Sometimes a little inspiration can be helpful, so reading about other people who’ve successfully completed a Dry January can help.There are plenty of success stories from people who have done Dry January at least once, but many who have done it each year. Testimonials like these ones from a Reddit thread can help keep you going:

“It was worth it. It was an effort to drink less, lose weight, sleep better. I lost 4 lbs, slept better, and generally had more energy and focus in the morning.”

“I’ve done it the past few years and love it. Honestly the hard part is the social side and less the alcohol side. I love a beer or a whiskey when hanging but the value of a clear head in the morning is increasing with my age. I find a reset helps me temper how much I drink in general. Like, the casual couch drink on a Tuesday goes away for a while after Jan. since it’s pretty worthless.”

Track how you feel (especially after the first week, which might suck).

One of the things people who complete Dry January often share is how much better they physically feel. Better sleep, less grogginess, more energy, better digestion, lowered blood pressure, weight loss and more are commonly reported. Some people experience these benefits right away, but for some it might take a bit to feel those benefits as your body adjusts to not processing alcohol. Stick with it and pay attention to how your body and brain feel without it as you go through the month.

(A word of warning: Alcohol Withdrawal Syndrome can occur in heavy drinkers who stop suddenly and can be dangerous, so watch for symptoms that are concerning. According to Harvard Health, mild withdrawal symptoms include anxiety, shaky hands, headache, nausea, vomiting, sweating, and insomnia. Severe symptoms can include hallucinations, delirium, racing heart rate, and fever, and often occur within two or three days after you stop drinking. Seek medical assistance immediately if you experience symptoms of alcohol withdrawal.)

Make it a group effort.

You can go through Dry January alone, but you probably don’t have to. Who among your friends and family might want to do it with you? Even if you find just a couple of people who agree to support you, that can make a big difference in how you feel about the challenge. Not drinking for a whole month can be hard if alcohol is a regular part of your life, especially your social life. Ask for help from your loved ones to provide non-alcoholic alternatives and not to put any pressure on you to drink, and if anyone is available and willing to do it with you, all the better.

If you slip up, don’t quit, just pick back up the next day.

The beauty of sobriety is that it truly is a daily (or hourly, or minute-by-minute) choice, so if you do find yourself with a drink in your hand, you haven’t ruined anything. Just pick it back up the next day and move forward. No need to beat yourself up. No need to give up completely.

For some people, Dry January is a welcome break for overall wellness. Others find it eye-opening when it’s a lot harder than they anticipated and use it as a wake-up call that leads to life-changing—and in some cases, life-saving—shifts in alcohol use.

Dry January may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but it can be a great tool to throw into your health and wellness toolbox if you’re up for it.